well i have been talking to my ex boyfriend now for a couple weeks. but since we broke up 11 years ago i have 2 kids and stretch marks from it. my question is should i tell him about the stretch marks before we sleep together or not. im very embarassed about them. and im not sure if im going to feel comfortable being naked with him. not knowing what he thinks about the stretch marks. what do i do? im only 26.
2007-12-24 08:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by SEXYCHICK2008 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Blondie 9 If he can't handle the stretch mark, how on earth would he handle your children. I think if he cares he will be loving enough to take you as you are, and for who you are. If not you better say good bye for another 11 years. Hope this is of value. Have a Merry Christmas!
2007-12-24 08:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by mandm68 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about whatever comments or thoughts he had about stretch marks 11 years ago. He's older too and has probably matured in his thoughts.
If he's willing to see you at all after you have had two kids he must have an open mind to the possibilities that range much farther than your stretch marks.
As for your own comfort level, don't sweat the small stuff.
I can think of many other things that I'd be worried about besides my body if I were in your situation.
2007-12-24 16:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by another voice in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Millions of women have stretch marks as the result of being pregnant. Are these kids his? If you've had two kids with this guy, and he can't handle a little thing like stretch marks, then I wouldn't waste any time with him. Of course you can always make love in the dark.! Good luck
2007-12-24 16:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you serious? Really? Man. I tell you, if that's the worse of your problems, you don't have anything to worry about. Those marks should be worn with pride. You brought 2 humans into this world and he should care less. All he wants to see is your boobs and VJJ. He's not even going to notice. Wow are you ever shallow.
2007-12-24 16:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont think he should care about stretch marks, and if he does...don't even sleep with him. Don't even talk to him! Don't mention it, just watch his reaction. I doubt he will care.
2007-12-24 16:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by OverTheRainbow 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stretch marks are minor compared to your looks in general.if your hot you could be missing and arm and that wouldn't phase a guy
2007-12-24 16:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax. Tell him your self concience about them. I'm certain he's not perfect either.Most guys eyes are focused elsewhere.
2007-12-24 16:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋