i freaked out on my boyfriend because he was talkin to this one girl...its not even that its how he acts nd the fact he tried to get with her nd when i meet him nd we started going out he had told her hed break up with me to go out with her...so thats why i was mad...then we broke up nd he didnt even care...i think the only reason i did that is because i care about him right?...♥♥♥
2007-12-03 06:45:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your ex was a waste of time, your better off this way, we get emotional because of our hormones, its better to just meet another guy and forget about your ex, keep moving forward
2007-12-03 06:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by {[I'm Not Okay]} 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets emotional, including males, when they are
emotionally attached to someone.
It sounds like you had some jealousy over what you had heard
regarding his wish to go out with the other girl and saying he
would break up with you to do so.
If you really cared about him, of course this would be upsetting.....and it would be for anyone in a similar situation, so
don't be so hard on yourself.
As hard as it may be to read, it sounds like he may not be
the right guy for you.
You are young and you will meet many other men along your
way in life, and one day the right one will come along.....and
hopefully he will care for you as much as you care for him.....
It is not easy being hurt in love. However, we all learn painful
lessons in life. Most anyone you meet can tell you a story
or two of love gone wrong and the terrible hurt and pain that
goes along with it.
But we do survive, and we do learn sometimes from the losses we endure.
You deserve a boyfriend who cares for you....someone who
wouldn't think or talk about breaking up with you just to
go out with someone else. You are worthy of love, trust,
and faithfulness......so please just go through the grieving
that losing someone you care about requires.....and
focus on your own life goals, your dreams, your wishes----and one day, before you know it, you will meet the young man
who is right for you.
Remember---it is not only girls who get emotional. Real
men with real feelings for others get emotional, too.
I wish all good things for you. Be kind to yourself and make
sure that the next boyfriend understands you are special
and worthy of respect and love because you feel that way
about yourself.......
Doris
WithWingsofAngels@comcast.net
2007-12-03 07:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Doris L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a natural response. It's obvious, you care more for him, than he does you. If he really told her he'd brake up with you to be with her, then lose the guy. If you want more reasons to get upset, than keep seeing him. He didn't care when ya'll broke up, so that just goes to show you he is unhealthy for you.
Find someone who does care. First take some time off to heal yourself, that will give you some insight to why your with guys like this to begin with. And it does help, not to repeat this pattern your going on with the men in your life.
There's nothing wrong with caring about others, just not the ones that play around with you, in your life.
Toss him, for good, and move on, girl.
2007-12-03 07:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are imature freaks these days. I would wait to date till your in college honey. Because they get a little better and more mature i think. You dont need all the drama in Highschool right now. Yes I know how you feel and get emotional also. Boys have a different view of things than we do I think. We girls are in to romance and the boys well.... a different story. they think perverted thats what.
2007-12-03 06:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on the girl...I confront my boyfriend earlier that's going to become a situation and that i dont get emotional as lots with my contemporary boyfriend. even regardless of the undeniable fact that i'm way too insecure simply by BF of my previous
2016-10-19 00:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by olmeda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, it isn't the fact that we lovethem and care about them that we do that... it is the fact that girls tend to open up and let their 'guard' down quicker than guys do. Girls tend to get emotionally attached quicker than men because they have a trusting instinct overall. This causes us to feel hurt over little things and to have outbursts, and the hormone levels fluctuating doesn't help either.
2007-12-03 06:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lexee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, there's guys who get emotional as well. especially when it comes to cheating with another chick. men don't like to feel threatened or to be threatened to have a chick break-up with him over some chick. i feel like this: if he's gonna keep doing this, just laugh it off because you deserve a lot better. guys have feelings just as well as chicks do which is another reason why they can be so emotional on somethings.
2007-12-03 06:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by miss_mia_girl2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women's brains secrete more cooterschnapps, which is a hormone known to cause emotions and inspire shoe buying.
2007-12-03 06:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK THAT WE JUST EXPRESS OUR FEELINGS MORE THAN GUYS.WE LIKE TO BE PAMPERED AND BABYED BY OUR GUY BUT THEY ARENT LIKE THAT .BELIEVE ME IM THE SAME WAY I SOMETIMES ACT LIKE IM MAD OR WHEN I REALLY AM IT SEEMS HE DOESNT CARE SO THAT MAKES ME SAD.GUYS ARE WEIRD .DESPITE I HAVE 3 KIDS FROM HIM I SOMETIMES FEEL HE DOESNT LOVE ME OR CARE BUT I DID LEAVE HIM ONCE AND HE COULDNT LIVE WITH OUT ME HE WAS AT MY HOUSE BEGGING ME TO GO BACK.GIVE YOUR GUY SOME SPACE ACT LIKE YOUR THE ONE WHO DONT CARE MAKE HIM FEEL NOT WANTED KINDA TURN THE TABLES ON HIM.IF HE SHOWS NO EFFECT LEVE HIM FOR GOOD US GIRLS DESERVE BETTER :)
2007-12-03 06:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by MGV4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screwup- No, There is nothing wrong about having a sensitive heart ! Take your time and find a guy who is like-hearted !!!
2007-12-03 06:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋