i had a convo w/ my brother cause i was telling him that im scared that my bf would cheat, (i dont trust men cause how i was raised) i love him and i know he loves me and is the best bf you could ask for but i still have an insecurity. anyhow my brother said all men do it and if they dont then its because they are scared they will get caught. is this true? i just would like to know to have other perspectives. my bf is going to new york for christmas and from what my brother told me is now making me worry. please no stupid answers, just the truth. thanks.
2007-12-24 08:45:05 · 17 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your brother is wrong.
in all my relationships, weather they were with wives or gf's i NEVER cheated, never once thought about it, never crossed my mind, never cared 2 even tho I had absolutely hundreds of opportunities 2 do so...i have more respect 4 the woman i'm with and the relationships we had together.
i've said this before i'll say it again and ask ur brother 2 hear this loud and clear: REAL MEN/REAL WOMEN don't cheat, period.
no one is ever 2 old 2 get an education...including your brother.
good luck and GOD bless.
2007-12-24 09:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, don't torture yourself. One thing is always for sure, what's done in the dark comes to the light - but you can't live your life in a state of fear worrying about what someone else is doing, because truth be told, you can't control anything but yourself. Don't stress about it, love your man, and you do the right thing regardless of what you think he may or may not be doing because the universal law is you reap what you sow, if he does you wrong, he has to answer for that. But don't live your life looking over your shoulder worrying. . worry when you have a reason to, and even then, start thinking about Plan B.
2007-12-24 08:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many... many do these days because rap and our society glamorized the "player" lifestyle im not ugly and no i dont cheat in fact i havient ever cheated but i have been cheated on its either cheat or get cheated on untill you find the right person for you but its ok its thier choice if they want stds or not but NO i am not scared to get caught that is not the reason im a faithful guy its i dont like hurting girls and i know the feeling and it dont feel good
2007-12-24 09:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by philipsagangster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all guys cheat. I am 26 and still haven't even had a girl friend yet. I am afraid of being cheated on. I think its about 90% of guys cheat these days. Even if I had a girlfriend I don't think I would ever cheat on her or anyone. Maybe you just come across the wrong type of guys.
2007-12-24 08:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all sorry your brother is a loser.the real answer is a guy is only going to cheat if he is not truly happy with the relationship(if he's being honest with himself)the same goes for women.if you are not happy and you get in the wrong situation then male or female it will likely happen.i suggest you make sure you pick the right guy and make sure he is truly happy
2007-12-24 08:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys cheat. I never have never will. It just depends on what type of person he is. If a man TRULY loves his woman, (there are alot of men who say they do but dont) then he will not cheat.
2007-12-24 08:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Serious Shuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men do not cheat or want to cheat. Only the ones that need to have their egos stroked often. It is an insecurity.
2007-12-24 08:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by jelle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
iv never cheated on a girl. some men do some men dont. depends who they are and what kind of person they r.
2007-12-24 08:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys cheat. and it's not always because they might get caught. however it's true that men are motivated differently about sex than women. learn more.
2007-12-24 08:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you really asking a question on whether ALL men are Exactly the same?
2007-12-24 08:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by ukcufs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋