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There's this girl I've liked for about 6 months now and I think I've ruined it for seeming to be too desperate, available and always wanting to hang out with her.

I hung out with her, her sisters, my brother and my friend. I was kind of avoiding her, but still talking to her equally with everyone. Before I would always be talking to her(not giving her space). Now I'm just treating her like everyone else, she seems to be curious in the way I've been acting... could it be working? Playing "hard to get?"

I make her laugh, I point out the stupid things she does(playfully mean) and she says stuff like "you're mean!" or "don't say that" (all with a smile mind you).=] I'm not sure if she likes me. If I knew she did I wouldn't be here asking this question.
I'm scared that if I tell her how I feel things will get awkward if she doesn't feel the same and that will only lead to my worst nightmare... not being able to see, talk, or be with her comfortably.

I'm not sure if I should just move on because I really like her. I haven't been acting rude, but I don't give her my full attention. Can you give me some feedback. I'd really appreciate it.=]

2007-12-03 07:11:15 · 3 answers · asked by John P. 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Sounds like this girl likes the curiosity. Play with it for about another month then tell her how you feel. But just keep in mind...you might have to play this hard to get game for awhile if you two do start going out. Just to keep her interested. Hopefully that's not the case and she just loves your humor and wittiness.

2007-12-03 07:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Yep...Me! 2 · 1 0

Stop being afraid and just tell how you feel. She either going to say she feels something for you also, or to go pound sand.

Either way by the end of the conversation your will have your answer.

2007-12-03 15:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

The worst that can happen, is she will reject you... However from your story, I don't think that will happen... So.. no need to give up now... tell her what you think....

2007-12-03 15:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1 0

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