Singles & Dating - 24 December 2007

2007-12-24 13:29:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a situation in which I became close friends with a girl I worked with. We still are very good friends. I didn't have romantic interest in her at first, but then those feelings started to grow and now I want to be with her. We talk to each other a lot, but I think she only thinks of me as a friend. I couldn't make my intentions clear at first because I simply did not feel that way about her until almost a year ago. I still have not told her how I felt, and I don't know if I should. I think she will reject me and it will be so humiliating and I'll end up losing a friend as well. I think this always happens to guys who have female friends and then they feel something more. The guy simply cannot move the friendship into a relationship because the girl won't let it happen. Isn't this true for the most part?

2007-12-24 13:25:17 · 11 answers · asked by iridealone 2

2007-12-24 13:23:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What exactly do you do when you have never been married & your family is all dead and you sooner or later might get sick & have to go to a hospital. Might even be for regular test at certain ages. Just routine stuff. Who takes you to the hospital & stays with you & takes you home? Who stays with you for a couple days until the drugs wear off? My cousin who is from out of town is in the same situation & we were talking about it He owns a Radio Station & I have Rental property, so don't say that we should live together. That is out of the question. What do older single people do that do not have anybody & the time comes for help? Neither of us has any close friends or neighbors. Friends are gone too & others too busy.

2007-12-24 13:14:03 · 4 answers · asked by J.J. 1

Plus, you are from different social groups and people would criticize it? Do you feel like you are pushing someone away when you want to be with them? Have you ever rejected somebody who you cared about because you felt you would be criticized for it?

2007-12-24 13:09:50 · 20 answers · asked by person 1

I don't know if it was truly love, but it felt like it. We ended up breaking it off and it still hurts to this day. What did you do?

2007-12-24 13:02:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay well i know this guy.. And i really like him.. He likes me too..But hes 23... I know it sounds so SO wrong but it feels really right.. Hes so lovley and hes not a pervert atall.. We kinda talked about us. And were not gunna do anything about it till im 16.. Hes not tryna get me into anything.. But like.. What are the laws like.. Can we be together when im 14 aslong as we dont have sex? And do you think its really that wrong?

2007-12-24 12:57:17 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously do you think most girls just want guys for the money?, is that how almost every single male out there who gets a girlfriend so easily because he has money with him all the time?, and I'm not talking about prostitutes, they don't count for me. When I mean girls I mean the attractive, cute ones, average and above. Is that how most guys out there attract girls?, just because they are loaded with money?, it sure seems like society is like that today.

2007-12-24 12:55:18 · 14 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6

i want to know wat we should do

2007-12-24 12:54:58 · 15 answers · asked by kcris91 1

I'm in the 8th grade and this girl told me she liked me. But two days later she tells me that she had a feeling that she liked me but then didn't like me. She is my friends sister. Does that mean she likes me but doesn't want to risk her brother, my friend, finding out? Or does she just have mixed emotions?

2007-12-24 12:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by weirdman22 1

My ex called to wish me a happy birthday a little bit ago and also a merry christmas. He was really sincere and even asked me how I was doing. It was nice until he said that whenever I get bored or want to talk, to just call him. Should I call him back? Now he was really nice but I have no idea if he wants me to call him or not. Lately, hes been giving me mixed signals like asking my friends about me and even asking jokingly if I've replaced him with someone else. Could someone maybe clear this up. I want to be friends with him again, but I am not sure if I should?

2007-12-24 12:51:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this guy for 4 months. We knew each other for two before that.
The problem is he is a control freak. If I'm not available whenever he wants me to be he whines and says how it takes a toll on him mentally. But when I've been gone, I let him know that it's when I'm sick or with family.

Meanwhile, he is busy all the time with his family and work, which I don't complain about.

Recently I wrote him an email which stated that I feel he is taking me for granted until basically something better comes along. He agreed my assessment to be 'true' but didn't say anything else and expects us to continue along like everything's normal.

Meanwhile, he feels like he can come over whenever he wants without calling yet I can't do the same because of his 'privacy' issues. He is paranoid that I am seeing someone else and not 'satisfied' (I have never expressed or felt this) but yet he's the one who's always looking!

How do I break up with this guy without more emotional blackmail?

2007-12-24 12:34:20 · 3 answers · asked by bluflaym 2

and if so , how much sex

2007-12-24 12:31:41 · 19 answers · asked by Paul C 2

i broke up with him because he was mean to me. 2day he left a gift for me at my house and he just called me telling me happy xmas and asking me if i like the gift (which i am NOT going to open, i was planning on returning it) and then he went on talking about how he loves me still and how he wants to be with me again and how he will change and all that stuff. well anyways i do miss him alot and i do still love him but idk if we should get back together, he was crying on the phone telling me how he wants to be back with me and how he is sorry. should i forgive him? we were together for 2.5 years, what should i do? because i still do love him alot

i broke up with him because he hit me

2007-12-24 12:27:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-24 12:26:00 · 14 answers · asked by peanuts for the lady 1

I live with my boyfriend.... we are not engaged. He's said if I want a diamond I'm gonna have to buy it myself. So I told him me living there as a room- mate is fine with me.

His kids come over every weekend. Lately he's been getting mad when I leave on Sundays to go visit my family.
He says there's alot of work to be done around the house.. mostly laundry, cooking and entertaining while the kids are there.... and he needs help.

I work six days a week teaching and I like to get away from kids on my only day off during the week... besides, we agreed to a "room - mate level" relationship.

Why is he angry about this?

2007-12-24 12:21:35 · 19 answers · asked by Kaybee 4

2007-12-24 11:59:11 · 5 answers · asked by sexylatina95 1

Sometimes during sex this can just happen to a women....ladies what did you do just clean it up, were you embarrassed? how did you fix the problem...?

Men did you comfort her or make fun of her? did it gross you out?

2007-12-24 11:52:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how would u ask ur boyfriend to take a bath or a shower with u when his parents r home and ur leaving with them

2007-12-24 11:46:45 · 24 answers · asked by Someoneslilgirl 2

ok so my girlfriend likes both male and female and it has never bothered me but as i was speeking to someone on msn they don't really think it is good for a guy to go out with a Bi. i don't see a problem unless she cheats on me (i don't think she is that type of person to) and i find it funny when we walk into town and we both say "oh she is fit aint she"

well i think ill be falling out with my mate who don't like it but what is your opinion

2007-12-24 11:36:44 · 12 answers · asked by washable mist 4

Or are you such a compuslive liar that you lie even to yourself?

2007-12-24 11:28:13 · 7 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2

Once I say I am a christian and that I dont have premarital sex, they are out the door. I dont understand... I am begin told that I will an old maid before I find a man willing to wait till marriage.

2007-12-24 11:25:51 · 10 answers · asked by DconS 1

I guy I met months ago whose in another country recently exchange some pics of each other. And he said that I'm so pretty! LOL cuz I don't think I am. I don't know if really meant it cuz someone who knows him told me he's a player and has a beautiful GF.If I knew he had a GF wouldn't have bother. Why are men like that I never asked him to what he thought about the pics. Why bother and lie or is that the womenizer wants some action that's never gonna get from me anyway. What you think?

2007-12-24 11:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-24 11:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me & my boyfriend have been together not even a week
& I feel like he's pressuring me to makeout with him or even have s3x =/

I know I'm wayy too young, I'm only 14 & I'm not down to do any of that...

I'm still learning to makeouttt! Hahahaha :)

If he tries to make a move on me, or moves too fast I'm gonna have to breakup with him..

Good idea?

2007-12-24 11:10:52 · 24 answers · asked by Brii. 3

My bf's ex came back into his life, and he just recently told me that hes not completly over her. He basically told me that he's still in love with her. But he says that he does love me, and still wants to be with me. I love him, but I dont know what to do. Should I end it with him?

2007-12-24 11:09:35 · 17 answers · asked by Ally C 1

2007-12-24 11:08:16 · 4 answers · asked by cas 3

I liked this guy for ages and i had a feeling he liked me back but we never talked (gave lots of signs though). After 2 weeks vacation, one of his best friends (a girl) who's kinda friends with me told me he said he liked her (she didnt know about me liking him) and i was so shocked, but she didnt like him back in that way and told him so. Then i told one of his friends i liked him and he went and told him (without me knowing). Then the guy i like started talking to me a lot online then confessed that he liked me! I asked him about the other girl he liked and he said that had passed, he liked me. I think he only liked her because he thought he couldnt have me and that she was always acting as if she fancied him.
Anyway he has been spending a lot of time with me and is really sweet and talked about us going out etc so should i believe that he does really like me?
And could i be right in him only liking the other girl because he thought he couldnt have me and cause she flirted with him?

2007-12-24 11:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

her parents are crazy, she cant go anywhere and its christmas break
but she wont come

2007-12-24 11:05:07 · 23 answers · asked by johnny B 1

i don't really understand why guys do that. :[[ Anybody wanna clarify?

2007-12-24 11:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by Natalie 1