Ok, so you probably hear this all the time, "I want to ask a really hot girl out, but I'm afraid to get turned down... blah, blah blah." Ok, so I'm that good looking over-weight guy, I'm about 6 months away from getting the "extras" off. I get checked out a lot by a lot of women. My gal-pals say I have a powerful, attractive and "magnetic" presence. So I'm ready to come out of my shell and connect with some of the amazing, beautiful women I see all the time - even though I'm still overweight. I'm also in my early 30's (though most women think I'm in my twenties)
So hey, I need to ask... should I even bother? I mean, in my brain, really attractive women have their pick of guys - they can hook up with anyone - why would they hook up with me?
Thoughts?
2007-12-24 08:39:42 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes u never know who is interested in you until you ask the person out. i knew guys that i had no idea that they were interested until their friends came and told me. he didnt come to me himself so i turned down his offer.. all u need is to be confident. if you're not you will get shot down. Be confident and know how to approach a girl. Dont say AY shawty! Or whats your numba before you even get to know my name.. none of that.
2007-12-24 08:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by MedTq367 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They can't have their pick of guys. A lot of guys are already involved or not appropriate for whatever reason. Or goodlooking jerks. If you are special, you are a catch, no matter what the weight. I personally prefer a guy to have some mass than to be scrawny, if those are the two options. And love to be treated well by someone that can hold a conversation.
2007-12-24 08:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i can't understand why you wouldn't pursue women you interested in just because you think they might reject you. if you don't try you'll never know. if you wait until you're perfect you'll never even be able to try. yes, you should bother no matter how overweight or ugly you are or anything else. because you have to give her a chance to like you. i feel that you don't understand that looks are really very minor in a relationship.
2007-12-24 08:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sufi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋