I have been seeing a guy for 3 years now and i love spending time with him,the only problem is he wont commit to me and have a serious relationship,i'm sort of fine with it now but i see him only now and again when he's not busy. I've been seeing this new guy for 4months,he says he loves me,wants to marry me,kids etc but he is a bit of a control freak,i'm confused and feel like i should break it off with my bf of 3 years but my new guy dumped me for a few days then got back together with me like nothing happened,he also said he's going away in Jan to work abroad for a few months,i dont want them to find out about each other but i feel like i should do the right thing and break it off with my guy of 3years but what if this new guy messes me about again?
Who should i choose?
2007-12-03 10:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK U SHOULD MOVE ON AND GO WITH THE ONE U'VE BEEN WITH 4 4 MONTHS. BUT BE FOR U GET WAY 2 SERIOUS I THINK U SHOULD FIND OUT A LITTLE BIT MORE ABOUT HIM.
2007-12-03 10:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The new guy is leaving in January so it's really not a big deal. The 3 yr guy you say won't make a commitment so why do you feel obligated to tell him about the new guy you aren't his gf if there is no commitment.
2007-12-03 18:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump both of them, your bfriend of 3 years is basically telling you that your not good enough to commit to, and the other guy wants to control you and will get worse when you get married...you need to find someone who will let you be yourself and love you for that
2007-12-03 18:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by dearfriend44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with what you know, honey. Do you really want to get hitched to a control freak?
2007-12-03 18:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋