Why is she ignoring you?
for the Ladies ..why is he ignoring you?
point out some of the stuff you did wrong so we can all learn from your mistakes.
(L) Kurin!
I know i like somone a lot, but i aint able to get with him..
just didn't pay enough attention to him before and now hes got a girl.
2007-12-03 10:34:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah she is hott, she works at a department store near my house. I was checking her out while she was checking groceries. She started to play with her hair.
2007-12-03 10:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nicki G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a career at this. Sometimes it was a confidence thing, I didn't really believe that someone I really wanted could want me. Other times it was a fear of intimacy thing, I could only feel romance for people who I felt wouldn't return the feelings.
What did I do wrong? I never listened to myself. When I felt romance I would deny it and say, no it can't be. When I felt nothing I would try to force the situation by being really "nice" or attentive. So, listen to those feelings. They will tell you quite quickly if it's a go, a zero, or a can't tell yet. Attraction isn't magic. This can be bad news however to those who are looking for magic.
Some more advice? Don't hang around any situation that isn't working now in the hopes it will work someday. This will save you much energy.
If you find you just can't forget about him, tell him exactly how you feel. This is good because you will be able to express yourself, which is a relief. And, you will either get him or get rejected properly. And you can move on to something more productive.
2007-12-03 18:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah Madiha i rellay wanted her and i still dont understand why but i just wanted her,even my friends made of of me cuz of her and she aint really beautiful and i really didnt want any sex or anything,but i still i dont understand why i went crazy for her. I still talk to her but sometimes on txt only and we are just friends now. She aint with any other guy right now,she just said she had problems with her family and stuff.
I dont really think i did anything wrong or stuff,but only thing i did wrong was never picked up the courage to tqalk to her face to face fr longer.
2007-12-03 19:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mansoor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find another guy cause usually u find the perfect guy and the dude who already has a girlfriend will want you to be his girlfriend but find another guy cause he's usually the perfect guy for you but do not use him to get him
2007-12-03 18:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Chipotle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋