i like this guy & whenever i look at him he always looks back for like three seconds
and from the corner of my eye, i can see him looking at me
i mean, if he didnt like me and thought i was a weirdo he would just ignore me right? thats what i would do if i was him,
so what do you tihnk hes trying to say?
do you think hes just PRETENDING to like me?? =(
2007-12-03 07:36:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
generally, if i guy will look back at you for more than two seconds, they're thinking something. smile and ask how he is. if he thinks you're a wierdo, then he'll ignore you. if not, he'll smile and you'll start talking. my favorite is to ask them to do something with you that would be safe. like this weeks, i'm taking my great grandma to get ice cream, and i asked the guy i like to go help me out with her. so yeah, just find something that's safe. like if you need help getting a project out of your car or locker and he's going your way. you always have to talk while doing that stuff.
2007-12-03 07:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jaycie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just start off the conversation. I think you are pretty young maybe still in school so start out with hey how are you?! Do that for a few days then ask him something about class and eventually you will get a good conversation or you can do what I use to do in school and just ask random questions and see where it goes. You don't always need to wait for the guy or you will never get any where some of them prefer the girl make the first move. Good luck and don't worry about it. If he is a jerk there are plenty of guys in the world and you would be surprised to find out the guys closer to you will be the ones you end up dating.
2007-12-03 07:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by FullofQuestions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm a guy and i did the same thing..
when a guy does that it means he likes you 90% of the time but he eaither is woundering if you might like him or he want's you to talk to him like say hi and let things go from there some guys are really shy and trust me if he was pretending he would'nt try that hard he would give it a little effort.
start a conversation and let it grow tell him you like him take a chance because it could be good but also bad if he says no but i think he proubley does so good luck and i hope the best.
2007-12-03 07:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you. He likes that you're shy and timid but wants to see if you can make a move. Shy is cute and can be what catches a guy's eye. But that extra something is what they look for and you have to put that out there for him. Show up you're serious and mean business. He'll appreciate that you can be cute and shy in public but can also be assertive when need be. If he was just pretending to like you I think HE would try more to get your attention and it doesn't sound like he's doing that. Just give it a go and goodluck hun!
2007-12-03 07:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, he s not pretending. The eye contact is the best way to tell somebody u like them. He may talk to u out of the blue, he may also b thinking the same thing u r, just unsure of what u think about him. But yes, it seems like he likes u now its ur choice, u can wait for him to make a move, or u can make the move urself
Good luck
2007-12-03 07:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by just a thought 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just talk to him. He might give you some hints about how he feels about you. If he doesn't like you, then at least you'll know. If he does like you, then you guys can go out. Besides, why would he pretend to like you? That just doesn't make sense. Without taking a chance every once in a while, you'll miss out on a lot. I hope this helps :]
2007-12-03 07:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Shellabell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like youve never talked to him. next time u make eye contact smile at him. if he smiles back then be the aggressive one and say hi. ask a question. find a way to make small talk with him. if hes in a class of yours ask him a question about the hw or comment on the teacher. any reason to talk to him. if he looks at u crazy chance are he is not interested if he talks back to u he may be interested. he might be shy and is waiting for u to talk to him. take the first step and see where it goes. goodluck!
2007-12-03 07:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOunds like he is shy like you, try talking to him. Next time yoiu catch him looking at you say HI and see what happens. Try to engage in a convo with him and see where it goes
2007-12-03 07:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and say hi sometime. whether he sits next to you and you have to tap him on the shoulder to ask a question or after class is over just walk up next to him say hi and leave. that's what i've done before and then he started talking to me.
2007-12-03 07:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont thing any guy pretends to like a girl..unless he's after one thing...but u should try making conversation with him and see where it leads...theres nothing wrong with taking a risk.
2007-12-03 07:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by charley_78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋