Want to Call the Ex Gfriend, but not sure???

Question

Got out of a year & a half relationship in October, and it was Long Distance from 200 miles, and it eventually took its toll. Said our good byes, cut ties, and then the communication started with a "lets hook up for sex" from her AND me. Kinda played games with it becasue was forseeing too many complications with it only being 2 weeks from splitting up ,and there was a risk someone (maybe me) would want MORE than sex, so I kind strung it out for a few weeks (and she was calling the minute I would respond, but she never left a voicemail), then told her no I wasnt into a "booty call", changed my mind a few days later, and she just sent me an email saying "sorry, dating someone" (after 5 days??). I really think it was a head game (which is why I didnt want to get into communication after the break up, but who knows) I think she caught wind I was sleeping with another girl. Well I want to send her an email, but not sure how long to wait, and dont want to be "needy" But I miss her. Ideas??

And I dont want to send her some "tell her how I feel about her" email & sound all mushy & needy.... TRUST ME, thats not how we worked, and would BACKFIRE

Answer 1

Never go back, mate. Never go back.

Move on. Enjoy your life. Levae the complications behind and forget about her- it's cleaerly no good for you.

Answer 2

You know what? I wouldn't go back to her. It sounds like there are too many problems. Resist the urge to send her and email. You can find someone who's closer who won't play games with you. Try to forget her.

Answer 3

Sorry I kinda agree with most other people you cant go back to this one you need to let it go and move on

Answer 4

I wise person once told me "never go backwards"...suck it up, and start your new life without her. It sucks in the beginning, but trust me, you will be thankful you did!!