My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 months. She says she is happy and I can tell she is. Well in a couple of weeks her and her ex have plans to go see a movie together. They have hung out a couple of times, but my girlfriend insists they are just friends. She says there is nothing for me to worry about. The reason she broke up with him is because her mother and sister did not like the way he treated her. She said she would never go back to him. I told her I just don't understand, but would get over it. Is the a big deal or not?
2007-12-03 09:53:49 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she is quite innocent about this but he may not be. So you could suggest that if he wants to hang out with her, that you come along too. Maybe he could bring a date as well. That will soon identify whether he just wants to be friends with her or if there is something else going on in his mind.
2007-12-03 09:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by 2kool4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it is normal. If he is an ex-boyfriend she should not be going to the movies with him, unless you are going too.
Suggest that the three of you go. If she objects, then I guess he is not the ex-boyfriend, I think YOU are!
If my husband's ex-girlfriend came to town and wanted to see him, I would think that is great, however, the deal is that I get invited along, or else it isn't happening.
Good Luck.
2007-12-03 09:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big deal. I personally would not go out with an EX
2007-12-03 09:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by sddq_nn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-25 09:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by pugliese 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from her perspective its ok but honsetly its not i mean i have REALLY good friends i have dated we go places but not without a big group cause they might try somrthing but its all in the past sugest that you go or just say if he makes a move to tell him to back off i mean its not that bad but if he is like a player it is and her mom and sister did say they did not like the way he treated her confront her about it
2007-12-03 10:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to get to know u better cause id only go to my bf's ex if there was somthing that i didnt know about him
2007-12-03 10:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lil' blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOO WAY this is not normall!!!!!!!!!!!! Put your foot down and tell her this can not happen. If she broke up with him for the reason you said, she could still like him as it was her mum and sis who didnt like him
2007-12-03 09:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Chris R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go hang out with your ex girlfriend and see how she handles that.
2007-12-03 10:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah it is. They didn't break up cause she wanted it too. She broke up with him cause her family didn't like him. That means she still likes him. Don't take that!
2007-12-03 09:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Notorious DPT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, big deal if it makes you uncomfortable. you have to talk to her about your feelings of being uncomfortable with it and why and how it makes you feel.
and listen to her point of view.
2007-12-03 09:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋