Singles & Dating - 3 December 2007

my new boyfriend got some texts last night from his ex and it said 'thank you sweety' and that's all I saw, I left for a while and when I got back he told me that her parents told her that he came by to give her flowers. Well, he got me flowers last week so it's not hard to believe she recieved some aswellAnd I just realized I have 14 roses..isn't it usually a dozen? I'm thinkin he gave her 10..Ive always turned him down in the past cause I just could never trust him, he flirts with a lot of girls and now this just makes me concerned.. I said 'did you really give her those flowers because I'd rather you just be honest with me' and he said no he didn't...okay so then he deleted the texts so I couldn't see them..which is a tad suspicious..why do that if you didn't have anything to hide? I don't want to get hurt, please give me your honest opinion is he just playing me? I don't want to play these damn games I just want to be with someone I can trust. What does this sound like to u

2007-12-03 07:59:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Previously asked a question re FWB. I have this relationship for about a year now. He has said 'this is more than sex between us' and 'we should get together for a meal which I'll cook' talks about his personal stuff, previous relationships, the hurts and the joys. Asks if I need financial help for a particular project.
I always recoil from getting too deep, I listen to his depthy talkings, I refrain from saying 'I love the way you... this or that' BUT he often lets me down, can't make it etc, but acts very apologetic about mishaps where he couldn't make it. Says he's gagging for me or had a dream about me.
I feel he's changing and I am afraid to upset the stability, but it must be nicer for him to allow his emotions to surface now and then. I can't allow mine to, as I'm afraid it will be misinterpreted and he'll think I'm getting clingy and needy, when I am not. I just appreciate what we have. It started off as FWB but now I am not so sure about the way its going? Happened to any1?

2007-12-03 07:54:06 · 2 answers · asked by dunwerse 4

i like this guy & whenever i look at him he always looks back for like three seconds
and from the corner of my eye, i can see him looking at me
i mean, if he didnt like me and thought i was a weirdo he would just ignore me right? thats what i would do if i was him,
so what do you tihnk hes trying to say?
do you think hes just PRETENDING to like me?? =(

2007-12-03 07:36:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Come On Ladies-They want to hear!!!!

2007-12-03 07:36:22 · 4 answers · asked by mbaskin22 4

There is this man that I like and I think he likes me too.we met when working together a couple of years ago. we've kissed one time and still keep in touch even though I had to move to another state with a job promotion. He's real busy with new work responsibilities himself so I told him I could come see him if he wanted and he said it would be great if I did. Now he tells me he taking vacn at the nearest possible time & is coming to see me. Also he keeps asking me how long I'm going to be around (as I often travel overseas for long periods). What does he mean by this? Is he interested in have a romantic relationship with me? We are attracted to each other..both of us know this.

2007-12-03 07:31:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

For a while I was casually talking to this one guy. Eight months later we decided to make things official, he is now my bf of 4 months. While we were just talking he pretty much dangled, in my face, this other girl he was kind of talking to who lives 6 hours away in his hometown. For a while I felt threatened by her. It even came to a point I just stopped talking to him, but he kept pursuing me. I got a little worried that he would choose her over me, but that’s not how it went. Well he talked to her one time, after we got together, and I explained to him why I didn’t like him talking to her. The fact that he brought her to my attention like she was something special, you know? He assured me that I had nothing to worry about. That though he thought she was a cool person, I blew her out of the water and she could not compare. In the end and without me forcing he said with ease “No problem I just wont talk to her anymore.” And that he would do whatever to make me happy.

2007-12-03 07:31:09 · 3 answers · asked by TheLight 5

I'm starting with some big questions.

2007-12-03 07:28:23 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6

First kiss or first.....ya know??

2007-12-03 07:27:16 · 34 answers · asked by BoogyBoo 5

so i really like this guy and i think he likes me, but i'm not sure. we watch videos together pretty regularly and when we do we sit really close and share a blanket but then after the movie is over he seems to leave as soon as possible. we also go out for dinner sometimes, but nothing ever seems to progress. so does he even like me? and if so, how can i turn this into a relationship? also, we're both 20 if that makes a difference. Will he ever kiss me?

2007-12-03 07:22:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend feels self conscious because I sometimes like to masturbate, alone rather then with her. And because sometimes I like to watch porn as well. She feels self conscious because she thinks she isn't doing her job. This isn't the case, she is, I have just always been accustomed to masturbating on my own, even while dating, and I occasionally enjoy it even now, even though my sex life is fine with her. How do I explain to her that it isn't her not doing her job, but rather my habit and something I like to do sometimes, regardless of our sexual life?

2007-12-03 07:19:30 · 18 answers · asked by kittysheadcradle 2

What do you feel is a fair price for a hooker to charge. Just someone for half an hour of fun? I am just curious... Maybe an average girl next door type...

2007-12-03 07:17:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does that make you love me, hate me or have feelings somewhere in the middle? Why?
Also, would this classify as my '15 minutes of fame?'

2007-12-03 07:16:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok what are some good games u can play with your girlfriend/boyfriend over the phone?

2007-12-03 07:11:53 · 4 answers · asked by anymous 2

There's this girl I've liked for about 6 months now and I think I've ruined it for seeming to be too desperate, available and always wanting to hang out with her.

I hung out with her, her sisters, my brother and my friend. I was kind of avoiding her, but still talking to her equally with everyone. Before I would always be talking to her(not giving her space). Now I'm just treating her like everyone else, she seems to be curious in the way I've been acting... could it be working? Playing "hard to get?"

I make her laugh, I point out the stupid things she does(playfully mean) and she says stuff like "you're mean!" or "don't say that" (all with a smile mind you).=] I'm not sure if she likes me. If I knew she did I wouldn't be here asking this question.
I'm scared that if I tell her how I feel things will get awkward if she doesn't feel the same and that will only lead to my worst nightmare... not being able to see, talk, or be with her comfortably.

I'm not sure if I should just move on because I really like her. I haven't been acting rude, but I don't give her my full attention. Can you give me some feedback. I'd really appreciate it.=]

2007-12-03 07:11:15 · 3 answers · asked by John P. 2

My gf still talks to her ex as friends. I want it to stop and I don't know how to tell her without sounding like some crazy jealous person. he was a very jealous man and she couldn't stand it and i think that ultimatley ended there 5 yr relationship along with some other issues she had. So i don't want us to end i want her to stop talking to him all together. It didn't bother me until i was looking through her phone and noticed he was one of her my fave's contact's.....that just made me wonder do they talk more then she tells me....

I want it to stop, how can i tell her w/o making it a fight between us???

2007-12-03 07:06:25 · 15 answers · asked by Keepin it real 1

ok so my bf called me a **** because i wouldnt give him money for alcohol (he has a drinking problem) and i smacked him across the face. now hes mad at me for hitting him. since when is it ok for a guy to call a girl a c u n t. he wont even look at me...what should i do?

2007-12-03 07:04:35 · 2 answers · asked by darkness 2

2007-12-03 07:03:41 · 5 answers · asked by scottychance2004 1

I am currently a 25 year old male and I've been dating girls in the age ranges between 18-19. Girls my age, mostly 22-25, get mad and complain how I'm dating immature freshmen, but I don't see why they are complaining they used to be freshmen 18-19 year olds not that long ago, and the girls I've dated in this age range are more mature then most of the girls that are 24 and 25 years old.

2007-12-03 07:02:36 · 13 answers · asked by Nick Bollea 1

A coworker of mine told me this girl thought i was cute and at that time i didn't know she had a boyfriend. I was chatting with a coworker when she passed by and i stopped the conversation , called out her name and told her she looked nice today. She said "thanks" and turned really, really red.

It seems like one of her coworker is trying to push me towards her but i feel uncomfortable knowing she has a b/f.

2007-12-03 07:02:12 · 35 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

i been seeing this guy for a couple months now.
i have trust issues due to a couple of very bad past relationships.
things seem to be going well.
its his birthday this wkend and we planned to go out together, but he has just text me saying that his mates want to have a long wkend for his birthday prob going into town getting rat assed lol
he said is that ok and that we can celebrate it during wk.
but im peed of cos he planned with me first and now he has cancelled for his mates
so i just text ok
and that was it
ive not recieved a reply of him so i text him and asked him if he was going out both fri and sat night and still no reply from him!!
what does this mean?

2007-12-03 07:00:18 · 19 answers · asked by bellebrighton 1

It seems like he is chaeting and i asked him to prove to me that he is not cheating and all he can say is,"trust me i am not cheating" i cant take it anymore he was living at his parents home and now he has left for over a month and staying in the area where is supposedly ex-girlfriend live.He says he is not living with her yet he can not take me there and prove that he is staying at his friend's house.I told him i was uncomfortable with him staying in the area where she is because she is determine to get him back and that he should return home,and he has refuse to do as i asked so i am leaving him.

2007-12-03 06:57:49 · 16 answers · asked by Evita 1

For a while I was casually talking to this one guy. Eight months later we finally decide to make things official, he is now my bf of 4 months.While we were just talking he pretty much dangled, in my face, this other girl he was kind of talking to who lives 6 hours away.For a while I felt threatened by her. It even came to a point I just stopped talking to him, but he kept pursuing me. I got a little worried that he would choose her over me, but thats not how it went. Well he talked to her one time, after we got together, and I explained to him why I didnt like him talking to her. The fact that he brought her to my attention like she was something special, you know? He then assured me that I had nothing to worry about. That though he thought she was a cool person, I blew her out of the water and she could not compare. He also said he dangled her to keep me on my toes. Stupid I know.

Anyways the main thing is, she commented him on his Myspace today.

2007-12-03 06:56:51 · 23 answers · asked by TheLight 5

2007-12-03 06:51:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does a woman like? How do they like having sex? How do we please them?

2007-12-03 06:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so i knew this girl about 3-4 years ago when i was younger we never really hit it off then i moved away from her and never kept in contact untill recently she found my myspace and tho i was hot and bla bla

i started liking her and we went out for about a week then she said she had to focus on school work and couldnt focus on having a bf so i waited about a month till her birthday(which was friday) with all the other bs going on between that and about a week when i saw her i was questioning about us and she said if you ask me back out on my birthday like she wants the answer might change.....



So i did ask her out on her b day after making out and etc in the movies on her b day we couldnt do anything else cause her friends where there with us..

I asked her and she said she didnt know. so the next day i finally got my answer but she says im to hot\ nice for her and i dont show my naughty side enough... and she wants me to show it before she will be my gf.

should i just leave? idk

2007-12-03 06:49:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i freaked out on my boyfriend because he was talkin to this one girl...its not even that its how he acts nd the fact he tried to get with her nd when i meet him nd we started going out he had told her hed break up with me to go out with her...so thats why i was mad...then we broke up nd he didnt even care...i think the only reason i did that is because i care about him right?...♥♥♥

2007-12-03 06:45:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

why am i so scared to sit down and just talk to my bf about our problems you know cause we argue alot. but im 16 and his 18 and i feel like he won't listen to me but saturday night i sit in the truck talking to him and i told him that i would give up everything that i have my whole family just to be with him if my family had ditched him i would give it all up to be with him i would give my dreams up just to be with him!!! But it seems like when we go to talk about things im scared to say what i wanty. But he don't take stuff serious but the other night i told him to take all of it serious you would have to know him but n e ways why am i so scared to talk to him? and we have been together for 6 months and i'm extermely happy with him just our attudies need to change

2007-12-03 06:45:27 · 24 answers · asked by Hot Momma 2

What woman, doesn't love chocolate? Besides little things here and there, I have decided to take my girlfriend to this place in Brooklyn for a private workshop and learn how to make chocolate. its a half day of making, molding, and all other things. And you get to take home whatever you make. What do you think? Or if its a horrible idea, please let me know!

2007-12-03 06:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by Matt D 2

for the one you love? I'm scared of that...because I can't change the way I feel about certain things no matter how hard I try and I don't want it to drive a wedge between US!!! What do you do? Do you pretend everything is OK? Do you try really hard to change the way you feel about those things? Or do you decide it's better to walk away...so maybe they can find the happiness you know they deserve...even if it's with someone else???

2007-12-03 06:43:48 · 10 answers · asked by F-1 says KISS IT! 7

2007-12-03 06:43:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous