Singles & Dating - 3 December 2007

2007-12-03 12:22:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I am 13, and I was talking to my friend on AIM.

Me: Hey, What's up?
Him: n2m..
Me: I ate too much
Me: I am gonna get fat!
Him: Don't worry- you're not fat
Me: But people say that all the tim
Him: No, I bet you turn on a lot of guys with the size of your breasts.
Me: ??? You look there???
Him: You can't help but notice.
Me: ..........

Keep in mind I am 13.

2007-12-03 12:15:27 · 79 answers · asked by Someone 5

2007-12-03 11:54:45 · 33 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

My boyfriend and I met on deployment to Iraq a few years ago and fell in love. He went home a few months before I did, but we promised to live together when I got back. So I moved to a new state and went to a new school to be with him. I even transfered to the National Guard in his state from the Reserves(which is not an easy process for those of you who don't know). We lived together for about 2 and a half years. Our relationship wasn't always easy, but we always loved each other and we were each others best friends. He found out a few months ago that he would be deployed again...his mission this time may be more dangerous than it was for him last time. He is an MP and right now he is training to be a turret gunner for convoys...when I met him in Iraq he was basically working a desk job as intelligence...but I think somethings he saw the first time he was over there freaked him out. He had to go through a dead soldier's personal items(he didn't know the soldier)

2007-12-03 11:54:35 · 1 answers · asked by little e 3

i got mad at my boyfriend , was i wrong?
we had planned a date last week and he apparrently had a office party on th same day that he said he didnt know of. so whatever, i told him he could go to his office party and if he wants he can crush at my place later on and so he said we def will.. on that day he showed up at my place at 1 am ,fully drunk.....
whatever, office party , christmass time , bonuses he is happy so i didnt get mad........
now , about a week later i find out this picture from the party , where he is drunk as *** , hugging some girl on a camera.... no one else is in the pic, but u can see a big crowed of ppl behind him and the pic says " best holiday party at work ever"

i got so mad, first he ruined our date, than he showed up at 1 , he made me stay late and wait for him because he said he will def will come and now i find out that while i was sitting at home waiting for him he was drunk taking pics with a girl

am i wrong???

2007-12-03 11:52:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy I really really care about, but he's not ready for a relationship yet. He's been really busy lately and I don't want to be a bother. People said maybe if I give him some time and space he might realize what he's missing and come around, if it's meant to be it will just be patience. So I've decided to trust and be patient. As hard as this is for me how can I move on? I don't have many friends here. The only family I have around here are 2 cousins and a sister, but they're into their spouse and kids. I just started a new job so I don't have much money. Befor I met him I was comfortable with staying at home watching tv and reading books and being alone, but now I hate doing that. I need help on finding something to do to occupy my time.

2007-12-03 11:50:43 · 3 answers · asked by tc22 3

If you have been in a relationship and it failed, but you really care about each other. Even if it was messy. How can both people really be certain that that person is even a possibility?

I know it is a complex question, but most folks seem sure one moment and then change their minds that next and are sure then.

In the end it should really be about whether the two would come together and be happier together than they would be apart, and that they both really want to be there.

Would it be safe to say that you should marry someone who is your best friend?

I ask because it seems people are so sure one way or the other, as if it were forever, but for some reason it seems more like it is easier to treat it that way.

2007-12-03 11:39:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do guys like girls with blonde hair? Do they like skinny girls? Do they like funny girls? Do they like smart girls? Do they like rich or poor girls? Do they like musical girls? HELP!?!

2007-12-03 11:34:44 · 5 answers · asked by luvmusic 2

2007-12-03 11:30:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 11:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by skittles 2

If you suspected your boyfriend was having "cybersex" with other people via webcam or chatting in a sexual way with them would you let him do it?

My BF lives ages away so we only meet eachother once every weekend, he has a very high sex drive and I know he likes using online dating sites and talking to other people. Should I let him do it and turn a blind eye as a sort of compromise?

Do you think it classes as REAL adultery?

2007-12-03 11:26:44 · 17 answers · asked by Sophia 3

Im a an attractive female. When I got out, heads turn..Im not trying to sound conceited, im just better detailing for the purpose of my question. The problem is is that i cant find someone like me. Im educated, smart, good job, etc. It seems like all the gangsta hoodrat men love me. Its hard to find someone on my level. I am very selective now due to failed relationships in the past. I dont want to be single, but I refuse to settle for anyone. Does anyone else have this problem?

2007-12-03 11:25:36 · 30 answers · asked by ♥ Alwayz..... 4

Ok im 35 years old. I had this 18 year old girl trying to hit on me on line and she kept telling me she likes older guys. It was creeping me out. Being 35 i really cant see myself dating someone under 25. This is because of common interests and life experience.

Im typically ok with 8 years younger and 5-8 years older than me. Do you think it is normal to be creeped out by someone half your age?

So what is an ok age gap for you? and why?

2007-12-03 11:17:22 · 12 answers · asked by Scott 6

I was wondering,im 13 and when boys MY AGE look at me i kinda like it cux i like being the center of attention.But when an old man does it its very veyr creepy.Does this mean im a hooker/wh888?

2007-12-03 11:17:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 11:09:09 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

instead of going to dinner with her to discuss things with her i am going to not do that. is it better to not try and make someone understand you better, or is it better to have them understand you better only by their own want to understand you. i dont want this damn dinner to be me begging for her to know she has the wrong idea of who i am, if she missed the last 2 months, thats not my problem. chicks hate nice guys. does this mean i should be the asshole they want me to be? **** no!! never change, never change.

2007-12-03 11:01:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really think young and have always been trendy. Worked many years in the garment center in N.Y. this one I just don't get.
Why would you like to walk around looking like a comic book?
While we are at it, what's with the rings all over your face? The studs in your tongue. ouch

2007-12-03 10:57:16 · 7 answers · asked by clever girl 4

on her withdrawal day, the day this student decides that it is her last day and is. Why would a professor still feel a little uncomfortable even after he said he wotuld a week before.
Is it because he thinks my friends and I are close enough for me to share any insight between him and I.
This professor said he wanted a relationship with me but only after I graduate or no longer attend the college.
He always made it clear to me that he could get into deep trouble if I exposed the conversations we would share.
We had something going on but no physical contact.
He was very shy and quiet, 27 years old.
But with me he was pretty open and relaxed, but still
a little reserved.

So why would he feel uncomfortable giving out his number... if let's say HE really did like this girl and she really liked him
(over 18) ?
he would make a paranoid face when we would talk even teacher-student talk, he would get kind of red when a teacher would pass by us.But during decent conversations.

2007-12-03 10:35:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is she ignoring you?
for the Ladies ..why is he ignoring you?

point out some of the stuff you did wrong so we can all learn from your mistakes.


(L) Kurin!
I know i like somone a lot, but i aint able to get with him..
just didn't pay enough attention to him before and now hes got a girl.

2007-12-03 10:34:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok,after school my bf tried to kiss me but i just huged him and looked away,and he said wat ur not gonna kiss me,i said ya and then he kissed me......will he be upset or mad at me...he looked really sad

2007-12-03 10:27:29 · 29 answers · asked by love_life 2

I have been talking about this with him, and he wants to do it. I think its kind of hot. He is going to get a whip and everything, and I will wear a potato sack.

2007-12-03 10:18:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lets say your a open person who is attracted to any race, color, look, and etc. Your crush is a different "race" than you. Would you fear that he/she would believe stereotypes about your group?

Example: I'm Asian and I have a crush on a Caucasian girl from class. I'm worried she would assume I'm a nerd, reserve, a foreigner (I'm not one), a martial arts master, a dog eater, or whatever. Even if she doesn't express it, what if she keeps these in mind about me?

Is it normal to think someone will judge you by your race?

Thank you for reading.

2007-12-03 10:18:13 · 11 answers · asked by Closed 5

i'm a guy and when i see a girl that's got a little belly. it doesn't turn me off at all.

2007-12-03 10:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by ced562 2

I have been seeing a guy for 3 years now and i love spending time with him,the only problem is he wont commit to me and have a serious relationship,i'm sort of fine with it now but i see him only now and again when he's not busy. I've been seeing this new guy for 4months,he says he loves me,wants to marry me,kids etc but he is a bit of a control freak,i'm confused and feel like i should break it off with my bf of 3 years but my new guy dumped me for a few days then got back together with me like nothing happened,he also said he's going away in Jan to work abroad for a few months,i dont want them to find out about each other but i feel like i should do the right thing and break it off with my guy of 3years but what if this new guy messes me about again?

Who should i choose?

2007-12-03 10:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you're never going to love anyone and no-one is going to love you?

2007-12-03 10:08:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 10:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

She works at the gym I go to,
Im very patient & have bided my time with her,
Tonight I was talking with her for ages & she was tellin me bout her boyfriend being a complete sh*thead & she's going to finish with him. He treats her like crap and also never gets her little presants or anything.
Blah blah blah ,. . . Money is absolutely no object to me & I always like to go completely against the grain, all the time.

I will buy her a white gold pendant and chain tomorrow and expect absolutely nothing in return for it. After all, its just a gift and Im a generous type of guy.

Is this a bad idea..??

Im afraid that it might somehow create complications!

2007-12-03 09:59:15 · 48 answers · asked by Point 3

WHat does it mean to get "backed up"?

2007-12-03 09:56:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl that i really liked i asked out and she said i just got over a relationship so i'll go out with u when i get over nick and i said ok the next day she got back together with the same kid she now denys she ever said that. i still like her though what sould i do??

2007-12-03 09:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by Kevin 2

how was it and HOW OLD WERE YOU AND THE PERSON YOU WERE KISSING???

2007-12-03 09:55:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous