instead of going to dinner with her to discuss things with her i am going to not do that. is it better to not try and make someone understand you better, or is it better to have them understand you better only by their own want to understand you. i dont want this damn dinner to be me begging for her to know she has the wrong idea of who i am, if she missed the last 2 months, thats not my problem. chicks hate nice guys. does this mean i should be the asshole they want me to be? **** no!! never change, never change.
2007-12-03 11:01:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly brain there is a middle road!!!! Its better two! Thats why I'm brutal honesty, I was a nice guy, but found out, giving serious advice, nicly, FAILS to really show the seriousness of whats going on. SO espacially in my personal relationship I'm nice but brutally honest about what I think and believe. Like lets say I have a lady-friend and she's dating some idiot. Use to be I'd tell her, you know, you could do so much better. Now I ask them to stick their hand out, I slap the **** out of it, then brow-beat them for failing themselves and being fools for loving a fool. And just have my marry old way letting them know, heck I'm a compassinate guy, but I refuse to treat it like it isn't hard-2-the-fin-core. Which is the point, if nice guys ballz up and have a purpose there welling to die for, they can get the ladies even faster then the big mean fellas. Its about being a leader, not being led.....
2007-12-06 04:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋