Dating advice?

Question

HI

I'm such a dork and really need help i swear and i would love for this to work out.

Ok i've asked advice b4 on here, so need even more help
well i chatted uo this barmaid while i was drunk at a work party which i don't know how.

so we have been out on our first date, it didn't go to bad, we talked a bit conversation ended a bit dry coming to the end which is a bad thing, i think i might of talked a bit to much bout myself, don't think i asked a lot of questions she seemed to i think.

Trouble is we were drinking so i kinda don't know what we talked about but we got a second date and i've got no clue what so ever to talk about to her as my shyness and nervousness gets in my way. We talked about where we grew up, music, etc the usaul just don't know how i'm gonna really tlak to her about it as i new to this really

I REALLY need help here on what to talk about

where i could take her on a second date, i was thinking ice skating as she told me she used to fugure skate

Answer 1

ask her more about herself.

if your worried about conversation, go and see a film instead (will give you something to talk about) and have something to eat after. you could always go skating for your third date.

might be a good idea to stay sober as well.

Answer 2

Are you interested in this girl? I mean REALLY interested.
Because I was shy too but I have to tell you, once you're really interested in someone there shouldn't be any block on conversation because your interest will show. You're going to want to know everything about her, down to whether or not she masturbate and how many times! So this girl you think you're into, maybe you're not as into her as you think you are. Maybe you just want to get "into" her and that's probably the fact.
In that case, listen to what she says and ask questions based on that and hopefully she won't see that yuo just want to get in her pants.
Either way, if you're all into yourself, you'll never have good conversations with anyone.

Answer 3

Go on the second date, don't drink on this one. If it comes up, then own up that you drank a bit too much on the last date and don't have an accurate memory of that evening.

Answer 4

People like to talk about themselves,give her a chance to tell you about her life etc & try to stay off the drink.good luck

Answer 5

ask her about her childhood, what schools she went to, how many pets, idk, u think of something!