Singles & Dating - 3 December 2007

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2007-12-03 04:59:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help me.Im in a terrible situation.I had an internet love affair.And me and the guy got really close (mentally) though we used to reside in separate continents.We also used to talk about physical intimacy too.

The guy used to plead me alot to send him my nude pictures.Finally inorder to please him,I indeed send my nu.de. pictures. But I dont have any nu.de. pictures of him.

Now I want to end the relationship with him, and he is blackmailing me to either marry him or have casual s.e.x. with him!!If I dont agree to either,he will publish my pictures on internet and email them to my family.He says that he has lost his virgnity as he saw my n.ud.e pics and we had cyber s.e.x.!!! Hence,he wants me no matter what!

Please tell me what should I do? I dont want to marry him under any cost, nor do I want to have sex with this narrow minded freak..!!! :( PLS HELP ME!

2007-12-03 04:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a great time on a first date. We talked on the phone for hours now and we seem to really connect. I sent her some flowers with the following message "Just because. Hope theses are half as beautiful as you are. Steve"

Was this a good idea or not. I got her these ones...
http://ww12.1800flowers.com/product.do?baseCode=17498&cm_cid=o

let me know. Thanks

2007-12-03 04:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by pws8us 2

keep in mind almost every cholo thinks very highly of himself,is conceded and believes he's good at everything.

2007-12-03 04:47:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an idea. please give me more or tell me your experience

I'll ask her what She would do if I kissed her.
If it's positive, i'll do it
If it's negitive, i'll just say I was wondering

2007-12-03 04:40:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really get off on controlling everything in the relationship and my BF has willingly submitted to me. He cooks, cleans and pleases me in most every way. I love it and him. However I feel that I need a real man sexually. Last weekend I joked about sleeping with another man. His eyes were down cast but he didn't reject the idea. He is a little small in that depatment and I just need to satisfy my needs. However I don't want to lose what I have. How should I test him limits/train him to accept my desires?

2007-12-03 04:36:19 · 16 answers · asked by Cynthia C 1

Hi, I recently started dating a guy, and we began to be sexually active about a week ago. He is a virgin and very old to be one (he's 27, I'm 22), but he said he is ready with me.

Anyway, my problem is I cannot get him to climax. I tried hand jobs, BJ's, and sex with a condom, and it works for awhile but he ultimatly just ends up going soft. I'm on the pill so we tried sex without a condom, which makes me a little nervous (fear of pregnancy even though I'm on the pill, I prefer 2 methods of B/C) but he still wasn't able to get off. I'm not sure why. He says he's just nervous and is just getting used to having sex since he's a virgin. Anyone have any insight as to what might be going on, anyone ever have a similar experience?

ps, only serious answers please. Yes, I'm positive he's not gay, yes he really was a virgin before he met me, etc, etc. I'm coming on here and asking because I'm too embarrased to ask elsewhere.

Thank you all for your help. :-)

2007-12-03 04:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

The CNN article below is saying that women won't let a guy get to second base unless he is a good kisser. How important are kissing skills to your romantic choices?

http://www.cnn.com/2007/LIVING/personal/12/03/bad.kissers/index.html

2007-12-03 04:30:09 · 8 answers · asked by Steve C 7

My age 24 M. Tell me what all things need to be taken care off.
What all to do?
How to do?
How to make my girl happy today so that the wants to sleep with me every night.
I want to be too good tonight.
Please help me
Thanks
TOM

2007-12-03 04:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this question a month ago, but I was just wondering about a few more opinions out there on this topic. If you already saw this question last month, please just disregard it.

Just curious, are there any women today who would enjoy being taken care of by their man?

Assuming they don't have any kids ..And assuming that he's not a control freak or anything like that. ... Are there any women who like it when their live-in-boyfriend/husband takes good care of them financially so that she doesn't have to work? That way she can wake up each day and do things she likes to do with her day, and she's happy to see him when he comes home to her each day. Of course she can go out each day and do whatever she wants.

( Assuming of course that they are in love ), are there any women out there like that today, where she doesn't work because she is generously taken care of by her man?

Thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-12-03 04:16:36 · 8 answers · asked by johnsmith2025 ( Cavs Fan ) 7

i know many people ask this, but can any..
guys tell me what they do to a girl to show ur interested ?

girls from experince how did u kno he liked u?

Also can any1 give me tips on how to show him i like him.??
any advice welcome!

Thank YOU!!!

2007-12-03 04:08:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

To clarify a little....I mean isn't it a little strange? I've only been on two internet dates but both guys were really strange. Does anyone else have these problems?

2007-12-03 04:06:11 · 10 answers · asked by jamus 2

i can't stand anymore!!i always trying to say to her that she always disturbing me but i afraid she don't want to friend with me anymore...any suggestion?

2007-12-03 04:05:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 04:00:34 · 16 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

Theres a guy I used to work with. I asked him out for a drink ONCE when we first started working together and that was the only time we ever hung out outside of work. During the time we worked together he expressed tha the liked me...over IM ..everything he ever said about it to me was through IM, in person..different story. He even asked me out once over IM but never said anything about it in person so it never happened. He eventually moved to Boston without anything ever happening betweeen us and he didn't really keep in touch. I sent him a myspace message recently just to say hey and he responded by giving me his new screen name (which he changed without telling me) and his phone number telling me to call him. I IMed him and he told me that he was coming to town soon and he wanted me to meet him at the airport and then hang out. I am just not sure about this whole thing. I mean he knew I was interested when he lived here and claimed he was but made NO effort in person. He continually expresses in IMs how attracted to me he is but he never calls and rarely makes initial contact. It was almost a week ago that he brought up the meeting him at the airport thing and I haven't talked to him since. While I let a guy know I'm interested, I am not the type to vigerously pursue a guy. What does this whole situation mean?? I like him a lot but come on !

2007-12-03 03:57:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny 1

Well I have been casually dating this guy for 2 years. This weekend were kissing and hugging a little, and he tells me that he loves me. Then he says, I've already got your mind and your body, I want into your heart... all I ask is that you love me. I didn't say anything back... I was like in shock. So we have sex, and during the act he keeps asking me if I love him. I really do but I didn't want to tell him because I didn't want to feel vulnerable.

My eyes were closed and he told me to open them and he says "I Love You ". Should I take him seriously? I mean I know men say whatever during sex.

2007-12-03 03:52:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i tell if the guy i like is stairing at me cause he thinks i'm funny looking or he thinks i'm pretty?

2007-12-03 03:48:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfiend for almost 2 /12 years and we are also moving towards getting engaged.

Early on in our relationship, we had some turbulance because two of his ex-girlfriends began to actively pursue him when they found out that he was getting serious with me. They would call him, send him cards for very occassion, etc. It really caused tension between he & I, because I knew that they had motives and I felt that he was perpetuating their interest by always responding to their calls, exchanging cards w/them still, etc.

I am not a controlling person, but I did ask him to please cut them both off, because of their unresolved feelings for him. They obviously were still trying to stay in his life for the wrong reasons.

Well, it's the holidays and by no means was I snooping, but I saw his Christmas Cards about to go out (he owns a small business) for clients & some personal contacts, and sure enough one of his exes was on there.

Should I be upset? I feel it......

2007-12-03 03:47:02 · 7 answers · asked by HRgirl 1

i have noticed this from women i have dated and from girls on y/a they are always talking about mens hands.whats up with that i have never looked at a girls hands and been like ohh she has the prettyiest hands i have ever seen.

2007-12-03 03:40:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a relationship for 6.5 yrs. I recently befriended a girl I work with and I've developed very strong feelings for her. We both have admitted that we have feelings for each other. I still feel that I love my girlfriend though. I feel like I'm being torn apart on the inside. I would be throwing all those years away, but I can't escape how I feel. I only wanted to make a new friend since I have a hard time making friends, and I now I feel like I'm falling for this girl, which was never my intention at all. I don't know what to do with these feelings.

2007-12-03 03:39:07 · 7 answers · asked by The Batman 1

Weve known eachother for a long time. we both are in similar situations dealing with recent breakups. weve been talking alot. and hanging out when he comes in town. i feel like its way too soon to have feelings for someone else. i wish i didnt. but everytime we hang out i start getting the feeling more and more that there might be something there. but i dont want there to be because i feel like it could make things hard for me. Plus if anything did happen the relationship would be long distance. And hes about to apply to med school. Im about to apply to grad school. how should i handle the way im feeling? if this is going to happen should i let him make the first move? or should i talk to him about it? or should i just try and ignore it?

2007-12-03 03:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by amtech33 2

So my boyfriend of three years finally admits to me that he is scared to meet my family. He thinks because he is alot older then i am and that he is of a different race that my family will just act two face and smile in his face and laugh behind his back. I think if my family loves me they will accept him for the person that he is no matter what. I don't think my family is that shallow but then again I'm not sure. My family is very important to me but i don't want to get his feelings hurt. What should I do?

2007-12-03 03:37:44 · 5 answers · asked by MIA 3

I have heard about it but I don't know anything about it.

2007-12-03 03:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has a room mate and his a nice, quiet guy. My boyfriend grew up with him since they were little. He bought two guns one for himself and one for my boyfriend and they put it under my guys name. We learned that he had been to a mental hospital for a while..we arent sure how long..because he told his mom that he thought he was a reincarnation of ted Bundy (serial killer). My boyfriend asked him about it but he was half asleep and when he asked why he had gone in told him he didnt remember...
hes a nice guy and all but i cant help but to be a scared if he actually thought something crazy like that...should i urge my boyfriend to make him leave?

2007-12-03 03:23:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

WOMEN. What do you prefer swallowing your significant others expression of joy, spiting it out or letting it fall on a particular part of your body. Ladies with freaky answers email me lol.

2007-12-03 03:23:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

All the girls that i go along well are married. They are so caring, graceful and everything that i look for. i'll soon file for divorce and start scouting for a nice lady (i know i must shed my emotional baggage before starting a new relationship)

The singles that i find seem to be less mature in their behaviour.

Is there any nice lady left for me?

2007-12-03 03:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by protege 3

I've been dating a guy for the 8 months. It's gotten very serious. We live together and have been ring shopping. The problem is he has started to develop some habits that I can't live with.
In the past 5 months our sex life has nearly died. He has been depressed since taking a major pay cut (about $2000 per mo). Since then he has gained a lot of weight (he was a bodybuilder when we first started dating). When I have tried to get him "in the mood" he just says that he doesn't want to because he is depressed and doesn't like the way he looks anymore.
Well, having a boyfriend that won't have sex with me has affected my self esteem. Now on top of all of this he has started making fun of my weight (I'm not fat by any means, I wear a size 6 in misses), commenting about girls on tv and how good they look, and he has even started joking about wanting a threesome. All of this he says as a joke, but it still hurts my feelings and yet he still does it...

2007-12-03 03:17:52 · 16 answers · asked by Imbue 4

I've been seeing a guy for a little over 3 months, I have totally fallen for him despite trying my best not to! And I know in reality he feels the same, but won't admit it.

Well ended up last week with me saying I am happy to not call us gf/bf, see him a lot or involve my self in his life but I do want it to be just me and him.

And he doesn't like this idea, doesn't want to loose the possibility of seeing anyone else. Am going to see him sometime later this week and will stand strong.

I don't want to loose him but I know from the way I feel if it doesn't become exclusive he's not giving me what I want, or what I want to give to the potential of 'us', so as much as it hurts walking away is how it must be.

What do you think on exclusivity/vs multiple dating?

2007-12-03 03:17:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex broke up with me about 4 months ago. About 2 weeks ago he contacted me out of the blue. He was really really mad at me when we broke up so I totally was not expecting him to ever talk to me again. Now he says he misses me and is acting like he wants me back, but i'm nervous that he only wants me back for sexual reasons. I don't feel like getting hurt yet again so what do I do? Does he really still have feelings for me or what?

2007-12-03 03:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by Rach 1

I love my boyfriend to death and we’ve been together for a while and have already had sex, but I want to stop. The thing is, when we’re around each other, it’s like two magnets, it’s inevitable do it. I’m seeing him tomorrow and I need some help. What are some ways I can control the situation, besides not being alone When Most of the time it’s me who initiates it.

2007-12-03 03:12:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous