I;m confused,it makes me scared that i might not be able to get over my broken heart?
2007-12-28 01:54:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone that has been in or will be in a relationship will experience a broken heart, men and women. It all depends on your inner strength and how you handle adversity. When it happens, it's going to hurt.
First of all, you have to realize that you can move on from the hurt and pain of it. Try to surround yourself around things that are going to make you feel better. Go to a place that you can meditate. Surround yourself around your inner circle of friends, the ones that are going to support you with what ever you are going through (without judgment).
Take what you've gone through as a learning experience. Take the good things from the relationship and save and share them with someone that is going to enjoy them with you. And the other, use them for improving your standards to find someone that's going to fulfill your wants and needs.
2007-12-28 20:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by fjohn1991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had my share of broken hearts and let me tell you, when someone hurts you, you feel like you will never survive.... until you meet someone else who sweeps you off your feet and then you look back on the person who "broke your heart" and realise it probably wasnt true love anyway.
what doesnt kill you makes you stronger, and trust me, you will be fine in a while.... you will survive... your hearts not broken.... its just a bit sore thats all.
Just remember... they call them your "first love" for a reason.... because they are your first and not intended to be your last....
Just enjoy yourself, move on with your life and do the best you can to start the healing process. Make sure you are always surronded by good friends and family too.... that always helps.
Good luck sweetheart and remember what I said..... it'll be ok but its gonna take a little while to stop the pain
Cheer up :)
2007-12-28 02:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you loved the guy. Some women take years to grieve over lost 'soul mates,' and some women never get over it and just live w/ a bunch of cats as a sort of replacement for a broken heart. But it also depends on your age...
2007-12-28 01:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tiara J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it goes both ways. You may never truly "get over" the heart break but you will grow from it. When we get hurt it is up to us to decide how we deal with it. We can wallow in it and let it destroy us OR we can take the pain and channel it into some good. We can use the experience and learn from it and be a better person.
We carry with us baggage from past experiences but we have to learn and move forward in order to be truly happy. Every person who comes into our lives leaves a mark on us .... you just have to decide if the mark will be a bruise or not.
2007-12-28 02:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heart never breaks.....it's just a "saying".Life never stops for occurrence of a break up.That's quite common.We usually become more mature in the process.Just take everything in your stride.Be Bold and act like a real Man.There are many more there around you.Be sure , you will get a suitable one soon.
God Bless
2007-12-28 02:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really check out Michael Fiore's video on how to get your ex back in a matter of days through text messages. It's crazy but it works, I never believed I could get back with my ex wife in this life time but it did happened. I cheated on her a lot of times and still we are back together (won't do it again), unbelievable what some psychology can do.
Anyway, watch the video here: http://www.textyourexback.link - it will blow your mind. Good luck!
2014-08-11 02:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never get over losing someone that you love. But I can promise you that with time it will get easier! I have had my heart broken many times and I am still here!
2007-12-28 01:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by *MrS. PrIsS* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey hun i know how you feel...the truth is if you really love someone...you will never get over them, (what happened w/ me was my b/f and i broke up after 2 years, and everytime i looked at his picture or even thought of him,,heard his name i would ball my eyes out...im over the crying...but i still feel heartbroken when i see him and i know he's not mine...my mom has the same feeling with my dad...they were married for 23 years, but my dad had other women living in the house since thier 2nd year of marriage...now they are divorced and him and his new wife are staying in my house and my mom tells me she still feels like crying when she sees them together....you wont get over it...but it will get better...but love is something you dont want to get over...never regret something that once made you smile....= )...hope i helped hun and if ya need any help or anything u can email me...
♥bobbie sueyy♥
2007-12-28 02:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by bobbie sueyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget
It sucks I know, I don't eat at mcdonalds because a girl last name mcdonalds broke my heart...only burger king
and hate the Acura TL White..f'n car
2007-12-28 01:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me guess, you feel like you are in love and that it doesnt make sense why the guy doesnt like you back? im in the same position, i promise you'll het over him. think about it, you dont want to end up with a guy you struggled for, but with a guy that wanted you right? and if its meant to be with you guys, you'll end up together. you will get through this dont worry
2007-12-28 02:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋