care to HELP MEEEE!?

Question

i really like this boy right and i have no idea what to do!!!

we go to the same school and are on the same soccer team (it is coed) but i don know what to do to make him like me back if he dosent, or if he dose, let it be known?

i am pretty shy too and have a habit of hiding that i like him

we talk sometimes on myspace and in person
(id be wierd if it was only on myspace)


he dosen't know that i like him and i don't know if he likes me back
what should i do to help this situation?

gahhhh
so confusing to me!!


i hope you should shed some light on this subject!
thank you

Answer 1

It's easy to flirt, and it's all it takes to let him know that you're dating material and not only just a soccer buddy. Flirting is the fun, no risk way to show somebody you like them & see if they "bite" back. All it means is tapping into the part of you that likes him and using it to show him how cool you really are. For example, smile & say "you have nice eyes. what color would you consider mine to be?" Doesn't have 2 b exactly like that but pretty much :-> even just laughing together can sometimes be all it takes for some ppl to connect.

Get to know more about each other thru ur convos that u have & try 2 talk about the things that the 2 of u r passionate about, perhaps soccer, bcuz those things will help u develop ur relationship and be less awkward around each other. He's a person. You know how to act around people. He's just a boy. Don't think about it too much, or stress, or worry. Just have fun!

Answer 2

One of you is gonna have to step up. Make it something casual, like start a conversation about something you share an interest in and then say, "Hey, wanna find a place to sit down and get a drink while we talk about this?"
That way, if he isn't interested, you save face 'cause you can say, "well, I'm thirsty and want to sit down, so seeya later". If he IS interested he'll be glad of the chance to step it up, so one way or the other, you'll know.