Singles & Dating - 3 December 2007

He told me he likes me so why does he ignore me?
He told me he liked me, and he mentioned we should be more "open with each other" but when he sees me in person he goes blank i can tell he gets nervous and he he just stands there and talks to his other friends or listens to his iPod. When I walk in he stares at me and goes totally blank and he looks sad and depressed towards the end of the night. He's a shy guy and he even admitted it to me. I'm always the one that has to go up to him to talk, or IM him. I always make the move and i'm sick of it. Cause when i have to do everything i feel he is uninterested in me and i really want to prove to him that im inlove with him but HE is the one that needs to prove that to me, but i feel bad for him but it's all his fault. Whats his problem, should i still wait around seeing what he'll do, or should i make a bold move and on christmas give him a letter telling him how i feel and i want to be more then friends (which he told me when he liked me)

2007-12-03 08:48:14 · 2 answers · asked by K 3

I have been friends with a guy 2 years older then me for a year. Lately, I'm getting the idea that he likes me.
Yesterday when I was talking online with him, he said he had to go because his computer had a timer, so it would shut off in a few minutes. Then he said he will miss me. I just said, "what?" and then he said "nvm" and then said"lack of sleep+headache" -___-;;

Today, he asked me to fly kites with him. It's windy where I am. Then I told him my lil sis was with me, so I would have to bring her. He made this face -.-

He's usually first one to start a conversation when im online. I think one time, he hinted that he wanted me to go see a movie with him..

Problem is, I don't like him like that. I'm not attracted to him AT ALL. Cool guy, but not for me. How do I let him down easy? I don't want to talk to him about it though..I might be wrong. But what can I do "keep it in the friend zone"?? Thank u!

2007-12-03 08:43:39 · 1 answers · asked by Nina is here! :D 4

2007-12-03 08:41:42 · 15 answers · asked by Tiffany2570 1

I mean in bed.

2007-12-03 08:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got atoss for 2 weeks and i cant see her so the olny way is to write to her on myspace.what sdo i say that would want her to give it to me?

2007-12-03 08:40:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Actually enjoy Star Wars or Star Trek?

Or is this just some strange fantasy of mine?

2007-12-03 08:38:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know what to do. him and i have been together for 8 months now. i am i high school and he is in grade 8 i hardly am able to see him{other when i walk 15min to his school to see him for like 5 min} then and he never calls me and next year we will only be able to see each other on weekends and we probably wont be able to do that either cause of home work. Some of my friends think i should dump him. and when ever I am around him i dont feel that spark i used to. but im not quite sure what to i mean i still love him but we are drifting away,,, should i dump him? should we take a break? should we stay togeather?? HELP!

2007-12-03 08:38:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 17 (18 june 2nd) and me and this 15 yr old girl(16 june 30th) are talking...i just dont wana get into trouble. will i need too talk too her parents at 18 or soemthin? what do i need to do

2007-12-03 08:37:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend wants to know what her and this guy she's talking to can do tonight. Its their first time actually being alone together, but there's only so much to do. Its FREEZING cold outside, and they have ruled out movies or dinner... Any suggestions?!

2007-12-03 08:37:13 · 8 answers · asked by Lana♥ 2

Im 35 divorced and am trying to end an 8 year relationship but I dont know how. Even though I know somethings not right for me I cant find it in my heart to stay mad long enough to make a point so i accept the pain & try to make the best out of the worst situations. friends say its my self estm or I just dont want to be alone & Im having a hard time with that. I stand 4"11 and Im overweight but I feel that I am beautiful and yes my size bothers me alot but because of my shape I still feel like I can be sexy. i dont feel like noone else would be intrested in me or that I love the abuse I think that mentally something is wrong. I am a very loving person but being me has only caused me pain. my mother was married 3 times and each divorce left me without a father.evry relationshp i been in I find it so hard to let go. dont remember much of my childhood and I wonder if this is what is holding me back. i was told my mom was abused but i dont remember & i cant ask her she died 5 yrs ago.

2007-12-03 08:36:04 · 18 answers · asked by 2 real 2

me and this guy dated 4 years ago in highschool.. he was my first luv and i broke up with him, he moved on and tried talking to me again but i didnt want nothing to do with him. he always tried talking to me by doing stupid things. finally he got my new cell phone # day of grad off my friend. since then he's called me once a month to see how i was doing always asked if i had a new bf. he had a gf at the time. anyways 4 years later we started talking again and he wanted me back, it didnt last. then he texts me saying he needs me in his life, that he'll always care for me till the day i get old. we hardly talk tho, i have done nothing for him to luv me at all. i never say i luv him back whenever he says he luvs me.

2007-12-03 08:36:04 · 5 answers · asked by vane.ssa15 1

I live in a small town, and a guy told me that he liked girls with their hair down than pulled back. I was just wondering if it was for everyone or just this person.

2007-12-03 08:34:56 · 37 answers · asked by geek 2

I told this guy I have been seeing for a while (and known for about 5 years nows) that I am interested in him. He tells me he has a girlfriend now and is madly in love with her.

He tells me there is nothing wrong with me and loves being my friend. I get mad that he didn't let know he was already atteached (that would have been the decent thing to do...) and knows fully well that I liked him. Then he tells me he is sorry and didn't know I was interested since I didn't say anything (even though I told him I wanted to be more than friends). He then tells me for now he is with someone and he likes hanging with me as friends.

NOW, I would think that since he is "madly in love" with this girl he wouldn't be telling me that "for now" he is with someone.

Whats this guys deal? Did he get tired of trying to get in my pants? There were LOADS of times where he wanted me to stay over at his house (yes we are of age), but I refused.

2007-12-03 08:32:17 · 11 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2

lets say you date a guy who is totaly straight.

but he likes to look realy good all the time. lets say he uses does the following:

1)uses hair products

2)trims very shortly if not completely shaves "down there

3)uses exfoliating lotion for his skin

4)makes sure his face is clear from any blemmishes

5)is very clean

6)works out alot

7)keeps his skin tan

8)makes sure his teeth are white and his nails are clipped ALWAYS

9)makes sure his clothes are trendy/preppy/clubbish looking

or is this too metro? BTW this isnt me, im just asking and curious

2007-12-03 08:32:14 · 15 answers · asked by Ben D 1

i do alright if they start a conversation and get it going. i can usually be funny or whatever and be engaging. how do i start one out of the blue just because i feel like talking to them? if they say hi, how do i lead then into a conversation? what are some fun things to talk about? the one i use most often is talking about some class we have together, but talking about how much work i have gets boring and it feels dorky.

2007-12-03 08:32:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a link between why my guy doesn't want to make love very often and winter? my guy just hasn't been up to making love as often as I have been lately. I am starting to get worried I am not attractive enough for him when we started dating he wanted it all the time now after 10 months it is very hard to get him in the mood and I have even come right out and asked if he wanted to have sex then he laughs and tells me I'm cute. I'm very confused on what the heck is going on? we are both 20. I have tried everything I can think of what am I doing wrong? I have tried waking him up in the mornings to certain things and he says he wants to go back to sleep. I am starting to get depressed and am about to give up. here is a pic below. do you think he is just losing interest? he said he wants to marry me. I am so confused...
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=45263686&albumID=558388&imageID=7717947

2007-12-03 08:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by Just me 4

I've been with my gf for 9 weeks now and she has started talking to this lad she used to like before she got with me now i'm a bit scared she'll get off with him but she says she won't and to trust her i'm a bit lost what should i do? thanks

2007-12-03 08:27:34 · 22 answers · asked by John 1

omg i love this pic :P

http://img518.imageshack.us/img518/1240/17742673a4005365423b727hb8.jpg

2007-12-03 08:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Inconspicuous 2

Thinking how christmas and eveything use to be I would do anything to be a kid again.

2007-12-03 08:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by uhuhkmmk 2

2007-12-03 08:20:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. i talk to this guy every night. and by the time its midnight our conversatins get dirty. but the sad thing is i have told him EVERYTHING i want to do to him...and vice versa... and i CANNOT think of anything else i wanna do. so can some guys tell me what they would wanna hear their girl say to them when thier on the phone that would turn them on( in other words what do you guys want girls to tell you their goin to do to you???)

2007-12-03 08:20:15 · 18 answers · asked by sk8erkat1210 2

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 months...we both love each other...he's 18, i'm 17...he's not a virgin, and i'm waiting until i'm married. He says he can wait forever for me..which is sweet, but i just feel bad. When we are making out and he gets "excited" i can't do anything...and he has to just wait it out. I just wanna know if i should worry about how he is handling this, since he's not gonna have sex unless we're married...or he goes somewhere else to get it, which i know he wouldnt do.

2007-12-03 08:16:56 · 17 answers · asked by HoldYourHand2817 2

Hi am 31 an i havent a clue about dating at this age really.. I've had relationships before but me an the girlfriend broke up about 2 years ago.. An i just ture myself into my work an had alot of commits to my family etc etc. An had to get a spine operation which left me laying up for a while.. An i just relised the other day what the hell am i doing i have being with anyone in nearly 2 years.. Now am nervious about going back on the dating seen.. I dont have a clue what its like now a days.. Any advice for me girls.. ??????????

2007-12-03 08:16:42 · 2 answers · asked by Irish816 3

2007-12-03 08:15:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've seen comments where other girls called him, sugar, babe, sweetie, etc...they throw themselves all over him.

When I told him that I don't like some of the comments that are left by these girls at his school, he responded by saying that he can't control what others write on his page.

Am I overreacting, or you any of you feel that this is a legitimate reason to be upset?....It really makes me uncomfortable and I don't like it at all, but at the same time, I hope I'm not just being paranoid.

(He is 21 and I am 20)

2007-12-03 08:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by HoneyChild 2

The guy I've started going out with has only ever been with fat girls (I'm not saying curvy to be polite, because they are fat, flabby arms, 3 layered stomachs etc and not particularly attractive although nice ppl i'm sure) and I'm slim and slender but i'm not sure how far he has gone with these girls or if they were just fun 'high school girlfriends' because they were friends....

So can guys be attracted to fat and slim girls?

Thanx, and I do not mean to seem rude!

2007-12-03 08:12:21 · 18 answers · asked by kaykay 3

After you have talked to him or her and got to know that person a lil more, did you think it was ok to date that person online?

2007-12-03 08:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

preppy, baggy clothing, emo, feel free to state the type u like.
just wanna see which is more liked by girls

2007-12-03 08:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by biggs 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year. We have moved from place to place trying to find somewhere where we can settle down and be happy. He wanted to move to a place because he thought it would be good for me where I could find more opportunities for a job. Well, I got a job, but he was stressed out that he couldn't. So he would take it out on me. I honestly don't think he understood what he was doing to me. We then moved to his hometown and he still did not find a job. I was away from my family and was very homesick. So I left him and came back home. I have not been so miserable in my life. I miss him and have talked to him about getting back together. He has emotionally abusive tendencies, but he is still a really great guy and I know he does not want to be without me again. I know he truly loves me. I want to compromise with him so we can both be happy. But now my family and friends do not like him because of all the bad things I said and made me the victim.

2007-12-03 08:03:05 · 2 answers · asked by princessfaeofmirkwood 1

This guy has asked me out on different occasions. Its not been possible but that does not mean i dont want to go out with him. I am just sometimes very busy. Hes got real bad temper. Now he really he does not even want to be just a good friend. He doesnt wanna meet up for lunch, he wants to go the movies. And yet hes been seeing this gal that he keeps saying they are on & off ? confusing circumstance. I know i came first but i realy dont wanna look cheap by breaking a relationship. He still foolowing me? He...lp

2007-12-03 08:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by gal1 1