Singles & Dating - 24 December 2007

A number of people have said that I am boring on the phone & it is REALLY bringing me down. How can I change this? What tips can I get? How should I act on the phone? Please don't say these people aren't your friends because that's not what I want to hear =(..xx

2007-12-24 08:58:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a convo w/ my brother cause i was telling him that im scared that my bf would cheat, (i dont trust men cause how i was raised) i love him and i know he loves me and is the best bf you could ask for but i still have an insecurity. anyhow my brother said all men do it and if they dont then its because they are scared they will get caught. is this true? i just would like to know to have other perspectives. my bf is going to new york for christmas and from what my brother told me is now making me worry. please no stupid answers, just the truth. thanks.

2007-12-24 08:45:05 · 17 answers · asked by bubbles 2

*sigh* I get that cheating is disrespecting someone by allowing another into your relationship, and usually thats the end. But my BF is pretty different. When he found out, things were pretty hard, he basically told me that if that ws what i wanted, he loved me enough to let me make my own choices. It may be a little hard to express, but i feel like crap for what I did, and he hasn't been himself. I havent spoken with the other guy ever since, so i've been giving everything i can for him instead. Everything he always wanted from me but it was always so hard to fully give him, my time, my affections, he always did those for me to make up for not meeting him halfway. He doesn't speak a lot anymore, even when we're cuddling, it wasn't like before where he made me feel so warm all the time, i'm doing most of the work now and based on his expressions, im terrible at it. I'm pretty much prepared to give him anything to make things better, asides from time, how can i make up for what i did?

2007-12-24 08:41:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so you probably hear this all the time, "I want to ask a really hot girl out, but I'm afraid to get turned down... blah, blah blah." Ok, so I'm that good looking over-weight guy, I'm about 6 months away from getting the "extras" off. I get checked out a lot by a lot of women. My gal-pals say I have a powerful, attractive and "magnetic" presence. So I'm ready to come out of my shell and connect with some of the amazing, beautiful women I see all the time - even though I'm still overweight. I'm also in my early 30's (though most women think I'm in my twenties)

So hey, I need to ask... should I even bother? I mean, in my brain, really attractive women have their pick of guys - they can hook up with anyone - why would they hook up with me?

Thoughts?

2007-12-24 08:39:42 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3

I put my profile up on MATCH 2 weeks ago, I havent payed suscription yet since I am out of the country until january, but I´ve being looking to profiles and saved my favorites one of my favorites emailed me but since I havent payed I cant see my emails, so he just deleted his profile and I was wondering if after I payed am I sitl going to be able to read his emails that he sent me while he was up on MATCH???

2007-12-24 08:31:55 · 9 answers · asked by aais 3

well i have been talking to my ex boyfriend now for a couple weeks. but since we broke up 11 years ago i have 2 kids and stretch marks from it. my question is should i tell him about the stretch marks before we sleep together or not. im very embarassed about them. and im not sure if im going to feel comfortable being naked with him. not knowing what he thinks about the stretch marks. what do i do? im only 26.

2007-12-24 08:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by SEXYCHICK2008 3

Stares at you for at least 3 hours but when you look back at him and he turns away really fast and gets his friend to annoy you. Does that mean he likes you?

2007-12-24 08:25:25 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres a guy in my class and ive noticed he stares at me sometimes and seems nervous around me. Also when i smile at him he always gives me a big grin back. The other day i was talking to some friends and he interrupted and asked me a question about myself, when i answered he got defensive and acted like I gave him attitude... i dont think im a scarey person though, im really shy!

why is he being like this?

2007-12-24 08:22:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can i do to make my gf to really love me and maybe even have sex?

2007-12-24 08:20:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think women should be given the same right as men and be allowed to go topless why cant we

GUYS would you be offended if we did

2007-12-24 08:13:52 · 5 answers · asked by LeeAnn 1

i asked my girl friend who she is going out with on new years eve, she said that its none of my ******* business. so i dumped her felt bad about doing it but she treats me like yesterdays newspaper. was i rite in kicking her to the curb?

2007-12-24 08:06:43 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sit next to this really cute guy in all my lessons. The only problem is that hes a popular and all the girls fancy him. im the only sane one who doesnt drool over him. We talk now and then but he doesnt know im alive most times! HELP I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY!

2007-12-24 07:59:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guys who do this to young girls, young women, they make me more angry and feel more hatred then anything else I can think of. I just cant understand why you do it, and if you do, it bothers me even more that you dont use protection, then there is rape, there is no justification or forgiveness i can think of.
These are daughters, Mothers, Aunts, Nieces, Sisters, how would you feel if it was done to them, so Why do it, have you no concept of Honor?

2007-12-24 07:55:51 · 2 answers · asked by Wes: i dont give thumbs down 7

He's 22 and i'm 18. We both are college students. I broke up with him for too many reasons. He was selfish and wanted to be with his own friends most of the time. He never had time to spend with me. He didn't have respect either. I didn't get enough love and attention from him( i'm not ugly or fat at all. I'm 5.3 and 90 pounds and people tell me that i have beautiful face, i don't wanna be rude...that's what they say.) I was always nice to him and helped him alot at school and with his homework even though English is my second language. A lied to me about a few things. And i finally decided to leave him. I was tired of being nice all the time and get nothing( i mean love)..He didn't care about me. And he was sorry all the time but what was the point of being sorry?...I think i ended everything in a nice way..I text him" let's be freinds and have good holiday"..But now he doesn't act like i'm his friend...He acts like he doesn't know me at all. Or he doesn't see me. Why is that?

2007-12-24 07:49:41 · 27 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1

Or would you want a guy that had partners before rather than a virgin?

2007-12-24 07:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by SuperCobra 1

Ok I slept with a guy and afterward realized it was a huge mistake. I don't want anything more to do with him, but he keeps calling and texting me and basically acting like he owns me now. He hasn't threatened me about the pics but I'm afraid of what he might do once he realizes I'm not going to give it up again.

2007-12-24 07:39:14 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda J 1

you have sex in a relationship. i know it varies between people. so i just need some opinions.

2007-12-24 07:37:22 · 23 answers · asked by Nany 1

i hear it alot by men they say that we (woman ) are wierd creatures ..so why is that??????????????????

2007-12-24 07:36:32 · 26 answers · asked by Tekoo 3

A good male friend I like started talking about farting..just joking around. I was like eww.

He laughed too.

I was hoping he would have romantic feelings for me...

Does him taking like this mean he only sees me as a friend?

2007-12-24 07:35:53 · 18 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3

i get this just about everywhere i go with family members. whenever a family member see an attractive woman they say to me "there you go" or those attract women" or something similar to that. in order to talk to these women that they see i need some type of conversational skills which i dont have. i tell them that and they say no you dont. help me out

2007-12-24 07:28:54 · 3 answers · asked by Madmen22 1

i want women who honestly want more (seek it out). or are there women out there with a man whether boyfriend or hubby... that cant help but fantasize or look at other men wanting a 'bigger' size?

2007-12-24 07:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

do they notice or not?

2007-12-24 07:23:08 · 28 answers · asked by y00h_Kn0_y00h_luv_Me! 1

we met at a party, and talked all evening. but my brother was there too and told me not to flirt with him, but we continued to talk. and we had a really good conection and he told me i was funny and pretty. and then we talked a bit about facebook, and he said he wanted to register to talk to me. but i dont think he will do it, maybe hes too shy. should i invite him to join? i have his email. i have liked him for ages and we had a good connection

2007-12-24 07:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by KAY9090 1

Hi, i just turned 18, but the thing is like i don't get along with people very well....especially because of my stuttering (which i'm doing my best to rectify), i always feel alone and left out, and angry and depressed most of the time because of this....I don't exactly go over the top when i meet people, i'm usually polite, but alot of people tell me that i don't "open up", how can i do this? This happens anywhere i go, i'm always the loner, but now i'm making some serious efforts, but i feel most of them are going to waste....Sorry to sound like a pessimist, especially in this joyous holiday season, but that's the way i feel ........

2007-12-24 07:19:46 · 17 answers · asked by D Padua 1

2007-12-24 07:14:41 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't get it, all you do is stand outside all night in the cold. Why is it a big deal? I've done it many times???

2007-12-24 07:12:54 · 10 answers · asked by mikoashinakowu 2

if a guy you don't know and aren't interested in declares his love for you and tells you how beautiful you are and how he cant stop thinking about you? how would you feel? what would you tell him?

2007-12-24 07:11:19 · 33 answers · asked by ballalot6 1

Ok, well, my boyfriend is kind of popular in school so he has ALOT of friends. I go over his house almost everyday. Its like my second home and his parents are the sweetest people in the world. Well, recently, my boyfriends ex- called him and told him that there was a girl named Katy that liked him. My boyfriend told her that he was not going to dump me for her because he likes me and he does not have feelings for Katy but they could be friends and hang out. So the next day Katy went over there to hang out for a few hours. Talk about Basketball and watch a movie with him and his parents in his living room. So he called me and he was pretty upset. He said that Katy left and his mom told him that she liked her a little bit more than me. And asked why he didnt go out with her. He told her that he didnt like her that way and how dare she even THINK like that and his mom said, "Whatever, its your choice." Me and my boyfriend are kind of hurt by this, and I want his family to be closer to me

2007-12-24 07:11:13 · 17 answers · asked by *Natalie.* :P 5

I need to get my girlfriend something for Christmas...I know its hecka lete but I have 24 hours to get her something!!! lol... I need ya'll help... I'm not good at buying girls gifts...So what should I get her? Thanks

2007-12-24 06:55:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 16 and we usually had sex atleast every weekend now he just says not nnow or that he's to busy..
am i ugly or something??
im really tall and a little chubby.
im scared he doesnt like me anymore
any suggestions?

2007-12-24 06:54:47 · 35 answers · asked by sadie 1