Singles & Dating - 2 December 2007

my ex who i only went out with for a week is really making it hard for me to get another boyfriend. I think the reason is because i still like my ex boyfriend so when other guys approach me and ask me out i always end up saying no and its because i like my ex. I dont think im going to get back with him so im trying to move on but i just cant.
Whenever i see him i think hes so good looking why couldnt it work and he makes it worse by calling me "sexy" and names like that.
What should i do?
Thankyou xxx

2007-12-02 01:29:23 · 12 answers · asked by Chantelle T 1

OKay,im 13 and sometimes when i go out in public,boys my age or a little older will call me sexy.It kind of scares me though.Um,a 13 year old cant be sexy can they?O_O thankxz

2007-12-02 01:27:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Going to parties, talking to chicks and drag racing you know like that just to hang out.

2007-12-02 01:27:04 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do fabulous, independent, and over 40 women call the men they are in a committed relationship with? We discussed this at lunch and couldn't come up with a term we liked. "Boyfriend" sounds so high school, we're well past "booty call" and "boy toy", and "my man" is...well, it just doesn't work. Ironically, when a man this age calls a woman his girlfriend, it sounds fine. One of my friends has even started calling him her husband just to keep it simple (although she doesn't do it around him because then he'll start pestering her again to marry him). Any suggestions?

2007-12-02 01:23:29 · 39 answers · asked by besoseda 3

He is very funny and outgoing. He is a biologist and loves the ocean. He is all about global warming. He doesnt read much. He works alot. He is 25.

2007-12-02 01:21:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My question isn't "What should I do about my boyfriend?", it's more along the lines of "Why do guys stay on dating sites if they're not approaching anyone on there?"

My bf and I have a great relationship. We met on Match.com in June of 2006 and clicked instantly. The only weird issue is that he never deactivated his profile on Match. I get on there almost every day just to see if he's logged in recently, and it's generally "Active within 24 hours" or "Active within 3 days". I know he does not have a subscription, so he can't be contacting anyone, nor does he spend any time away from home without me, so the cheating isn't there...

I'm just curious... is this a fascination with guys just to see if something better does exist than the girl they're with? Or in a twisted way - could he just be confirming to himself that what he has is better than what is out there?

I know he shouldn't be on there to begin with, so no chastising... I just wanted some insight into the "why" of it all.

2007-12-02 01:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by isaiahallyson 2

If you let one go in bed, should you say excuse me or should you just lay there and act as though nothing happened. I think my b/f heard one the other night and now I feel like I need to confront him about it and explain what happened. I am ashamed though because I feel what I did was not very lady like.

2007-12-02 01:06:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was checking my emails and I saw my ex's messages that he send to me a month ago. I read it and I cried because I really love him and he shattered my heart. Then I was looking at my questions & answers here and my ex answer some of them. When I read it, it reminded me about how our relationship worked out before we broke up. So What does that means if you were always crying when you see your ex's messages & answers and Why am I always crying when I see my ex's messages & answers? Please be honest! I'm serious here! Thanks so much for answering this question!

-SadAndDepressedGirl (Denise N)

2007-12-02 01:03:01 · 10 answers · asked by DELETED 3

between you two? would distance be a problem? could you work even after you guys have met? or is it totally dumb, and you should just give up?

2007-12-02 00:59:27 · 11 answers · asked by Keri M 1

Last night 4 thugs tried to rob me in the park... they started talking to me asking if I had money (I said no)... then they pushed me to the ground and 3 of them started kicking me in the head while the fourth started trying to go through my pockets.....at first I put my arms over my head to protect it but then I started to hold my pockets so the fourth thug could not steal my phone from my pocket... I was holding my pockets and punching him while the other 3 were kicking me in the head... after a few minutes they ran off - they did not manage to steal anything from me.... but my face was totally battered and covered in blood...and I lost vision in my left eye.. I called an ambulance and spent the whole night in the hospital.... by the morning... they said I had heavy lasserations and needed stitches to my eye... I slept for a few hours in the hospital.
In the morning they called a doctor to do the operation.... she was such a beautiful and talented lady and took care of me so well

2007-12-02 00:58:23 · 4 answers · asked by Beast from the East 4

i like this guy as a boyfriend, he's really mature and nice..
i think he likes me cuz he flirts with me alot..cuz he's usally rly quite...and he teases me..
so we were working on our worksheets in science class and one guy asked me if like like him , infront of him
and i said 'as a friend'.....actually l like him as a boyfriend.
if you're a guy...what would you think about this??
and i have to ask yall something..
if a guy hold my hand i mean grab??my hand whenever im holding a water bottle or worksheets.....what dose that mean?
oh!! he can't date untill his sixteenth birthday...btw

2007-12-02 00:56:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

this happened because i said something really hurtful to him during an argument (my mistake)
i cant help thinking it's wrong to tell your girlfriend they "deserved a smack" for saying the wrong thing.
what do you think?

2007-12-02 00:30:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

i listen to a talk program called tom lykis...airs in LA anyway tom always has male callers who call to complain about their wives who were once hot or attractive..but after marrige they have let themselves go...and how unhappy it makes the guy...i dated a girl she was smoking hot till we moved in together..then after about 6 months she gained a bunch of weight and just let herself go...so i dumped her...i am sure people will say that is wrong..but why would i stay with a girl who lets herself go... i mean if i am with a girl and she isnt keeping up her looks or staying in shpae doesnt that mean she doesnt care? why do girls do this? its like most girls start off young and hot so they can get a husband ..then they dont care anymore and they get fat and ugly...then they wonder why guys cheap and say they still love them...i mean i know whats its like... after my xgf became all fat and ugly i still loved her...but i wasnt sexualy attracted to her at all. i wouldnt kiss her anymore

2007-12-02 00:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this boy madly in school
and maybe i shud tell u
his name is Fahim

and he has this distant relative
who also comes to our school
and he is called Jamil

(BTW, they both look kinda similar)

& for some reason
when i go walking around in skul with my friends, and i start thinking of Fahim

Jamil keeps coming infront of me with his friend

and yesterday
i went town wid my dad and brother
and i was wondering,

"what is Fahim doing right now?"

and i saw Jamil!!!
he looked at me in an unsual way
then we both looked back for a bit

den i immediately looked forward
and looked at him from the corner of my eye

tell me please
why does he keep coming infront
i doubt he likes me
well, cud he?
who do i like???

help me
pleasseee

2007-12-02 00:08:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous