my ex who I dated for 9 months is harrassing me about breaking up with my current boyfriend.
People say that I should put a restraining order on him.
What should I do? I still want to be friends with him, but I can not continue going through the stress.
2007-12-03 09:38:44 · 9 answers · asked by Confused Llama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahahah make him feel that you are happy with the current relationship and tell him how you feel for him as an x-bf of your life. i would advise if the harassing would be too much for you tell your BF about this and if your X persist call the police
2007-12-03 09:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by girl ur looking for! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY EX Harrassing me, Want to be friends, stress. Battle?
Sending mixed messages, huh?
Why do you want to be friends with someone who is harrassing you and stressing you out? Are you afraid of him?
I think you need to decide how you feel about this guy, and act on it. Quit wagging one way and then the other.
You can't have a friendship with someone who wants to harrass you or be your sweetheart and won't take no for an answer. If you love him, then go with him and quit fooling around. If you don't love him, and want him to leave you ALONE, say so, and back it up with a restraining order.
YOu cannot have your cake and eat it, too. Pick one.
2007-12-03 09:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex that you are happy just the way you are and to stop harassing you ,You can't be his friend until he backs off as he will only cause you more stress.Don't let him do that to you.You do have control don't you?He has no right to interfere in your relationship and you are wrong in letting him get away with it.Put a STOP to it now or get rid of him completely by not being his friend
2007-12-03 09:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by mamaw2305 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and dont listen to him. tell him to get a life and drool over someone else. this has happened to me like ten times it so annoying. the same guy has been crushing on me for 6 years...and he asked me out already like 10 times and he wont leave me along. hes kinda one of my friends but not really.
2007-12-03 09:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't continue being friends when he's wanting to jump your bones. Won't work, never will. Lose the dude.
2007-12-03 09:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snice your ex and you are not toghter he souldn,t tell you what too do i won,t brother bening friends with him if he acts like that buts its your life you can do whatever you want but i want you to think about if its a good idea if u want to be friends with your ex
2007-12-03 09:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't answer his calls.
don't return his messages
block his number
block him online
don't even read his emails
warn your current bf of his actions, as he might start to approach him and maybe tell lies about you to get him to dump u
2007-12-03 09:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by Carbonation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know something you answered your own question
read your last line again after "but" then make your descion
2007-12-03 09:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Tydie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him, dont contact him anymore
2007-12-03 09:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by west 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋