Singles & Dating - 24 December 2007

2007-12-24 10:58:23 · 12 answers · asked by DR.MARTENS 2

i have a bf who are 3 month separated and two children it is hurting me to have this relationship because i know the fact that he would never put me 1 and i would never be his priority? and miserable feeling soround me everyday he werent there for me when i needed him most very sad,,he goes to me i will introduce you to my kids in two months time and this and that i am sicking tired of his excuce what should i do? we been out for 5 months now but i never felt happy of this relationship from day 1 i called it off most every week and change my number and everything but i ended up coming back to him why? do u think i love him? or just scared being alone or lonely? i am 24 and he 43 btw.he`s very insecure,posesive,obssesed too i am so confused what i should do ? i really want to end this craps for goods but he always say u need to be patience everything will be ok,,dont throw something good that we mingh have in the future this and that and that`s melt my heart,,, please help,,!!!!

2007-12-24 10:51:48 · 2 answers · asked by milarosa 1

2007-12-24 10:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by shelly.lamb 2

2007-12-24 10:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 2

2007-12-24 10:43:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-24 10:42:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think that a 42 year old man is too old for a 21 year old woman?

2007-12-24 10:39:31 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

if i get asked to have sex by i guy that likes me and i really like him should i just tell him yes or to wait because im kinda ready but im kinda not

2007-12-24 10:38:13 · 23 answers · asked by Kara_Sue 2

Im Tiny
Just under 5 foot.
I have blonde hair and blue eyes
but i am much smaller than all my friends.

What do you guys think of small girls?
Im 15, from england.

2007-12-24 10:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ts a funny thing really...
i had so much hope put into you
i wished and crossed my fingers
it was useless, now that i look back
we closed our eyes and consumed
yet i think i knew all along it wouldnt be true
i thought you might care enough though
to spare me
you tore away my heart
blood and all
you didnt know you were a monster
but you chewed me up and spat me out
broken
i mended in time
but i can never be the same
i know now that it is possible to fear what you want to the most
its hard for me to get close to anyone anymore
... i think im afriad ill be broken agian
does that make me afriad of love?

written by me.
11.24.07

2007-12-24 10:32:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now I like him and I don't know if he likes me. My friend says he might but I am unsure. Everytime he see's me he smiles at me and I do the same. I'm really unsure. I don't know if he would like me. I am a year younger and I wont be at the same school as him for another six months. BTW I just saw him a couple days ago like three times and he smiled at me, from what I could see. Please help. Thank you so much!
Also last year he asked my friend my name and said that he would make sure to remember it.
Also whenever I was in the same room as him he would always say "hey" and no one else would and I had plenty of friends near by, but he was always the first to say it!
By the way I never really see him unless there is something going on at my school seeing a family member of his still goes to my school.Do you think he would ever ask me out or should I ask him out? Also I don't really see him or his friends that often. Thanks for your time and Happy Holidays!

2007-12-24 10:08:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

lol

2007-12-24 10:04:05 · 6 answers · asked by cant take heat?get the f%&k out! 4

my ex totaly cheated on me with some ugly chick! at first i was pissed but now i realize that if he was to ask me out agian, i would say yes. i miss him and is it wrong to give him another try? that is if he wants me still.

2007-12-24 10:01:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

well I was going out with this guy for a couple of weeks but then we broke it off because he said he didn't want a girlfriend...well he actually said he really likes me just can't commit right now because he's too stressed with uni & needs to finish the semester coming up before making commitments & he's sorry its hif fault. We're now friends.

When I was talking to him he asked what I was up to n I said nothing and he said what would you rather be doing?...
i replied something bout going out but can't cos have to work th next day. I asked him what would he rather be doing #7 he said
'driving back to my mansion to my gorgeous naked girlfriend.' What do you think he expected me to say or feel?

He knows I like him and we spent every minute with eachother before he asked me out, then it fizzled out cos he can't commit. He's been out with 1 girl for 2 months and has only slept with her & was his longest relationship. He still wants to meet me though

2007-12-24 09:58:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night i got drunk, and i woke up naked in my aunts bed,
she told me we had sex and i dont even remember it,

is she lying to me, did she spike my drink and take advantage of me?

im 19 by the way and my aunt is 45

2007-12-24 09:58:34 · 11 answers · asked by Playa P'z 2

i wa out the other night with my boyfriend and i bumped into this guy who i used to just mess around with really...we were never going out or anything
he asked me if i was going out with my boyfriend and when i said yes he said "WHAT?? you can do so much better"
I thought this was a pretty nasty thing to say but my friends said it was a compliment...what do you think?
afterwards he was all flirty with me and i think he is just trying to keep me close so he can have me whenever he likes
I dont know whether i have the wrong impression of him or am I right...what do you think??

thanks
xxxx

2007-12-24 09:58:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, i went to my best friends house last weekend. we have been friends for about 5 years. i tell her EVERYTHING!! Well... last weekend, me and her uncle, who is about 35, (im 16) had sex. I know I can't tell her because our friendship would be over and i dont think i can do that, but what should i do? i can't really talk to him about it because its never just me and him alone, and then its just really akward... i dont know... it makes me feel like a whore because other than him, i have had sex with 3 other guys. and only one of them was i in a relationship with... am i a whore?

2007-12-24 09:51:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so here is the deal, I kissed this guy who liked me, but I really didn't like him. Just so I could have my first kiss. I was 16 and had never been kissed, how pathetic, so I thought might as well. Is this bad? i feel really guilty that i lead him on and used him for my first kiss? What should I do?

2007-12-24 09:47:33 · 9 answers · asked by Kate♥ 3

Wrapped it with a note saying: Each of these necklaces has a meaning; And, although I picked this one because of the color of the flower, it must be a coincidence that this one stands for beauty...right?

Hope you like it;

Merry Christmas, and God bless.

I've known the girl for a long time, and I think she may like me...does the note sound weird/ stupid?

Let me clear up age...Im 19 shes 18, but neither of us have had a bf/ gf before.

I really care about her as a friend, and dont want to cross any lines i cant step back across if she isnt interested...Opinions?

2007-12-24 09:47:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

who can be very outgoing and funny, but you have to get to know her first and make her comfortable around you?

2007-12-24 09:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by pepperland 4

Well this girl is recovering from a break-up. We became friends and discovered that we had great chemistry. She stopped talking about her ex and became really positive.So after a month I made a move. She showed me her cheek when I tried to kiss her. I texted her later asking why, then she said we indeed had great chemistry. But she wanted me only as a platonic friend who is there for her!

She said she is not ready for relationship now, but even when she is she will NOT choose me, becuase she thought i was special and will keep me as an intiamate friend. She said she wants intimacy from me and wants me to be there for her everyday but does not want anything physical with me ever.

I feel completely used and hurt. What she said was equivalent to a guy saying, I want physcal relationship with u but nothing emotional, but in this case it was the reverse. There is no way I can take her offer. But what do other girls and guys think? Is this a test of some kind or is she using me?

2007-12-24 09:32:25 · 22 answers · asked by yes 5

So there is this guy who I like but he is going out with another girl.
My friends have asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said yes but after his girlfriend if they broke up.What do I do?
Do I wait or move on?

2007-12-24 09:31:37 · 10 answers · asked by Sidney. 2

i really want a certain girl 2 go out with me how can i make that happen

2007-12-24 09:31:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

so, me and this guy starting dating at the beginning of the month. he is a great and wonderful guy, but he is not ready to commit to just dating me, which i understand. but I have never been one to see more than one guy at a time (not even talking to another guy)..i don't want to invest my all until i know he is, but i don't know how long that will be and if it will ever be..i don't want my time wasted, yet i truely like him, but i know i will be hurt and get jealous until if and when he does just become me...i really just don't know what to do. i think to myself, well, i should keep my options open to and talk and meet other guys, but it sucks bcs once i like someone as much as i do him, then i really don't give others a chance.... i know patience is a virtue but....someone, tell me what i should do, please.....

2007-12-24 09:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by koifish 2

My ex( again) ran off aawy from me again. Every few years we get real real close, quite fast. It is intense and amazing on every level. Then she suddenly does not want to talk, and seems to forget everything that just happened, and becomes emotionally detached. She has ben thru a lot as a child. I asked her why she keeps doing this to me and he response was" I am everything that she wants in her life, and it scares her death" Is this just an excuse ladies? Or is this possible?

2007-12-24 09:18:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is really making me sick

2007-12-24 09:16:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

HI

I'm such a dork and really need help i swear and i would love for this to work out.

Ok i've asked advice b4 on here, so need even more help
well i chatted uo this barmaid while i was drunk at a work party which i don't know how.

so we have been out on our first date, it didn't go to bad, we talked a bit conversation ended a bit dry coming to the end which is a bad thing, i think i might of talked a bit to much bout myself, don't think i asked a lot of questions she seemed to i think.

Trouble is we were drinking so i kinda don't know what we talked about but we got a second date and i've got no clue what so ever to talk about to her as my shyness and nervousness gets in my way. We talked about where we grew up, music, etc the usaul just don't know how i'm gonna really tlak to her about it as i new to this really

I REALLY need help here on what to talk about

where i could take her on a second date, i was thinking ice skating as she told me she used to fugure skate

2007-12-24 09:15:26 · 5 answers · asked by crazyirishnuttah 3

Ok i made a mistake and hooked up with a guy i shouldn't have. But the sex was good. I'm sore now, but at the time it was like he was filling me up in a way i never had been before and it felt extremely good (even thought it hurt a little). He was also very dominant and confident and just seemed to know what he was doing. Am i going to be thinking back to this experience every time i'm with a normal guy in the future?

2007-12-24 09:04:19 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda J 1

There's this girl that I dated last year and we broke up like 6 months ago. It took about a week together over it, but she still doesn't want to leave me alone!! I dont know how I should get rid of her. I tried letting her talk to my cousin, but that didnt work so how should i get her to stop!!

2007-12-24 09:01:12 · 4 answers · asked by Ya Already Know!! 2

Theres this girl i had a thing with for a while, and lat weekend she told me she just thought of me as a friend now. So i started to back off to not be the creepy lurker ex. She has been texting me a lot this week but i havn't been able to respond right away because ive been busy. So on Saturday she texted me asking whats up when i was at a family dinner thing so i couldn't respond. then like a hour later she asked if i was mad at her and i was like no why would i be mad at you? then told her i had been busy and asked what she was up to, and she hasn't texted me back...Why would she get all worried about me being mad at her then when i talk to her about it she doesn't even write back????

2007-12-24 08:59:13 · 16 answers · asked by Baseballer 1