so i really like this guy and i think he likes me, but i'm not sure. we watch videos together pretty regularly and when we do we sit really close and share a blanket but then after the movie is over he seems to leave as soon as possible. we also go out for dinner sometimes, but nothing ever seems to progress. so does he even like me? and if so, how can i turn this into a relationship? also, we're both 20 if that makes a difference. Will he ever kiss me?
2007-12-03 07:22:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's too shy to move forward. it sounds as tho he's just trying to respect your boundaries, albeit he's a little off on where those lie. he's just playing it safe, so you will have to make the first move.
2007-12-03 07:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by fullmetal8585 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so I've been here before and it's hard to tell just because every guy is different. It sounds like he has feelings for you, I'm just not sure what kind of feelings. Maybe he does like you or maybe he just thinks of you as a really good girl friend. The only way to really figure it out is to talk to him. Do you flirt with him or talk to him about your past relationships? I usually try to spend alone time with a guy, then snuggle up real close to them and put my around them because I'm always cold. Eventually you get close and you catch them staring and you stare back and it's that perfect kissing moment. If he goes for it he likes you, if not he just wants to be friends....it's a little tricky but it usually works. Try it. Good luck. Look at this way, if it doesn't work at least you have this really really cute friend and things may change later on.
2007-12-03 15:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy may just want someone to come to as a really close friend, where he can go out with you, but not have any commitment really. Kind of like a close cousin. If your really worried about the situation, and don't know what to do, confront him and ask him if you two or going anywhere. He may also just have a weird way of showing his feelings, or maybe he's getting ready for something big. So just go with the flow, or take the initiative and confront him. But whatever you do, don't start snooping around!
2007-12-03 15:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he will someday, maybe he is just waiting for the right time. You also have to look at other things he does, that could indicate his love for you, the way he treats you, how often he asks you out etc. If you feel he failed many times to show you his affection or if you feel he's not as keen as you are in progressing the relationship than you should maybe begin looking for someone else. I always believe men should be two steps ahead of women in showing love especially in the beginning of a relationship.
2007-12-03 15:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hang out like a couple, so why not just make the move. i mean like ask him out rather than wait for him to come around. you're both are mature enough to know what you want, and perhaps he's too shy (still) to ask you out or he might look at this as a friendship. but to make more than a friendship, you should go to the movie and then tell him how you feel. you never know that he might feel the same, but if he doesn't, that doesn't mean that things will have to change because you're both are 20 and can haddle that. the situation shouldn't get awkward just because one person tells someone they have a crush on them. but i hope that once you tell him how you feel, then he'll kiss you in return to let you know how he feels.
2007-12-03 15:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you say, it sounds like he's more interested in just being friends right now. He might even be gay....who knows. A lot of gay guys hang out with girls as friends.....like Will and Grace??? I'm not saying he is obviously I don't know him, but just going on the info I've read, that seems like a possible reason. In the end, it doesn't seem like he's interested in a relationship with you, just friends.
2007-12-03 15:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered the possibility that he may very well be married or have a girlfriend already? Bring the subject up to him and tell him how you feel and then depending on the response you get then decide if you still want to be with him and if you do you kiss him because it sounds to me like he's very shy.
2007-12-03 15:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by jessicapace90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds scared or something. Weird. You should just put the move on him and see what he does. If he's not ready for it, then you can just be friends. Maybe he's gay and hasn't really been comfortable getting too close but can act like a "girl" friend, ya know what I mean??
2007-12-03 15:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Casie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably nervous, especially if he;s never had a girlfriend before. Try to find out if he has had one...if not than kiss his cheek when you say bye and see what he does because he's just probably nervous.
2007-12-03 15:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that you aren't sending the right cues.
You should probably have a conversation with him to find out if you are both on the same page.
2007-12-03 15:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋