Singles & Dating - 2 December 2007

there this guy who i like blew off an event he was attending and i think that was his time to tell me how he felt. but yeah we just saw each other over thanksgiving and he seemed relax and laid back and eager to show his feelings again. what funny is i added on facebook and wrote to him on the wall. he deleted from the wall and never wrote back. guys do u thing is his way of showing he is mad or is just being mean?how do you guys show ur mad at gurl who u barely see. would u do something like that and why?

2007-12-02 09:42:15 · 2 answers · asked by LKI 1

- the items left there were as followed
- $300 dollar digital camera
- $100 pair of bowling shoes
- $100 travel bag

totalling approximately $500. the only reason i do not want to talk to this person is because I used to have an intimate relationship with her, never technically dated. I just stopped talking to her because i thought what we were doing wasn't good for either of us. so i just stopped talking to her i know when i go over there she is going to ask for an explanation something i know i don't have. i already tried to get my friend to pick it up for me but when he went she just said no and asked him to leave.

2007-12-02 09:41:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 09:41:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together 5 months, and it's really great. But almost since the beginning he has been dropping marriage into the conversation. Not like about me and him doing it, just talking about it and his friends who are engaged or married, and about how cool it owuld be to spend your life with one person etc. Then a few weeks ago we were walking past some new flats that were being built and he said, jokingly, "We should get one of those together and start a little family". I laughed it off. But then just yesterday I was talking about moving home,and he said, I thought we were gonna get that flat together and start a family. He was still joking, it wasn't said seriously, but still, do you think it's weird for a man in his mid-twenties to bring stuff like this up with a gf after only 5 months of being together? Do you think he means anything by it?

2007-12-02 09:41:00 · 22 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

he is always trying to ring me or I get texts. He follows me if I go anywhere. I told him loads of times to leave me alone. What can I do? please help me

2007-12-02 09:40:59 · 14 answers · asked by New mum :-) 2

i like this guy & whenever i look at him he always looks back for like three seconds
and from the corner of my eye, i can see him looking at me
i mean, if he didnt like me and thought i was a weirdo he would just ignore me right? thats what i would do if i was him,
so what do you tihnk hes trying to say?
do you think hes just playing me?? =(

2007-12-02 09:38:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

like he will do some things but when it comes down to give me money he don't want to give it to me but i break my neck for him and his kids. no i don't have any children and he using right

2007-12-02 09:38:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Engaged 1.5 years, but what I want to know is am I facing the same problems as everyone else or am I getting the short end of the stick? He never takes the trash out, I wash all of his clothes/dishes, he always blames me for everything, he never does anything special besides go to the movies. I feel like I do everything, and I am not sure he respects me anymore. The other day, he handed me his fast food garbage to throw away...after he passed the kitchen and came into the back room I was in. He sends me to get anything....Out of toilet paper....Thats my problem....Lost his keys, my problem again. I feel like Im on egg shells. We dont have kids, but I jumped into this and moved in with him, thinking things would be very different. If I stay, we have a chance of building something great. If I leave, Id have to start over completly with nothing. But, Im starting to feel like an Old Maid, and he isn't giving me nil. I am tired. I don't want to waste too much more time, if this isnt real.

2007-12-02 09:28:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my new bf wants to hang out but where can we go?

if my parents are overprotective,

and dont want tme hangnig out with boys?

we and my bf are both 14 and in 9th grade.

over each other houses? outa the question i'll be gone. my parents would K*** me!


any ideas?

2007-12-02 09:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi 4

There is this cute woman at my job who i like alot. We have talked alot durin work, and during the breaks. Now we have decided to cut back on that bc ppl were becoming suspicious. We text one another alot everyday outside of work. We were supposed to hang out this weekend, but she texted me that she had to go to ny that should couldnt hang with me this weekend. she also said that she feels very bad and felt very sorry about this. she also texted me sayin she promise to make this up to me. what do u think? what should i do? do u think im bein played like a sucker? pls tell me what u think and what i should do or expect. thanks
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2007-12-02 09:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

Iam 43 and seeing a 38 year old man. He works alot of overtime. Ive been seeing him for over 5 weeks now.He lives closeby as well.

The past 3 weeks, he has broken the plans we had on our 'days" together or it has been dwindled down to 2 hours together. This apologized as he has a busy schedule,hes trying to save alot to get his daughter in a custody suit coming in March. He also has not been well, a van fell on him last summer and he may have a ruptured kidney that needs surgery. But for this past weekend, he promised me he'd be free all sat and sunday days and for me to plan something I'd like to do somewhere with him and we would go. I even asked a girl at work to help me as Im new to this city and she had some suggestions. I had bought tickets for something we could go see and he did not contact me all weekend. Not even a phone call. His cellular voicemail is out of order but he does know when I call. He may be working out of cellular range. What shoudl I do with this man??

2007-12-02 09:27:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't love this guy anymore. There is no way we can end up together, we will always be just friends. It is ripping me apart, and it is unhealthy. I already tried liking someone else, and I tried not talking to him for a while and it didn't work. Also keep in mind that he is one of my good friends, and I wouldn't want to do anything detrimental to our friendship. I don't think I'm just going to stop liking him with time, I don't know. So what do you all suggest I do?

2007-12-02 09:21:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a virgin in my past i have been known to be a wild child doin things i am not to proud of and came close a few times to goin all the way with a guy, drugs use to be the factor of most of my times i have only messed with 2 guys my bf now and my past one but i have cooled down alot got out of all that stuff and everything the guy i am with now i love so much he is great he does not know much about my past and what i was like but thats not my problem my prob is that we mess around every now and then but he wants to go all the way and that like what he talks about alot to i dont think thats what he is in it 4 cuz if he was he would have been gone by now but every time we are about to go all the way i freeze its like a flash back to my younger times when i was wild and i just like stop and get up and just tell him i dont want to do it y do you think u have to and this and that we have got into it a few times cuz of this and idk what to do plz help

2007-12-02 09:17:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

to find a grate guy for me can you help me??????

2007-12-02 09:06:36 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa T 1

My boyfriend of four months has recently been bugging me about having a threesome. Whenever I reject his idea, he tells me that I'm being selfish. I don't think I'm being selfish. I just don't want to see him with someone else, and I get jealous fairly easily. He doesn't understand any point of view that's not his, and last night he jokingly said, "Fine then, well, I'm going to find a girl that will have one and leave you for her." He tells me that if I love him, I'd have a threesome. I think that the fact that I won't shows that I love him more. Does anyone have any ideas as to what I could say to him that might make him understand what I'm feeling better?

2007-12-02 09:02:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

From a girl you like or whatever, what do you want her to say/ tell you. All ages, please.

2007-12-02 09:01:29 · 1 answers · asked by Chloe :) 3

My bf (of 7 & a half months) treats me really well, we have said we love each other he would do anything for me and sends me random msgs like "I miss u 2 princess and love u pumpkin have a good day" almost everyday randomly.
I get alot of msgs from him like this and he does sweet little things like when he comes over brings my fav wine and just thoughtful things that make me happy... If im smiling or laughing thats what makes him happy.

We had constant arguments all weekend and I just sent him a text saying "I love you and will miss you like crazy and hope this hasnt affected us
He replied with "Love you heaps and also will miss you madly, hope this crap stops cos there is no need for it...lets move on and enjoy.."
He also said it pisses me off at time of crap, then dont wanna lose what we have, you still hold a strong place in my heart.."

Sounds like I havent lost him and he reall is in love with me?

Your honest thoughts would be awesome thanks :)

2007-12-02 08:59:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok..im going out with this guy and hes moved like an hour away but he still wants to go out...and im having trouble with the distance but i really like him but i barely get to see him...what should i do?

2007-12-02 08:56:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my girlfriend of 13 months met a guy at a church convention about a month ago..they traded numbers and talk a lot on facebook..she has told me that she likes him and he likes her, but she also says she could never see herself with any guy other than me. She tells me that she loves me every single day, but i also think that she talks to this guy every day and she still likes him even..i don't know what to do about the situation..she has tried to go visit him but her parents told her she couldn't and he might come down this next weekend...what should i do..she says they are just friends...is she telling the truth??

2007-12-02 08:54:48 · 23 answers · asked by troubledbf 2

:(

2007-12-02 08:53:18 · 8 answers · asked by Catalina P 1

The guy is kinda dorky, smiles, cute, friendly, and hes your classmate. He calls out your name and waves to you with a smile, would you assume he likes you? Would it make your day to be greeted? What would you be thinking?

Thank you for reading.

2007-12-02 08:51:20 · 21 answers · asked by Closed 5

time gauging whether he's all that interested. He calls me everyday sometimes 3 times a day or sends me a text.
Unfortunately we can't see eachother that much because he's working two jobs and has custody of his two kids. We try to see eachother as much as we can but it's not often. Sometimes when we get together, I want to be intimate and I'll try to come on to him but he doesn't reciprocate. We haven't been intimate for two weeks and I saw him last night and while we got close, we didn't. I understand his daughter was sleeping in the other room may have had something to do with it, but I really crave that intimacy with him, am I missing something? Is he really not interested in me? I don't get it!

2007-12-02 08:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by ooolala 2

can having sex too soon in a relationship ruin it? someone told me that if i have sex with this guy i've been seeing that we'll never have a real relationship. is this true?

2007-12-02 08:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by amanda 1

Of course I can't do that but I don't know why he wants me to. He used to have a thing for my friend but she never went out with him because she didn't like him like that-but they kissed a few times.

He told me that she plays mind games & has some issues (a lot of things have happened in her life). Well she said that he's called her twice asking to meet up: I know their friends but should I be concerned. I don't know if she's making it up cos she doesn't like that we're together.

Yesterday he text me knowing I was at her house, but he didn't say anything about her. I don't know what to do. If he wanted to see her why wouldn't he have come over like he said he might do cos she's not home during the week

2007-12-02 08:38:07 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like you know in highschool where there's dances year round. When a guy ask a girl to the dance, how are girls suppose to poilty say "no", besides saying like "im going with someone already"

and

how do guys turn a girl down poliety?

2007-12-02 08:35:37 · 22 answers · asked by kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkh 1

Do you it is possible that after being friends with benefits for almost 2 years with a guy eventually he will decide to become a couple? I asked him and he said it is never going to happen, but he acts sweeter as time passes, so I am not sure if he is just all talk and someday he will wanna be my BF. HELP!

2007-12-02 08:35:17 · 6 answers · asked by sing_to_me_09 2

motherly attention from his woman when feeling ill?

2007-12-02 08:34:47 · 39 answers · asked by artiyom 1

I just got out of a relationship 2 months ago and it was such a releif as bad as that sounds. I was miserable with him at the end and was tired of being unhappy all the time. He wanted me all to himself and I was neglecting my friends. Now that Im single, my focus is on friends, college and work. I just turned 21 so im having fun. I was just in 2 back to back relationships totaling 10 months of being in a relationship. I need a break to be free and refind myself and what I want. So whats wrong with being single, some people are so negative about it?

2007-12-02 08:30:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

why when a girl ask a boy to a dance the boy says no even if you know they are shy to say yes they still say no.(real life)

please be serious

2007-12-02 08:30:30 · 31 answers · asked by catz3 2

not what I expected...he spilled his guts telling me how much he cared for me and how I was in his heart. Well, I went out drinking with my girlfriends last night and I left my phone at home. He called me twice and left a text message and email. When I got home, I was so upset and my girlfriends decided I needed to go to his house at 1 am and talk to him. Mind you we were all pretty lit so I went and we talked to 5 am and while I feel like things are on the up & up, I feel so stupid. I apologized to him for waking & barging in on him. Do you think this might have hurt our relationship? He says he didn't mind me doing that but I feel like I've lost respect & dignity for myself. I'm feeling like maybe we need to just be friends. What do you think?

2007-12-02 08:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by ooolala 2