Singles & Dating - 2 December 2007

I went camping a while back and snogged this boy and he fingered me he wanted to have sex but i said no bcos i didnt really know him, but now i see him in school and i regret every minute of that night also i walked past him and he said outloud to his friends that im a **** shag, but i didnt even shag him, its really making me upset and fustrated, also i fell out with my friend and she told him i told everyone that he raped me and i havent said that,
what do i do?
X

2007-12-02 10:53:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b/f n I will be having our baby soon n I'm worried about bringing our baby to my b/f's dad's house n his mom's house. I don't mean to sound like a b*tch but this is how I feel, but maybe I'm also just too worried..The reason I don't really want to bring the baby to my b/f's dad's house is b/c I think it is really disgusting there (and it is) it has cockroaches, stains, permanently sweaty furniture, nothing is ever cleaned, if you walk around in socks the bottoms will be black, the house permanently smells like cig smoke, my b/f left his old dead snake in his old bedroom for months and i swear the house still smells like dead snake and the dead gerbils that were too big that he fed it LOL. Windows are NEVER opened in the house SERIOUSLY i don't think they are even capable of being opened. There is no clean air in the house. It is just plain disgusting I hate being there myself. It is an extremely old house in an unsafe town. Now take everything I just mentioned as an understatement

2007-12-02 10:45:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does "hooking up" really mean-making out, sex,....?
how do u approach a guy at a party, if you wanna hook up ?

2007-12-02 10:39:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the ideal breast size?
Just curious for other people's opinions, as some friends and I were talking about it the other day.

2007-12-02 10:38:27 · 11 answers · asked by Lizi 2

I have been going out with my girlfriend for 7 months and have been through alot but she is now becoming extremely messy. I thought i might be some depression but i continues even when she is feeling happy. I clean her house and she hardly helps me. she rarely changes the kitty litter out and all of this eats my lunch. When I ask her about it or get upset about it she states that it is her house and i shouldnt try to change her but love her how she is. I dont want to change who she is just how she keeps house. what do i do?

2007-12-02 10:36:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyone has different opinions so what would you say...
is it cheating to talk to someone and want them without doing any harm?
is it cheating to kiss another guy?
etc....

2007-12-02 10:32:52 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were embarased by a women who you were dating/messing around with...would u take your friends to meet her and hang out with her and your friends together??

Thanks

2007-12-02 10:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend tells me so.?

2007-12-02 10:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. So first off I want to thank everyone who has taken the time to help me make decisions during this really confusing time. This will probably be my last post about this. Long story short, my gf of 2 years left me a month and a half ago. We were madly in love, but she said that this was the wrong time for us, and that she wasnt ready to settle down. Im 28 she's 26. Her career demands focus and drive, along with travel and networking. My only flaw is that my confidence is lacking. And I understand that is the most unattractive thing a man can show a woman. Im working on it, have been. Up until about 2 weeks ago, she was sending me occasional messages, phone calls etc that asked how I was doing and always ended with I love you. Since then, zero contact, and I heard she was hanging out with someone way more successful than me. I want to keep fighting, and Im working on myself. Is it best to just leave her alone completely and work on me, or pursue her? What do the ladies think? Thanks

2007-12-02 10:29:15 · 11 answers · asked by rocknroll.johnny 1

or will he try to get in a girls pants that he finds ugly, too?
(teen guys especially)

2007-12-02 10:29:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in grade 12 and I really like this guy whos in grade10. he looks older, he sweet, calls me beautiful, his angel gf, hes really nice and really hot. I was friends with him first. We have made out, hes held me from behind, kissed my check, hand and hes really cute.
He has been trying to get me to answer whether or not I touch myself, had an orgas.ism, how I masturbate. I have tried to tell him that its to soon to be asking this stuff and I do trust him! Should I just try to keep telling him to wait (I don’t want to breakup) just I don’t like him asking me that now. (ive already said this) I feel comfortable taking to him and with him. I want him to know I trust him and I think im mature for my age and im starting to think its not a big deal if I tell him. Do u think its fine if i tell him how I have masturdated.. like he is my bf. and should i also tell I like making out but I don’t want to go farther so he knows.. advice plz!!?

2007-12-02 10:26:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i asked this guy to my semi formal. We're not girlfriend/boyfriend but we hang out everyday and have hooked up multiple times (everything but sex). He's made it very clear that edventually he'd like to date me but has never talked about actually taking that step. Anyway, He said he would go with me. But then we ended up getting in a huge argument. While we were fighting i asked him if i needed to take someone else to my semi formal. he said he "didn't know." i took that as a yes and asked someone else. Then we ended up forgiving each other. I let him know that i still couldn't take him to semi formal because the other guy already said yes. Well the other guy ended up backing out so I asked the guy i like again and he said he couldn't. he's made plans to go to VA Tech.

Everyone was saying I have a right to be mad at him but then again he's not my boyfriend so I don't feel llike i can be mad at him. What do you think?

2007-12-02 10:24:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean...when you're seeing a girl or guy...do you see that some of them are below your own level and some are higher than yours? ... have you ever dated someone who is exactly on your own level? cus i don't think i have...
it's either they're higher (and i feel insecure...but would wish for a more meaningful relationship) or lower (that i'd wish i never have to go out with them again or just remain friends with them)

2007-12-02 10:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

just a few days ago, a guy told a friend of mine(girl) that he likes her.. she told me, and i felt happy for her, but when she told me she will accept him, and be his gf.. i felt like, sad, with feeling of trying to end the relationship b4 it begins and stuff like that... and this girl is just a friend, i don't like her, i already have my gf...

so y do i feel jealous and sad knowing the fact that she is going to have bf..?(take in account i don't like her, shes just a friend, and i have my gf already)

(SERIOUS ANSWERS PLZ) thnx =)

2007-12-02 10:22:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 10:19:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

At the point of reaching orgasm are your eyes open or shut, and what goes through your mind, as your cross the finish line ;)

2007-12-02 10:14:58 · 15 answers · asked by jacked up 1

My BFF is like 4 ft. 11. [She's 17 so she's not growing anymore.] She's gorgeous. But she doesn't have a boyfriend.
Is it because she's so short?

2007-12-02 10:11:30 · 16 answers · asked by [a]bby? 2

Okay. Winter Ball is on Dec. 14, two weeks from now, and my friend and I REALLY want to go with dates! This is our first highschool dance (we're freshman) and so we don't really know how this whole thing works... I have two guys in mind that I might want to go with but i'm not really close to either of them(although they do seem to show a bit of interest).
HELP! P.S. they're both older.

Oh and please don't give answers like "just go up and ask one!" b/c that would be way too awkward to ask a guy i don't know that well or have never been to the stage of 'flirting' with.

THANKS

2007-12-02 10:10:58 · 8 answers · asked by Elle 3

2007-12-02 10:09:40 · 3 answers · asked by Alex J 3

what is your fairy tale dream?

my favorite movie is phantom of the opera so, to dance with my true love would be a dream come true. i will wear a big pink ball gown and we will dance to all i ask of you from the movie. and i want him to love me like raoul loves christine, and i want to be with him forever.

i know this is weird, but that is my fairy tale.

everyones is different. so just let it all out.

to be honest ive never told anyone that before.

lol. so dont be shy.

2007-12-02 10:08:06 · 9 answers · asked by forever unknown 2

He was flirting way too much with another girl, calling and flattering her since Wednesday. I found out because she called me. He says he means well, that he cares about me, that I'm the best thing going for him right now, that he likes me a lot, doesn't want to lose me and he wasn't planning on taking it to another level with her. He told her he was sorry for leading her on and that he doesn't want to ruin things with me. After we discussed it and he apologized, knowing he messed up BAD because I usually NEVER do the second chance thing, I started ignoring him. My friends say everyone deserves a second chance. Do I give him another chance? Under what conditions? How do you re-build the trust after someone ruins it in the first 2 months?

2007-12-02 10:07:58 · 15 answers · asked by iNQUiRiNG ♥ 1

Well, the guy Im crushing on let me borrow his hoodie again.
For the whole school day.
So I decided to write him a note and put it in his pocket.
And when I gave it back to him I said "Theres something in your pocket" as I walked away.
That was Friday.
I will see him in my first block tommarow.
Do you think it will be awkward in class?
Do you think he will right back?
Or do you think hes forgotten over the weekend about it?
What do I do if he does forget to write me back?
I need your help.

I know these are stupid questions.
but I cant seem to find answers for them.

And Im nervous as hell.
Lol.

Can you help me out?

2007-12-02 10:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Ariocalypse 1

If you are afraid of commitment and youve been with a guy you dated for about 5 and a half months, is it common to leave them while still liking them?

Ive been hurt a lot in my past [especially in relationships] and now, I hate the title of "boyfriend" "girlfriend". 5 months is like WOAH. The whole relationship Ive been confused; trying to leave all the time. He would obviously make me feel happy, give me warm feelings etc, but a lot of the times I'd feel nothing. Lately, Ive been looking at a lot of guys and I felt as if I could really move on from him, just say no to the relationship. I was happy, like okaay moving on and then last night we were at a show and I couldnt help but flirt with him and I wanted to hug him so badly so I did and then i ended up kissing him. Just being in his arms would make me happy and feel good. But at the moment I feel nothing again and Im casually talking to this guy I feel interested in. Gosh, Im so confused. What do I feel?? What do I do??

2007-12-02 10:02:01 · 2 answers · asked by Melanie 2

2007-12-02 09:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by kirsty lou 2

my boyfriend wants to have s3x in the bum are there any consequences to haveing s3x in the bum tell me cuzz i dont want to find out later

2007-12-02 09:59:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

A scar down the chest, would this bother a guy?

Would this matter to a guy. As a baby, I had open heart surgery.

It left a scar, down my chest, like a big wide line, running all of the way down to my belly button, and at the bottom of my scar are two deep scars that are sunken in some.

See, the scar begins right above my breasts and runs down in between, down to my belly button.

Would this make me undesireable to a guy?
Be very honest and blunt.
Does this turn a guy off?
Would a guy not want to have a serious relationship with me, because of it?

Guys be honest and blunt, no sugar coating.

Would you date a girl that has a scar?
Could you actually get serious about her?

2007-12-02 09:58:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you know what I mean when somebody just hates you and all they care about is putting you down and making fun of you?Well this is what I am talking about!I know this one guy who can have aaaaannnnyyyy GIRL he wants in the whole world!!!Anyways,he just makes fuun of me all of the time and he just made me feel really bad because I was harrassing him to be with me and dump his girlfriend!Well he really gave it to me this time!!!He told me to get away from him because I stink!I can't believe it!My feelings are hurt and all I want to do is forget about ever meeting him!What can I do now!?I hate his guts!(And his woman's!!)All I want to do is make him forget ever meeting me and I never want to have any intimate relations with him now that he has done this to me!!!He is such a dirty dog!I am Pissed now!!!Please help me!He says his girlfriend is numero uno and I was told she is a big fat nasty pig!What do ya'll think about this???????Please!!!

2007-12-02 09:53:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright so after 11 long months me and my girlfriend broke up, I gave her a neck-less for her birthday, its one of those hearts that you separate and you keep one half and the other person the other, but i told her to hold my half so she ended up keeping it. anyways, she didn't wear the neck-less before because it was very fragile. We broke up 4 days ago and now i see pictures of her WEARING the neck-less, shes pretty much the one that ended it, not in a bad way, but I am confused about this. Does it have any meaning?

2007-12-02 09:47:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Grab girls butts. Even if they are dating, why does their hand always have to be on her boob or butt?

2007-12-02 09:43:21 · 1 answers · asked by ipod 3

Hello everyone how are yall. I hope everyone is doing well. Ok i need major advice/help. Ok so there is this guy that I really like. I believe he is from Pakistan. He is the sweetest guy i've ever met. I've known him like since a month after school was already in. I dont think he knows that I really like him or how I really feel about him. I think he likes me too but he's giving me mixed signals. His sister told my sister that he talkes about me all the time. I am african americn girl that is exteremely shy, and nice. He is engaged but i dont think he likes the girl he is engaged to, she isn't in the United States, but i think he really likes me alot too. HeHe comes to my desk at school everyday and ask me how my day was. We are very good friends but I am still to shy to tell him how I feel. But idk maybe he feels the same way i do and is too shy to tell me. I dont know much about his culture either. And soon I want to ask him to prom and maybe be my new bf. What should I do >___< !!!

2007-12-02 09:42:47 · 16 answers · asked by Iceprincess 2