for the one you love? I'm scared of that...because I can't change the way I feel about certain things no matter how hard I try and I don't want it to drive a wedge between US!!! What do you do? Do you pretend everything is OK? Do you try really hard to change the way you feel about those things? Or do you decide it's better to walk away...so maybe they can find the happiness you know they deserve...even if it's with someone else???
2007-12-03 06:43:48 · 10 answers · asked by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no,cause i know that,that person loves me for the good and the bad!never change what you feel,unless what you're feeling is just insecurity!if so,then change that insecurity!!if the love is worth it,then FIGHT!fight for that love!talk things over with him!!
2007-12-03 10:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My personal belief is if it is an issue that both of you can agree to disagree on that won't cause a serious problem in the relationship you can usually work around it. But, if it is an issue that is quite a big thing that you feel strongly about, you will not change & it can cause problems in the relationship. You musn't change who you are to please another. You cannot pretend that everything is ok when it is not.
If you feel it is something that you can & want to change about yourself & you are doing it for you, then by all means do it. But, if it is something about yourself that you value then be true to yourself & be true to the one that you love.
2007-12-03 09:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by ♫brokenangel♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think everyone feels that way when they are involved in a relationship at one time or another ..... but you need to remember no one is perfect ...... . if he wants to be with you, it shows that you are good enough for him ..... many couples don't see eye to eye on every subject or topic ...... that is ok ..... every couple shares some differences too ...... unconditional love means that you each have to give in on things sometimes while trying to make your loved one happy ....... but it doesn't mean you ever should give up anything you feel strongly about ..... and if he truely loves you, he would never ask to make any major changes either in the person that you are ..... = )
2007-12-03 11:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ocho Cinco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes-find a way to change about the way you feel because it can drive a wedge between you and then it becomes to late..
2007-12-04 01:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by KAREBEAR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a few beliefs and or personality traits that is just embedded in us, if you changed that about yourself then you might as well give yourself and new name and pretend your someone you're not. There are few characterisitcs of mine which I hate but it seems no matter how much I try remains the same, and I've learned that's who I am.
2007-12-03 06:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by Behave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that all the time. I just pretend everything is ok, when it's not. I just hope...that both of us can remember what drew us to eachother in the first place and hopefully we can rekindle that.
2007-12-03 06:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that alot, but I think it's because I seem to worry about my relationship constantly, even if their is nothing wrong with it. I guess I try to pretend like nothing is wrong though.
2007-12-03 06:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Semper Fidelis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need compromise if there can be one...if not rather walk away then cheat...good luck hun
2007-12-03 10:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just gotta walk away, they are not the one for you
2007-12-03 06:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try dating someone uglier than you. then they will make you feel good about yourself
2007-12-03 06:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋