do i have the right to hit my bf for callin me a c u n t...?

Question

ok so my bf called me a **** because i wouldnt give him money for alcohol (he has a drinking problem) and i smacked him across the face. now hes mad at me for hitting him. since when is it ok for a guy to call a girl a c u n t. he wont even look at me...what should i do?

Answer 1

Well your with a guy with a drinking problem, so thats your frist mistake.

Second was thinking anything about this guy is going to be fair.

Third was thinking that he wouldn't smack you because he loved you or some unrealistic crap like that.

Realize he is asking you for money because he feels he needs alcohol more then you. Or worse, he knows you enough to know your a door-mat and that you'll tolerate this behavior because you "love" him so much. SO ether you tuffin-up and realize that love doesn't matter, its how you use it, or just keep getting slapped when ever you step out of his line, its your choice.....

but honestly these is such a big sign of how much you don't love yourself, that I fear your never going to actually listen to what I have to say. You looked right past his drinking problem and only thought after he slapped you that he did something wrong, so you've got some self-hate their hunnie, which as with most relationships, he isn't the problem. There well always be guys like him, the only thing you can do is shield yourself from them.... failing that, its your fault..... sorry, no offense...... you get what you feel you deserve... ether that or you FIGHT for what you deserve, its your life......

Answer 2

heck yeah you have the right to hit him. letting him say something like that without punishment is letting him walk all over you. which puts him in control.

about the alcohol. my dads an alcoholic. please dont think it will get better. it wont. and for your own good please leave him. in the long run you'll be better off. alcoholics are no walk in the park. and they can really mess with your head.

hope you make the right choice.