Singles & Dating - 3 December 2007

my bf told me that we have to start having sex and i said no for some reason......and then i asked him " how do u feel?" and he said there is a term called "blue balls"....and thats how i feel right now.....what does this term mean??...coz i'm not an English speaker...and he doesnt tell me...I think it should be something funny...plz tell me if u know what it means..thanx

2007-12-03 20:16:58 · 7 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1

I like both, but I want to pick only one. Which one do you like more? Thanks!

2007-12-03 20:13:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i have been goin out with this guy billy for 2 weeks now and were not serious yet or anything we just like each other alot.but the problem is with his mom. She use to like me before i started dating her son, now she can't stand me. i do all i can to make her like me and she still doesn't like me. Now it's where i jsut don't even want to go to his house because of how she acts towards me i mean am i suppose to sit ther and let her be negative towards me or stay away? i don't know i jsut now that i am scared that his mom might be the end of us someday and that's not a good feeling to have after two weeks and it's not like that's what i want i want him i just don't know what to do?????

2007-12-03 20:12:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend wants to hold her, kiss and caress, but she said she may not care about sex much. but i always hope that she can be more horny, active and try new and exotic stuff... i love her the same even if she will always just be insipid, i just hope that she can have more fun... i understand that her dream can be quite different. so, how about yours?

2007-12-03 20:10:58 · 2 answers · asked by hwlwlf 2

with a hard on...do u go for it and does it turn yah on or wud yah tell him to put it away before he gets hurt! lmao

2007-12-03 20:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i can stop cryin...and i feel like dying and i feel really queezy.............is that normal? and he was my very first bf and first love. how can i make the cryin and heartache stop

2007-12-03 20:06:12 · 12 answers · asked by meh. 4

Or is this just a saying I've always had in my mind ? The reason I am asking is because I say it very little to my boyfriend when I make mistakes because they are so not a big deal ... but him they're off the charts with you got to be joking reality situations. However he does things and says things and I know he is and he's showing me in the only what I think he knows.

2007-12-03 20:00:53 · 18 answers · asked by jdydewing 5

This guy would ask me to come round to his a lot-we got on so well (knew each other for a year but not well) we didn't kiss or anything physical. He kept asking me am I single, and do I like anyone-but at the same time telling me he didn't like or want a relationship. We got on well & he then actually asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend & I said yes-we went out & he acted like the perfect guy, holding hands in public & cooking for me at his.

Well since then he hasn't really asked to meet up, but texts or talks on msn-so I asked him today what's going on

He said 'I know why ur confused & it's my fault. I really like you, & hanging out with u is great. It's just i've been so stressed lately & blazing (smoking things) a lot (which is true). I jus need 2 get uni out the way before I can make any commitments. Im sorry if I stressed ur feelings a bit.Speak soon xxxx

Is this an excuse or is he genuinely stressed out? he hasn't had a proper relationship befor

2007-12-03 19:53:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't had sex for about 2 yrs now...by choice! That was my first experience (2 yrs ago)...I was deeply in love with the guy. Didn't work out. Now I'm scared to have sex with anyone else. (i'm sure there is a bigger issue) But, how do I overcome this?

p.s: I had several opportunities to do it with good guys in these past 2 years.

2007-12-03 19:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I B....or is it just a phase?

2007-12-03 19:48:35 · 9 answers · asked by Horny Secretary 1

2007-12-03 19:47:33 · 6 answers · asked by Katej 1

my gf and i were going out for 11 months..we were fighting a bit at the end and she said she wanted to take a break..i said that's ok so we did. we are now backtogehter 1 month later..and she told me she had sex with another guy. i feel so upset by this because i didnt have sex with any other girls. what should i do? should i just get over it and know it was cos we were on break or should i be upset about this, i need advice. Just so you know we are both 18.

2007-12-03 19:42:22 · 18 answers · asked by OttawaOnt7 1

How does it work? What shall a girl do to the guy? i need explanations... please don't ask me to open websites...

2007-12-03 19:41:36 · 2 answers · asked by Angelique 4

I have been dating my girlfriend of almost 2 years were highschool sweet hearts and now im a freshmen in college, shes still a senior in HS. Im going to a local college whos reputation isnt great, but not bad i wanted to live at home cheap. My girlfriend lives in an abusive household and is going to leave on her 18th birthday as her parents are more than happy to kick her out. My mother has offered to let me move in with her and live at home, and go to a better school at the same price im paying now. Also to let my girlfriend stay in another spare room we have. Me and my girlfriend have had trust issues in the past, but over the last six months we have mostly resolved all of them. Is this rushing to far into things im not to afraid of living together as it wed be almost treated as siblings in my moms eyes. I also almost am ok to help her get on her feet and suceed in life and for us to eventually break up than see her struggling in life to have 2 jobs and try to go to school.

2007-12-03 19:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by George 2

How many times would a health 20 year old male have sex a week

2007-12-03 19:31:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell me how long did u take to get over a long term relationship.. lets say 4, 5 or 6 years together? does it hurt so bad? i need advice cos im still healing .. i think...

2007-12-03 19:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by Tina J 1

should you start to say hello?? I see the same guy every day he gets the same 2 trains as me to and from the same places (he lives same town as me and works same town as me, which is quite bizarre as i travel a distance!). We nearly always sit opposite each other. And he is kind of hot! I look forward to seeing him, brightens up my day. Do i say hello one morning and risk total embarassment?

2007-12-03 19:17:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it bad to have sex on the first day of your period?

I know it sounds nasty but me and my boyfriend love eachother and are really close so it doesn't bother us but is it bad to do it at all??? and could you get pregnant?

2007-12-03 19:12:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

But how do I know if its too much fighting and we just arent going to get along. I love this girl with all my heart but I just get so frustrated with her sometimes. She doesnt listen to me and because of that I feel like we have the SAME arguments OVER AND OVER and I hate it. . I do not want to end something that is normal if the next relationship is gonna be the same way then ending this one would be pointless. please help. My main question is how can I tell if its TOO much fighting or if I am just in a normal relationship and if this is how its supposed to be

2007-12-03 19:11:48 · 6 answers · asked by Chris 4

he stole his friends ipod at a party and people knew he did it, but lied rite to the face of the guy who he stole it from. didnt flinch or anything, and even continued being friends with him after, spent thanksgiving at his house and everything

2007-12-03 19:07:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 18:52:53 · 11 answers · asked by Why_so_serious? 5

If there was one single thing that aroused you, what would it be? And what one thing would be a complete turn-off?

2007-12-03 18:35:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

friends tell me pls- i really wanna know your ideas for an assignment

2007-12-03 18:32:16 · 20 answers · asked by ♥SMARNY♥ 6

dark blue/brown eyes
long chesnut hair
straight teeth
5'3''
bigish boobs
nice sized butt
skinny
tan

by this description do you think that i'm...
hot?
pretty?
beautiful?
sexy?
fine?

2007-12-03 18:31:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what if you just see people and thats it, not connect anything else, just , bam, there is a person. or am i wrong to assume that people when they meet others, automatically take into account there feelings and what they think

2007-12-03 18:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by jm 1

he works at loser jobs that dont require skills.very poor and cant even pay rent most ofthe time and he is rude and is so nasty to look at but yet he thinks that he can pick him self up a women thats pretty and has money and a good income.. and when he is talk he goes WHAAAAATTTT! like a retard.. you just want to wind up and slap his nasty little head right off his shoulders.. so what do you think his chances of finding a hot wife and get a house where he is eatting and everything"besides MR noodle?

2007-12-03 18:19:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is married with two children. I am in a long term relationship. We want to be together but don't know how to do it as we don't want to hurt our partners. What do I do?

2007-12-03 17:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by crazychick1975 2

WE MET ITS A LONG AS STORY WE KISS WE TOUCH EACHuTHER THIS WAS GOIN ON FOR COUPLE OF MONTHS NOW.BUT DO HE HAVE FEELINFOR ME OR NOT WEN I KISS HIM 1 TIME HE ASKED IF I WAS AVIRGIN I SEDyESiALREADI NOhE HAV A BBY MAMA AND HIS BBY WUS LIK 5OR6MNTHS NOW.HE GOT MY NUMBA BT WEN HE KALL ME ITS ALWAZ PRIVRATE ND HE DNT LET ME HAV HIS NUMBER HE TOLD ME HIM N HIS BABY MAMA ARNT TOGETHA BUT DEN HE WULDNT GIVE ME HIS NUMBA..ISZ HE STILL WITH HIS BABY MAMA??I THK HES NOT CUZ HE TOOK HIS BABY PIC &HIS PIC OF OFF HIS MYSPACE.IS HE PLAYIN ME?HE HOLLA AT MY BESTFRIEN BFOR ME BT SHE SED NO HE DNT WNT HER ANIMORE CUZ HE SED I SEEM IM MORE REAL.U SEE..CAN U HELP ME SO I DNT GO FURTHER & DO WRONG DECIDION I REALLY LIKE HIM.SO MUCH I ALMOST WILLING TO DO ANYTHING..BUT HELP ME..IM STUCK IN A SITUATION AND PLUS HES OLDER AGE AINT NOTHN BUT A NUMBER TO ME DOE.MY 2 BESTFRIENDSAID HE ONLY WANT TO GET N MA PANTS.I DNT KNOW..WUR NOT TOGETHA CUZ WEN HE ASK ME OUT I JUS KIS HIM RIT AWAYheDontActLikeImWithHim IGUESS

2007-12-03 17:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple weeks ago I had asked about a situation of mine. What I had done was just continued to be friends with her and get a long and see if things turn around. Well in a way they did, but she keeps pulling away. I could be perceiving it wrong but it seems that whenever she starts to get closer to me again, sort of like "warming up" she pulls away again, every time. I can't figure it out at all, some of the trends is that when she's not close she refers to me as her "brother" and loves me in that way. However after talking for a while she would tend to stop calling me her brother and things would get more personal in a relationship sense. That would last for a while but then out of no where she would just kind of "snap" back, almost like someone hit a restart button. My friend said that "her heart wants you but her mind doesn't". Which vaguely made a little sense but still wasn't entirely satisfying. I'm hoping someone could shed some light as to why this is happening. Thanks

2007-12-03 17:46:20 · 6 answers · asked by John 2

1.I’ve caught him staring at me alone in the corner.

2.I’ve noticed that every time I am leaving the roller rink he waits at the front where I am leaving and stares deeply into my eyes when I walk past.
3.He listens on the door of the girl’s toilets to hear what I am saying to my friends (He did that once)
4.Before he asked me out he was waiting at the front as usual and I was talking to my friends dad right in front of him, when I saw him staring at me in the corner of my eye, I look and he turns away quickly.
5.He asked for my number.
6.He got his friend to ask me out.
7.We had a conversation in texts.
8.He pointed at me to one of his friends while I was looking.
9.He asked my friend if another guy asked me out... while I was on the rink.
10.He lays down in the middle of the session on the barrier and stares up at the ceiling like he is thinking about something

2007-12-03 17:39:26 · 12 answers · asked by m; 1