im in a long distance relationship, well kind of a relationship. were officially not together. she says she wants to fully trust me to "get with me" so there wont be problems. we've had our ups and downs. live 3 hours away, been talkin for 7 months, see eachother about 2 times a month and talk on the phone for hours everyday. my quesion is, how would i know shes really into me? besides her talkin to me on the phone and welcoming into her home, is there any other signs cus i have doubts, probalby cus she has me waiting to get with me and cus the distance
2007-12-03 17:26:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is we do act lke a couple. at times, mainly wen we see eachother so ya we slept already, kissed hugged i mean u name it. but not all da time. not everyone knows anything its like a secret. know wut i mean
2007-12-03 17:31:12 · update #1
Here is one of my sayings and I will pass it on to you.
If you doubt get the (bleep) out.
Life is too short to wait on someone else. Life IS what you make it and you my friend are making it dificult on yourself.
Know that you are many more people out there that are or will be interested in you. You just have to put your self out there take some risks, and well...pretty soon you will be wondering why you would drive 3 hours or waste your time with her anyhow.
2007-12-03 17:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance is not a problem. the level of sincerity of the other person is what matters. if you want to discover more about the other person, invite her to go out with you whenever you are not busy. by doing that, you'll have a better idea on how she is as a person and as a lover. you will be able to find out if she is sincere or not through her actions.
2007-12-04 01:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she must be really into you, otherwise why spend all that time? I think she isn't sleeping with you because either she has values or because she doesn't want you to think she's easy. That suggests she cares what you think. So, lay off the doubts, okay? See where it goes.
2007-12-04 01:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...
if you want to know if she's in you..
she would take any time off to just talk to you && have a chat or eat anywhere.she's sort of into you :]
maybe one day,a special day she would admit everything to you to tell you eveything she feels and the deepest feeling she has for you..
2007-12-04 01:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋