Singles & Dating - 2 December 2007

ok i am in this realtionship for about 6 years off and on and i have before becuase of his controling ways he allways ask me where i am goin when will i be back and who i was talking ot even if it was my mom but if i did it to him he would get mad so i stayed in this relationship after i tohught we had everything figured out untill he is strating ot treat me like dirt me never help s with our childern i do all the lundry ,cleaning, bathing dishs cleaning up his cloths of the bathroom floor and when i ask him to help me he gets mad and one day he forgot the kids food and i asked what was he thinking about he sayed he didnt know i asked if there was somthing going on i didnt know about he got mad and thre the the food all over every where and every since then he act s like he dont give a **** about me and i asked if i could go out with my firends in two weeks he told me no way i asked then when can i i seriousley dont know what do do with this relationship is it me or him

2007-12-02 15:00:18 · 8 answers · asked by babycub41213@sbcglobal.net 1

ok so here's the deal. the one thing i hate the most about myself is that i get jealous easily. in my past relationship, i dont know if my ex was really doing it on purpose but she always hang out with other guys and stuff. and she really hated it whenever i got jealous. i trusted her with everything i got but still i got jealous. how do i overcome this jealousy so that i may rid myself of that bad attitude if ever i am to have a next relationship. im a guy by the way. please help i really want to change.

2007-12-02 14:56:53 · 1 answers · asked by icriedherariver 5

OMG!!!
I need help....NOW!!!!
My ex rly wantz 2 get bac 2gethr wit me but i dont wanna. c, i rly like this otha guy. (also, n.e help on snaggin a guy who likes a dif gurl wud b great!)
sum1 plz tel wat 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-02 14:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by Cami 1

I basically said, "no more contact unless you are serious about us. if you drop the other dude and want back with me, that's fine, but i cant be bff if you are dating other dudes". she got upset about the ultimatum, but i feel i'm doing what's right for me. i love her, but i'm tiered of the games. will she contact me again after this?

2007-12-02 14:54:14 · 4 answers · asked by sportguy 6

I could really use some help.

2007-12-02 14:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy and me and him made out like 2 months ago. Anyways we dont really talk, and he told me he doesn't like me... but everytime i see him like at a game or something he is always staring at me. like even my friend noticed, she said he was lookin at me and i notice it to. i just don't know whether he likes me or not and why isn't he making a move....it's soo annoying. what should i do? i really like him.

2007-12-02 14:53:26 · 10 answers · asked by unsure 1

or only girls they think are hott or attractive??
what if there friends are there???
cuz this guy my bestfriend introduced me to made a move on me the other night j/w

2007-12-02 14:46:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy i know bought his gf Chanel earrings , yet he doesnt like her all that much..

2007-12-02 14:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you do, how do you show your love? If you don't why do you act like you do, when you don't mean it? Do you enjoy playing someone for a fool?

2007-12-02 14:41:47 · 6 answers · asked by terry 3

it was an online one . I knew him through a chat service and then proceed to chat on msn. I showed him my picture , but he never showed his.All you can see was a fallen angel icon .This guy and i chatted for about 6 months until one day i started having feelings for him.Strange thing to happen since i am very careful with the people i know through the internet , but i swear this one was special! he used to sent files about GOD'S glory , god in general and he was never rude , nor a perverted man , sex was never in our conversations unless i started talking about it ! he was discreet about this and told me so many sweet things about life , until one day i became very angry that he never showed his picture and had a fight with him and we never chat anymore!
Somewhere in the bottom of my heart i feel this person was a real angel , and that im never gonna forget him , lenin was his name and he was about 30 something living in chicago is there a chance you know him?

2007-12-02 14:41:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

please mention your age.

2007-12-02 14:41:10 · 5 answers · asked by slayer maniac 3

you - (you "accidentaly" bump into or touch him/her) "Ouch!"
them - "what?"
you - "it's just that you're so hot, i think you burned me."


it came to me in a dream (for some strange reason) and I've been wanting to try it out, but i dont wanna sound stupid in front of a girl so thought i might try asking what you guys thought.

2007-12-02 14:38:54 · 67 answers · asked by super_bean 3

I met this guy years ago online and we became good friends. We met 3yrs later at a bar on short notice & I happened to tell him I liked him. I was drunk by the time he came there so I felt embarassed the next day since this had NEVER happened to me, I never got so drunk and stupid nor told a guy I liked him. Anyway, he had not answered me that night but we passionately kissed twice before he left. The next day I apologized but he said, I was being silly, he had had fun but I know our friendship got shacky and things have been better for a year now. At the time I was getting back together with someone and we have a baby which I only told him at 9months but he thought I was joking. I have a feeling that he likes me but wasn't sure. Today on IM, I mentioned something about my baby & he didn't say anything then 15minutes later he logged off. Do you think he should be mad? We live close by but I hardly ever see him and if he wanted to be with me, why couldn't he tell me?

2007-12-02 14:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm White, and I seem to be only attracted to Black men. For whatever reason, I'm not physically attracted to White men. Parents are not against it, but I can tell they have reservations. I feel guilty. Am I doing anything wrong?

2007-12-02 14:36:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys tell us Gals what you think too!

2007-12-02 14:36:39 · 18 answers · asked by autumn 3

um.....guys , what flirting moves do you like most? because this guy that i like has a girlfriend and they are fighting and i think that they are gonna break up-how do i flirt in a non-pushy way that lets him know that i like him so that he will ask me out ? p.s. he told my brother that he thought that i was hot(that was before he and this girl started going out-

2007-12-02 14:36:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my current girlfriend have been together for 4 months on the 17th Dec. Looking at the situation and studying it hard. What we have is a mixture of infatuation/love.

I both show signs of real true love at times and so does she, but theres also signs of infatutation from both of us aswell, mainly her.

Simple question, what i have told you is basically what you need to know, is this our infatuation turning into true love? It's been nearly 4 months and she thinks shes in love but i can tell shes not because of signs of infatuation aswell. Is this turning into true love? We seem to be showing more signs as each day goes by. But we still show some signs of infatuation..

What do you think?

2007-12-02 14:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

she likes guitars, drawing, writing, and other creative things

2007-12-02 14:35:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

think about the one you love?

2007-12-02 14:34:12 · 17 answers · asked by Rayray 5

I would probably not admit to this in 'real life' but yes i have!

2007-12-02 14:31:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive liked this guy for more then a year. we met in class. i never had the courage to talk to him. i feel super bad like beyond words. I see him in the hallways, and a couple months ago he was walking downstairs and i was walking up. we paused, and he looked at me from top to bottom, and then kept walking. I dont know how to contact him. i miss him so much. what should i do??? i know where his locker is but thats about it.

2007-12-02 14:31:15 · 1 answers · asked by aminallover29 2

Is meeting someone in person that you only know from an online dating website safe? How would I meet him when we're on opposite sides of the US?

2007-12-02 14:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Brooke L 1

I like this girl and I introduced myself to her, we got along fine. She was friendly and didn't look creeped out. I just keep assuming that she might think I'm a stalker because we always ran into each other in the past. I don't do it on purpose... its random. We even saw each other at the train station. AM I over thinking that she thinks I'm a creepy stalker even if she acts friendly?

I'm scared that he smile is fake. I'm also afraid that if I keep thinking this then I will lose a chance with her. What do I do? Am I over analyzing?

thanks for reading.

2007-12-02 14:28:02 · 7 answers · asked by Closed 5

hugging another guy?
holding hands with another guy?
what is considered cheating?
P.S i'm 14

2007-12-02 14:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by little_rae_rae 2

So ive known my best friend for 10 years and we are both 14 now.He just got a girlfriend 2 weeks ago but i mean before he hooked up with his girlfriend me and him went to the movies and were cuddiling and holding hands and i really liked it and a week ago we were playing truth or dare with some of our friends (his girlfriend wasnt there) and i gave him a hickey and he kissed me and just a couple of days ago we were in his room all alone and he was touching my butt and i was laughing and saying stop it tickles and then yesterday before he left he kissed me on both of my cheeks and gave me a hug and then left..but he talks about his girlfriend around me sometimes..he tells me what people are telling him to do for there month anaversery and i dont know i am really confused and i like him a lot and just recently he started putting his arm around me a lot and he never did that before and when were at my house he closes the door to my room and he puts his arm around me and cuddles with me

2007-12-02 14:26:31 · 5 answers · asked by Jessy 3

Theres a guy that I really really like, and he likes me but the thing is he's a total womanizer and sleeps around and has never been in a relationship where he hasn't cheated. he told my best friend that he likes me and that he's going to change, but i dunno if he actually means it. Everyone is telling me that he's a creep and i shouldn't go out with him. what do you think?

2007-12-02 14:24:12 · 21 answers · asked by She 1

I am thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend and he tells my I am beautiful. I am not the skinnest girl.. Will he still think I am beautiful after he sees me naked with all my stretch marks and everything?

2007-12-02 14:21:09 · 53 answers · asked by In<3w/myBOO 2

2007-12-02 14:21:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Brief hist: met a guy things were really great instant connection btwn us...things just got comfy too fast fell into a pattern of being together like we'd been together for years instead of a few months. We tried slowing things down but realized we never built a friendship just jumped into a relationship. He asked me if we could just start over as friends and get to know each other to see if it would progress....is that just a line or do guys really mean things like that?

oh yea a little more about him: he was divorced (married his high school sweetheart) his ex wife cheated on him and i'm technically his 2nd gf.

2007-12-02 14:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do guys ALWAYS want to have sex?

2007-12-02 14:17:35 · 1 answers · asked by sabrinaa 1