my girlfriend and i both enjoy viewing porn. but we only enjoy it if we do it together. yes i'm a guy so obviously i enjoy it, but once i met the love of my life i was quickly turned away from it and on the one or two occasions (honestly) i felt terrible and like i was cheating on her, so when i found out that she enjoyed viewing i was excited because it could be something we share together. now i love my girlfriend very much, and i do feel bad if i view such thing when she's not around, and she feels bad if she views it while im not around. we do not use it for stimulation towards each other, it is just an occasional occurrence that we use to have fun. so with all that being said, is it wrong that we enjoy to look at porn?
2007-12-03 17:35:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, your relationship is strong enough in that you enjoy it together and respect the fact that you feel bad when you dont.
2007-12-03 17:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I love watching porn together. It's a fun thing to watch together. It's not bad for the both of you to view it when each others not around, as long as it does not become an everyday thing. There's nothing wrong with looking at porn. Or enjoying looking at porn. It's a natural thing.
2007-12-03 17:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by thathockeychick23 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's healthy
What's the differance between watching a porn together and watching any other movie if its something you guys can share and enjoy! My boyfriend and I enjoy watching porn, and we feel as though it really represents how open we are with pretty much all of the aspects of our life. So , in short, there's nothing wrong with it, as long as it remains mutual!
2007-12-03 17:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by Saoirse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, some pornstars seem to enjoy what they do and get well-paid. I don't see anything wrong with the act of watching porn. For some people it's the only release they ever get.
As long as you remember there is a dark side -exploitation, drug addiction, STDs etc.
2007-12-03 17:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the both of you enjoy watching it together it will do no harm,but be care full just in case someone else sees you. But don't think that looks great lets try that because you might be disappointed. The actors are professional and know what they are doing.
2007-12-03 18:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife & myslef have enjoyed watching porn since the 70s & we still do its done no harm in our relationship at all in fact it has enhanced it we watch together or alone its not cheating to viwe alone on either side so you both enjoy were lucky people we just dont realise lol good luck both
2007-12-04 04:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by bob f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its great!! Now you can bith use it as a tool for becoming better lovers towards each other!! Take some postion tips, or whatever and save it for when you are together...that will make it even better when you do view it!!!
2007-12-03 17:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by M76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong at all,so long as its not kiddie porn!! lots of couples get excited viewing porn,it makes for better sex in the bedroom when u r both aroused.
2007-12-03 20:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both enjoy it; what is wrong about that. Happy viewing!!
2007-12-03 19:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by ibrahimjumary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine. me and my bf do that together. he used to view it when i would go out for the evenings, but i told him i didnt like it, it made me feel hurt so now we only view it together.
2007-12-03 17:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by lirpa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋