Singles & Dating - 3 December 2007

i really like this boy right and i have no idea what to do!!!

we go to the same school and are on the same soccer team (it is coed) but i don know what to do to make him like me back if he dosent, or if he dose, let it be known?

i am pretty shy too and have a habit of hiding that i like him

we talk sometimes on myspace and in person
(id be wierd if it was only on myspace)


he dosen't know that i like him and i don't know if he likes me back
what should i do to help this situation?

gahhhh
so confusing to me!!


i hope you should shed some light on this subject!
thank you

2007-12-03 17:38:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend and i both enjoy viewing porn. but we only enjoy it if we do it together. yes i'm a guy so obviously i enjoy it, but once i met the love of my life i was quickly turned away from it and on the one or two occasions (honestly) i felt terrible and like i was cheating on her, so when i found out that she enjoyed viewing i was excited because it could be something we share together. now i love my girlfriend very much, and i do feel bad if i view such thing when she's not around, and she feels bad if she views it while im not around. we do not use it for stimulation towards each other, it is just an occasional occurrence that we use to have fun. so with all that being said, is it wrong that we enjoy to look at porn?

2007-12-03 17:35:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Got out of a year & a half relationship in October, and it was Long Distance from 200 miles, and it eventually took its toll. Said our good byes, cut ties, and then the communication started with a "lets hook up for sex" from her AND me. Kinda played games with it becasue was forseeing too many complications with it only being 2 weeks from splitting up ,and there was a risk someone (maybe me) would want MORE than sex, so I kind strung it out for a few weeks (and she was calling the minute I would respond, but she never left a voicemail), then told her no I wasnt into a "booty call", changed my mind a few days later, and she just sent me an email saying "sorry, dating someone" (after 5 days??). I really think it was a head game (which is why I didnt want to get into communication after the break up, but who knows) I think she caught wind I was sleeping with another girl. Well I want to send her an email, but not sure how long to wait, and dont want to be "needy" But I miss her. Ideas??

2007-12-03 17:27:16 · 4 answers · asked by stuttgart930930 1

im in a long distance relationship, well kind of a relationship. were officially not together. she says she wants to fully trust me to "get with me" so there wont be problems. we've had our ups and downs. live 3 hours away, been talkin for 7 months, see eachother about 2 times a month and talk on the phone for hours everyday. my quesion is, how would i know shes really into me? besides her talkin to me on the phone and welcoming into her home, is there any other signs cus i have doubts, probalby cus she has me waiting to get with me and cus the distance

2007-12-03 17:26:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we fight atleast once everyday, and its always about little things! My boyfriend says that I make him feel stupid when "I tell him what to do"! However in my view I am not telling him what to do, I am offering my opinion on how to do it! I am in no way telling him to do it my way, just making suggestions! For example, he buttered a view pieces of bread tonight to make garlic bread and then attempted to use the toaster to cook them!! I said "John*, please don't use the toaster, I think thats a bad idea! why not use the oven?"! He proceeded to fly off the handle, and proclaimed that "I must think he is brainless", and " how would he ever live without me"! I feel terrible that he thinks I'm cutting him down! but, AM I being bossy!?!?! or is he just being irrational?

2007-12-03 17:23:51 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 17:22:40 · 12 answers · asked by iloveit 1

I ve recently been dating this guy for about 2 weeks, met him at my club were i work and spent a few hours with him, we ve seen each other all up about 4 times. But since the second time I saw him he has been talking about sex with me alot, (we havent had sex yet) & hes very intense and always saying how hot and sexy i am and how hot I make him. Other then that hes a nice guy.....Is he playing me? Or does he just want to get layed??

2007-12-03 17:13:53 · 6 answers · asked by Summa 2

ok so everywhere i go guys are always grabbing my butt
or holding my waist or making sexual comments!!!!
my butt is really big compared to my waist and after being compared to a coke bottle 50000000 times i kinda wanna do something about it so help?
and its really sad cuz im not fat but it jiggles no matter what i do!!
guys slap my butt in the hallway and then say daym look at it jiggle !
i hate it !!

2007-12-03 17:10:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I have been broken up since July. I was living with him and all my mail was coming to my ex's house. When i moved out which is so typical, i realized that i forgot my hoodie and mail. I've asked my ex to bring the stuff into work (we work together but not directly) and he always seems to "forget" even when i called 20 minutes before he had to leave. The last couple days he's been randomly emailing me from work. Like today, got home and had an email from him asking how my birthday party was on Friday. Just random.

Now, its starting to make me wonder if he's keeping the stuff for a reason. And a lot of ppl at work say that he's probably not over me yet. And to confuse me even more he came to my office and talked with me for about 45min...he hasn't done that since August... And don't say "oh looks like youre not over him" because i'm definately not over him. I'm hoping he's not over me. I still love him very very much

soo what do you guys think? Still not over me?

2007-12-03 17:09:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this one girl who is really nice to everyone. For over a year, we have been very close friends, but it has been impossible in deciphering whether she actually likes me or not. She often told me about the boys that she liked, and currently, has no other love interest.

While she is often very nice, she seems to be more nice to me, which may be I am so close to her. I often walk to classes with her and sometimes carry her books, while she has on occasions: fed me, wrapped both of us in her scarf, and borrowed my accessories from time to time (hats, etc.). I have many female friends, and once I was talking to one, and she had a frown on her face. I once hugged my guy friend just to see her reaction, and she asked, "How come only he gets a hug?" Every once in a while, she looks at me, and when I catch her eye, she smiles at me. She often pokes me and attempts to surprise me every once in a while.

Does this person genuinely like me now? Or is this just part of her personality

2007-12-03 17:09:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, so my boyfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years and were best friends prior to that for an additional 3. We go to seperate colleges about two hours away. He joined a fraternity and lived in this year and for some reason I became very jealous and insecure about myself and the relationship and began to drive him away. About six weeks ago he requested a break, at which time we were supposed to get back together after two weeks but he said he needed more time. He has told others that "things are up in the air" but he sees us "working it out". We still talk almost daily (he innitiates), have gone on dates, say "i love you" ect... My concern is that he is holding onto me only for comfort and because he does not want to hurt me, not because he still loves me. We agreed to not see or be physical with other people (minus dancing) and have both stuck to it. Is this really about space and making the relationship better, or just a prolonged breakup?

2007-12-03 17:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Kimberly 1

ok well there's these guys there all taken and i always flirt with them. and one by one they dump there girlfriends for me. i feel bad ,i like the attention. but they get the wrong signal, they think i want a relationship. they call me everyday just to say hi each of them call. and when they ask me out i'm like no and then there like just as friends? and i'm like no. and there still like in love with me. this isn't new or anything. i'm used to it. but i am really bad at not flirting like i do it without thinking and when i realize i'm flirting it's to late the seed was already planted. i feel bad for the girls that get dumped and stuff because well they were all really committed to there boyfriends. and when i started going out with my boyfriend jason the guys that dumped there GF's for me still like me and now some girls hate me and others want to be me they told me. how can i stop flirting? how can i make them stop liking me? i don't talk to them anymore. but they still like me!

2007-12-03 17:08:31 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah G 2

You know how when you have a crush on someone or are in the begining of a relationship and have special sweet moments. Do they go away as the relationship goes on? If it does how to bring it back?

2007-12-03 17:08:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you feel comfortable going to a bar and having a good time, knowing these old drunks and young perverts are going to chat you up?

How do you deal with this when you are not interested, knowing they are drunk and if they get angry, it could make the situation worse.

What are some come backs to get these old drunks and horny drunk men off your case.

It is ok if you want sex, I guess. But if you are just there for a social outing and dress up to make yourself feel good, and you do not want to be disturbed, and you have all these men after you, how do you deal with this?

2007-12-03 17:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

2007-12-03 17:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

pls answer the question whether though experience or due knowledge..tnx guyz!!!..

2007-12-03 17:03:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

even if your in a good relationship of 3 years?

2007-12-03 17:02:04 · 19 answers · asked by abb525 2

Here is the deal...I am incredibly athletic. I just quit my college baseball team (I was the team captain and starting catcher), because I want to get into mixed martial arts - my point is that I can compete with taller guys, my height is not a disadvantage. I am in great shape - cut and buff... Also, i've got a 3.7 gpa in college, so I'm smart. However, I'm 5'6" and single, and all I hear about is how "short" I am, not that I am in great physical shape, or that I am really intelligent...do women really have something against guys that are not tall, or am I just having some bad luck?

2007-12-03 16:56:20 · 8 answers · asked by CrAsHnBuRn 2

My boyfriend got me a present for xmas, its my 'main' present..... a few weeks after he bought it I had a dream that it was a ring, i couldnt see what sort of ring it was as i was having a peek at it in my dream. I told him a few days later that i had the dream, he didnt say anything about it at the time but he asked me a few days after whether it was a normal ring or a special occassion ring to which i replied i dont know, a few days later in bed he said to me "im only going to say this once and im not telling you what i mean by it but sometimes dreams can come true"
can anyone tell me what they think this means???????

2007-12-03 16:55:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its really weird because when I was 8 for example I thought that I was sooo mature and I was really smart. Then when I was 11, I was like sheesh what was I thinking, I was soo unmature when I was 11, and now im 14, and now I think I am pretty mature….but when I will get older I will probobly think I was unmature when I was 14….is it like a pattern or something?? its kinda funny, huh?

2007-12-03 16:51:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a relationship do you want to be with someone who is compatible or comfortable with you?

2007-12-03 16:48:46 · 2 answers · asked by bebl 1

One question has been festering in my brain for far too long...
If your getting married
Would you get a prenup to prove that your both in it for love?
or would you go without prenup to show trust?

there's so much to consider...

2007-12-03 16:40:33 · 5 answers · asked by Unsichtbar_Brennt 2

For example, when I was a young teen my uncle would hug me too tight and feel me up in the process.

Older men have always made advances towards me, even now.

My ex-husband's best friend made a serious pass going so far as to back me into a corner. The same year my future brother-in-law tried to kiss me in a bar. The ex was present (but out of sight) both times.

I have been stalked twice...once by my mailman and once by a total random stranger.

I was asked to be in a threesome three different times...once in college...once in a strip club...once by someone I was dating. It never happened, thank goodness.

I have been hit on so many times in my life that it almost seems normal. I rarely take it seriously or act on it. As I get older, I seem to be bothered by this. Does this happen to all females? Is it simply a guy thing? Is it because I am upbeat and positive and usually smiling that leads one to think that I am an easy target?

2007-12-03 16:39:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I took the chance and actually found an old boyfriend who is still local. I ended up calling to say hi. For some unknown reason I started thinking about him and wondered if he was still married and how he was doing. It was a spontanous moment on my part to call him.

I think we were both in shock when I actully reconized his voice and when I told him it was me, he went into shock.
We had a great conversation for about 45 minutes, he's divorced BUT he has a girlfriend of 2 years. She sat there staring at him the whole time he was on the phone except once to leave the room when he said "I have to see you" .

I told him after all these years, I was more expecting him to be married and really just wanted to see how he was doing. He treated me so good, but he asked me to marry him when I thought I was to young. I know I broke his heart, we lived together for 2 years.

He wants 2 see me this week, should I ? continued ~

2007-12-03 16:37:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what your charactristic and personality do you prefer to be with in relationship?

2007-12-03 16:29:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 16:28:01 · 16 answers · asked by IcyJ 2

almost four month ago i ask question about my exfrience that was cheating on me...well now i need help my ex after almost four month without talking came to me today ask me for forgiveness ,,and he want me back cause he cant be without or see himself with anyone else but me....to tell u the truth i was so happy to hear that...cause before i move out i told him he will one day want me back and he will be begging for me to come back..and right now thats what his doing ...yes i still love him but i cant go back ,,,cause what he did to me is still hurting ,,i did forgive him but i will never forget....now he want to take me out to dinner so we can talk more...and he told me he will not give up till he gets me back..........please help?

2007-12-03 16:21:10 · 11 answers · asked by ro 2

My roommate is gay but he has a "girlfriend". They talk every night and it gets in the way of our relationship. I'd like to think of him as my friend, but this girl is always trashed and encourages him to be the same way. I don't care that my friend is gay, but this girl makes him drink a lot and says nasty things to me. I have only tried to help him and do not judge him. She is really bad and am I wrong for not liking her?

2007-12-03 15:54:32 · 19 answers · asked by Boomer 5

well ive know this guy for two years now, and he always comes randomly in and out of my life. We had the same class in tenth grade and then i moved, but our families are in the same circle so we see each other from time to time. In tenth grade he was really flirty, came to my locker, talked to me constantly and his friends would always stare at me, and even ask about me to my friends. Then i moved and i thought it was over but i didnt care until i saw him at a function. He was so flirty but when i asked for his number he came up with an excuse- im a senior now and we talk four times every week- I cant get this guy our of my head- He is the only guy i ever liked, but i cant/dont want to be his girlfriend and i find myself most happy when we are just friends- but he is the hottest guy ive ever saw ( ideal for me)
he always tells me that he is hot though-
does he like me or ??? Help me out

2007-12-03 15:53:01 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

im kind of ashamed to ask this but, i think i really need to get this out of my chest, yo see
i had a girlfriend and we lasted for almost 3 years, now its been 6 months since i last knew of her, and well, shes gone and i got over it ( i think ) the thing is that i cant find a girl to which i feel attracted, is this normal ? or whats happening

2007-12-03 15:52:07 · 16 answers · asked by Pradexis 3