ok so everywhere i go guys are always grabbing my butt
or holding my waist or making sexual comments!!!!
my butt is really big compared to my waist and after being compared to a coke bottle 50000000 times i kinda wanna do something about it so help?
and its really sad cuz im not fat but it jiggles no matter what i do!!
guys slap my butt in the hallway and then say daym look at it jiggle !
i hate it !!
2007-12-03 17:10:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow ....
thank you for all the answers that actually are helpful
attention is not my goal trust me .....
im not fat
its just my butt!
2007-12-03 17:23:44 · update #1
Don't hate it, take it as a compliment. You are a black girl, like I am, flaunt dat booty everywhere all the time and be happy you got what guys like. I'm 31 and guys have been doing the same to me forever. I don't mind, it's just guys way of saying you got what they like, so flaunt it and just be happy you are every guys fantasy.
2007-12-03 17:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate4vanilla76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be that you wear things that take the emphasis on your butt down. A nice A Line skirt will show that your small waisted and a curvy backside, while still maintaining a high level of class. Also try a trouser with a nice straight leg cut that hangs the right way from your butt. It will, again, show that you are small waisted and ahve a big butt without being overt or.... 'slutty' or anything.....
Hope that helps at all.
Cheers
2007-12-03 17:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg thats meaN! dont listen to what they say or do. who cares. having a big butt and a small waist is a GOOD thing. many women wish they had it!! so flaunt what you got! and some women even get BUTT IMPLANTS to have what you have and not be so flat! having a booty is a good thing! well & if guys r doing **** like that to u then u should tell the principle or something if it is bothering you lol because then that is Sexual Harassment! the guys who r doing that r just a bunch of pervs.
2007-12-03 17:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flaunt it! Enjoy it! Use it your advantage. However, don't let men get away with touching you uninvited. Report anyone who slaps your butt or makes sexual comments to you to the proper authorities (school officials or someone in charge at work). Sounds to me like you've got it going on. Post a photo to give all of us big butt lovers a treat.
2007-12-04 07:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys you're describing are immature and what they're doing to you is sexual harassment. If you're being harassed, you can bet other girls are probably being harassed in their own ways.
Sexual harassment is illegal, and schools and work have policies against it, so you should report it.
Maybe you can see if other girls are also being harassed in some way and band together to report it and to support each other. Hopefully, good guys will support you too.
If someone lays a hand on you, you gotta push it away and defend yourself. Do it in public. Other girls and guys may step up to back you up.
Other than that, you just gotta stay away from these guys.
Good luck!
2007-12-03 17:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Joe_D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, dont get sad over it. embrace it!! my black friends have that figure! im sooooo jealous too, i wish i had a bigger butt!! i have that small waist though. hahahah. i understand that it can be offensive, but try to turn it around. tell them, dont be mad because you dont have all of this. hahahaha. i would. but only do it when they say a stupid comment. then just watch your back more and stop them from hitting you. have your friends give you the warning. you should be happy to have luscious curves like that, dont let some immature boneheads get the best of you. good luck with that.
2007-12-03 17:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by deannaBEARR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend with the exact same problem as you and she says she likes getting jeans that are a little stretchy so they fit around her waist and stretch to fit around her butt. she usually just wears stretchy pants though (yoga pants) like from lulu lemon, etc. which is really in style right now. she also love apple bottoms. those jeans are Made for people like you and her. but theyre expensive... just to warn you. hope i helped and good luck!! :D <33
2016-04-07 07:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha I have a big butt to just tell them to stop, and you can get them in a lot of trouble if you say something to the principal, so just warn them they can actually go to jail for sexual assault [ not joking ]
2007-12-03 17:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by emmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel free to slap the crap out of guys who touch you inappropriately. Or at least go off on them.
I don't know if you want to hide your butt, but there are clothes you can wear to make it less revealing. Try, for example, wearing shawls around your waist. But of course, remain fashionable.
2007-12-03 17:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your butt jiggles it means it is fat. there is no need to lie to yourself - we don't care about your butt, u do. so lose some weight and go to gym and make it firmer. u will have to work very very hard and very long cos fat from the butt and thighs is the last to go. well, i even think u will not actually do it - if u re lying to yourself it means u re lazy. well, then learn how to love yourself even fat
2007-12-03 17:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋