Singles & Dating - 3 December 2007

Okay I have a guy friend that I really like but it seems like the relationship isn't going to happen from my perspective. He tends to flirt with me at times but never hints at wanting more although it does seem like it at times like when he touches my knee and invites me to go places with him. I really like him but I don't want to ruin the friendship by making things awkward if I confront him about it so I haven't made a move either. On the other hand I have another guy friend that does like me and wants to date me. He seems more like a friend to me though but I've been considering giving it a try with him. But then I think how I can't get the other guy out of my mind and I wonder if it would really work out. I want to give the guy friend that likes me a try but I just don't know if I should because there is always the chance my other guy friend like me even though I've thought it not possible. Both are really good friends but I really don't know wat to do so please help!

2007-12-03 09:54:04 · 1 answers · asked by Confused heart 1

My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 months. She says she is happy and I can tell she is. Well in a couple of weeks her and her ex have plans to go see a movie together. They have hung out a couple of times, but my girlfriend insists they are just friends. She says there is nothing for me to worry about. The reason she broke up with him is because her mother and sister did not like the way he treated her. She said she would never go back to him. I told her I just don't understand, but would get over it. Is the a big deal or not?

2007-12-03 09:53:49 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan M 2

I'm a junior in high-school and there's this girl that sits by me in a couple of my classes. We talk to each other a lot, but I can't exactly read whether she likes me or not. She's really popular and a lot of guys like her, but she hasn't had a boyfriend in quite a while. We always find something to talk about in class, even about other classes which we have the same teachers for. I really like her, and I want to ask her out, but I'm afraid of risking it. We're good friends and if she doesn't like me, asking her out would surely lead in one direction. So, what do you think? Should I risk it? or Wait and see?

2007-12-03 09:52:47 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 09:50:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive have done everything except dry sex or actual sex with my boyfriend of 3 months... ive told some of my closest friends and then seem to think that it was sluty.... im curious as to why they would think so, and what yor personal opinion is
( i have only done anything with one other guy)

2007-12-03 09:50:14 · 7 answers · asked by Chrissy 1

2007-12-03 09:49:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always been shy, I'm an only child and have always been introverted. Now I'm 20 and tried moving away to college, but it just didn't work out, its so uncomfortable. Will it always be this way? I'm lonely, but being around people just makes me nervous. I'm most comfortable alone or with my parents. Help?

2007-12-03 09:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello everyone how are yall. I hope everyone is doing well. Ok i need major advice/help. Ok so there is this guy that I really like. I believe he is from Pakistan. He is the sweetest guy i've ever met. I've known him like since a month after school was already in. I dont think he knows that I really like him or how I really feel about him. I think he likes me too but he's giving me mixed signals. His sister told my sister that he talkes about me all the time. I am african americn girl that is exteremely shy, and nice. He is engaged but i dont think he likes the girl he is engaged to, she isn't in the United States, but i think he really likes me alot too. HeHe comes to my desk at school everyday and ask me how my day was. We are very good friends but I am still to shy to tell him how I feel. But idk maybe he feels the same way i do and is too shy to tell me. I dont know much about his culture either. And soon I want to ask him to prom and maybe be my new bf. What should I do >___< !!!

2007-12-03 09:45:28 · 11 answers · asked by Iceprincess 2

2007-12-03 09:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

after dating for 5 months my ex girlfriend broke up with me because we were fighting for a week. She suffers from depression and she said she didn't want to fight anymore so she ended it. She wants to still hang out everyday and be friends. Im still hurting and not ok. She's recently been seeing this other guy all the time, going to movies, dinner ect. When I brought up the idea of her being interested in him more so than me she told me to *** off because im being a jealous idiot. However everytime I call her, he's there. He's even answered the phone one time. I think i'm ready to pack my bags and leave. I even told her i was and she said I was walking out on her if I did. I want to support her and her depression but she's always seeing this guy and I think she's using her problems as a cop out. What do you think? I need all the advice in the world. I don't want to throw this 5 month relationship away, she was my first love. I'm in college by the way.

2007-12-03 09:43:00 · 10 answers · asked by charchar88 2

So me and my boyfriend broke up like three days ago (I broke up with him) because I heard he texted a girl and asked her to have sex with him. But anyways at the time I believed it was true but now I am not entirely sure it was. He says he didn't do it but other people said he did. But he has never did anything to make me not trust him. Plus I am usually always with him and he usually wouldnt have time to be with another girl cuz he was always with me! anyways I really want Jake back now cuz life is just so hard without him! He IS my world and I need him back! but I think I hurt him really badly cuz I asked him if me and him could have a second chance at it and he said "not right now cuz we just need some time apart and I think we should see other people to see if we r meant to be" and I broke down. But I cannot wait so what should I do??

2007-12-03 09:40:12 · 23 answers · asked by Miranda T 1

my ex who I dated for 9 months is harrassing me about breaking up with my current boyfriend.

People say that I should put a restraining order on him.
What should I do? I still want to be friends with him, but I can not continue going through the stress.

2007-12-03 09:38:44 · 9 answers · asked by Confused Llama 1

So there's a girl-let's call her Jane. Jane has a BF, let's call him Mark. I went out with Jane 2 times before for about a month and both times she lied to me and broke my heart-lied to me to get with Mark. I am still absolutely in love with Jane and Mark is treating her like crap (ignoring her, blowing her off, etc.) and she always comes to me for support. Jane calls me her "best friend" and says she wants to date me in the future. I actually asked her out and she said no. I want to know, is she going to dump Mark and go out with me, or am I chasing hopeless love? Did she promise me the future to make me feel better? All Jane's friends hate Mark and me, and I think that affects her. Do you think she will ever date me again? Should I move on?
Jane & Mark=6 months
Jane & I know each other=1 year

2007-12-03 09:36:33 · 22 answers · asked by tomdawg ツ 4

i wonder why i dont have the relationship that i want its like somehow i'm not good enough i know the guy should love me for who i am but sometimes i'm not sure who i am its sounds wired lol
can u help me please?

2007-12-03 09:34:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you have body parts that HAVE to touch? like for instance..even if you sleep back to back do your butts have to touch or your feet?

2007-12-03 09:34:29 · 32 answers · asked by bmoody32726 2

ok what does it mean when someone says there going to grind on you..... what do they do?? what does it mean for guys?? how do guys grind on girls?? what does it mean for girls?? how do girls grind on people??......... please don't be rude or mean i just want to know.........

2007-12-03 09:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you take off a women's bra, I fumbled with my girlfriends for about 5 minutes before i decided to just slide it up. I rly cud not get the strap undone, any tips?

2007-12-03 09:30:57 · 40 answers · asked by Mr Mysterio 1

I saw on the discovery channel that girls tend to look for chubbyish guys for long term relationships. Is that true?

2007-12-03 09:26:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi ...my problem is i just brake up with my fiance,after 2 years through it we wasn't together also there was secrets i didn't know about it ,i was just so blind cuz i loved him so much even more than myself...finally i discovered that he was lieing all the time &cheeting me...he said that he have to leave to get a job ,but the truth is he got already another life with another person...&when i talk to he says that i'm so wrong ,but in the same time he never show his love to me or even special feelings twords me....now after all that painfull ,yes i feeel relief again ,but my heart browken &i feel that i was so fool ..even when i try to forget everything &start again,in the night when i want to sleep i thinking about everything ,he was with another girl &so happy ,but i was thinking about him ..any way ...please i really need help to stand up again with new start..do you think it's good idea if i send him telling him how i feel because of him &i 'll never forgive him?!

2007-12-03 09:25:51 · 2 answers · asked by ani 1

2007-12-03 09:22:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bud is a sophomore in high school along with me, and he is dating an eighth grader...whats your thoughts?

2007-12-03 09:18:03 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that my boyfriend fooled around with another girl last Saturday. I was away, busy because I had some school event, he knew that I was not going to be home and when he went out with his friends he kissed another girl. This girl is part our group. The next day, (yesterday) my friends came to our apartmet after the weeked break and they told me what hapened. I felt offended cause the day before this happened we were together and we had hell of a night. Everything was nice between us. He's jeoulous of me and he doesn't trust me with other guys, want me for himself but he can do anything he wants.
The question is this should I let him know that I know what he did or act like I don't know and when we meet again tell him what I found out? Should I give him the satisfaction to make him feel like I care and I'm jeolous of what he did? I don't know what to do. My friends keep telling me act cool but I don't know if I can act like nothing happened. What should I do? please help

2007-12-03 09:16:03 · 31 answers · asked by Dianne 1

well..i wouldn't necessarily call it a fear..but last time i was in a situation (yesterday..) where my boyfriend wanted to kiss me..i COMPLETELY failed in every aspect of it. It was outside and really windy..so my hair kept getting in the way...it was truly a mess...part of it had to do with me not wanting to open my mouth..at all...HEEELLLPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-03 09:11:57 · 14 answers · asked by thelittleflagdancer 1

All my friends get our close friends to flash us but it barely works, when its some random girl, generally they do no problem. Wats up with that?

2007-12-03 09:09:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz different people have different ideas....
and i wanna know the truth........

2007-12-03 09:04:32 · 9 answers · asked by Carlos 1

Sorry, So I like this girl at work, and I'm trying to figure out whether or not she likes me, I don't usually have any problems asking anyone out but it is because she works with me and it might be awkward if she says no etc..

anyway we were talking the other day and I said "What are you getting your boyfriend for Christmas?" then she said "I don't have one, I only seem to attract losers"...she also was talking about being alone in a jokey kind of way too, then later she asked me if I had a girlfriend or not to which I replied no...are these sure fire signals she is interested, or was she just making conversation?

Well more stuff to add, didn't really get a chance to ask today, but she came up and asked me if I was going to the Christmas Dinner, I said "I'll go if you go" hoping to make my intentions clear, and she was like "yea I'll go if you go too"...so basically I'm still confused she could be just being friendly or she could be interested I just don't know...but we'll see...

2007-12-03 08:59:23 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should i do to let me know that i can/cant trust a cleaning lady in my house

2007-12-03 08:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by Samuel B 1

Guy1
5.8 tall, brown hair eyes, good humor, 71 IQ, average job, polite.. (this is me!)

Guy2
6.2 tall, brown hair eyes, serious personality, 140 IQ (maybe..), good job, arrogant.. (this is not me! lol)

2007-12-03 08:58:50 · 9 answers · asked by Daniel R 2

I really like my friend, Jake and I don't know if he likes me or he just wants something out of me.
He keeps asking if he can have a kiss, I get the bus home on certain days and most of the time I see him and everytime before I leave he asks for a kiss but I haven't been able to because I haven't had enough time to kiss him, I really want to kiss him I just never have enough time to do it.
The first time he said it I was sitting in the bus stop, he saw me, ran over, gave me a big hug then said lick and licked my neck, we had our forheads together and we were both smiling but then my friend told me my bus was coming so I went over and he said "do I get a kiss?" but I didn't answer because I couldn't believe it.
So should I risk it and ask him out or just wait?

2007-12-03 08:56:31 · 6 answers · asked by kelcihrn 2

If your in love with someone, does age matter? Like at all? And does hieght matter? Like if your really tall but the guy is really short, should that afect the way u feel about each other?

2007-12-03 08:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by srk fan 3