2007-12-03 10:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in a relationship?
Any tips & tricks?
PEACE & LUV
2007-12-03 10:02:40 · update #1
It is a hard thing to do. I have gotten hurt many times emotionally in relationships because the other person didn't care. My advice is to take it slow and one day at a time. Don't show all of your emotions at once and let it go slow, the slower the better. That way you get to know the person better and still try to protect yourself.
2007-12-03 10:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Jessica♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are no tips, tricks or walkthroughs when it comes to relationships. There is no way to protect yourself from the hurt if a relationship is whats intended. Being in a relationship is about taking chances and yes that leaves both parties open for hurt. All you can do is trust that the person you are sharing with is not going to hurt you and in the event that you get hurt, charge it to relationship and that person. Take time, heal and move on but don't carry that hurt with you to the next relationship.
Earth
2007-12-04 08:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Earth the Poet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you but there is nothing you can do to protect yourself from getting hurt emotionally.
2007-12-03 10:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by sddq_nn 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think that people sort of tell you what they are in their actions and what they say at the very beginning and not seeing/hearing the clues is what causes disappointment.
I try to listen to myself and feelings I get about a person and try not to be blinded by what I want and dream for. Very hard to do.
Then of course there is the old not careing and not being serious about anything, but I believe that if you offer nothing you will get nothing in return. If you offer something only then can you have a good relationship.
2007-12-03 10:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't
it happens
just learn to get over it and move on.
to try to protect yrouself from being hurt means not even allowing yrouself to get emotionally involved with anyone which is definitely not conducive to building any relationship.
2007-12-03 10:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can, not without avoiding all relationships. I know people who have done that all their lives and they are not fulfilled people. They eventually look back on their lives and for the most part have to dwell on all that they have missed.
Best to not think or worry about it. All will be well in the long run. The worrying is worse than the occasional pain.
2007-12-03 11:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by golfer7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. It's much better to deal and work through the pain in the long run. I know. I've built up a wall and it's really hard to let anyone in now, even though I don't hurt at all. It makes you a remorseless, ruthless person and you wind up hurting people you may even start to care about. Please, it's better to feel than to run.
2007-12-03 10:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Evadne Soleil 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ehm..
I recently bought this system http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=563. It teaches how to protect yourself and your family in case of violent situations or unexpected attacks from thiefs. Sometimes having a gun is just not enough.
Have a nice day
2014-09-08 01:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry a relationship is basically making yourself vulnerable so the only way to protect yourself is not become involved and then you miss out on all the wonderful feelings ---- best wishes
2007-12-03 10:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way to protect yourself is to keep apart of yourself from them....you know don't give them your whole heart. I think it is best to give them all of it and if it gets hurt you learn from it.
2007-12-03 10:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by g_fredo_99 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋