i think i could be a very good girlfriend and...?

Question

i wonder why i dont have the relationship that i want its like somehow i'm not good enough i know the guy should love me for who i am but sometimes i'm not sure who i am its sounds wired lol
can u help me please?

Answer 1

Because you WANT a relationship, your never going to get. No offense, but a relationship is a NEED, we NEED a certain KIND of relationship. So realize, (again no offense, I'm Brutal Honesty, so expect that) that until you DO know thy self, you'll never know the relationship you need. Thats just the way it works, anyone can love or be loved hunnie thats so easy man I could walk down the street and find that. But what you need to worry about, whats going to kick your butt, IS THE HOW TO LOVE!!! Their is no book, and trust not everyone choices to love the same, so until you realize HOW you need to be loved, a relationship is going to led to heart-ache, don't believe me? Kick brow-beating yourself for not being in a relationship, settle for the frist person that gives you interest that you WANT, and try your best not to come on her asking for more advice, don't worry I'll wait....