Singles & Dating - 2 December 2007

there is this guy at college and since i started he has been whistlein starin and smiling he got someone to ask me for my number and then the other day he said loudly when talking to his friends that he hadnt yet got his phone but he also sais he would text me when he dose get it

what should i do?

i like him to

2007-12-02 18:32:01 · 7 answers · asked by Blondii 3

hi
I don't understand why girls want to fall in love from the age of 14/15 what is it is it anxiety ????? if yes then why is this anxiety can u pls tell me

2007-12-02 18:06:44 · 1 answers · asked by Amit 2

My girlfriend of 6 months went on a vacation to a different country. I haven't heard her voice in a week but we have been text messaging back and forth. There are days that she doesn't text me and she has not talked a lot about her trip. I am starting to get scared that she met someone while she was over there or she is changing her mind about our relationship. She will be gone for 2 weeks and i don't know what could happen in those 2 weeks. Can things change between us in that time period?

2007-12-02 18:06:14 · 2 answers · asked by John S 1

I never know what to do after sex.

2007-12-02 18:03:21 · 15 answers · asked by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3

Last night I hooked up with this girl, and we ended up at her place. I woke up dazed at 8am and she was'nt up. I snuck out quietly without even leaving a note. I feel like such a jerk. What should I do, I hardly know her. What's the proper way to leave, If this happens again?

2007-12-02 18:02:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend of 6 months went on a vacation to a different country. I haven't heard her voice in a week but we have been text messaging back and forth. There are days that she doesn't text me and she has not talked a lot about her trip. I am starting to get scared that she met someone while she was over there or she is changing her mind about our relationship. She will be gone for 2 weeks and i don't know what could happen in those 2 weeks. Can things change between us in that time period?

2007-12-02 17:46:50 · 1 answers · asked by John S 1

I hurt this girl pretty bad before when I was a complete idiot... I realized my mistake and I have been trying to fix things with her since. She said her feelings haven't changed but I feel like shes keeping her distance. She told me consistency would be proof that I was real. I have been consistent but I still feel like shes pulling away. What do I do??

2007-12-02 17:43:08 · 6 answers · asked by whitguy6789 2

i just started dating this guy about a month ago, things got serious pretty fast, (hes told me he loves me, and what not) and i found out he's talking to people he has slept with through text messages. How should i handle this situation. should i ignore it or ask him about the other women?

2007-12-02 17:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for about five years now. He says that he loves me completely. However, he cheated on me with his best friend. She had to tell me. I gave him a second chance. He has been trying to make up what he did. He DOES honestly seem to love me because he's always doing little things for me, from hugs/kisses to small gifts like decorating my room during Valentines. However, sometimesI feel that he's manipulating me to staying with him. Then, he tells me that he truly wants me to be happy and will be willing to let me go if I want to. At the same time, they're just words. The thing is, it seems like he IS willing to let go of me.. but sometimes, I think he's just lying. I don't know. Sometimes, I feel so lucky with him, but at times, I think I can do better. Am I only staying with him because I love him or is it because I'm too nice?? My friends think I'm too nice, esp. after he cheated on me. I don't know. Is this worth it? Please help. Thanks.

2007-12-02 17:37:39 · 26 answers · asked by CS 2

This ones for the ladies, i wanna hear from you on this. a friend of mine said a girl got put off on the first date when they went out together just because he told her about his job, being an I.T Consultant (junior level).

would you be rubbing your eyes 5 minutes into a date with somebody who worked in the I.T Industry ? maybe you have and wish to share your experience.

2007-12-02 17:34:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

to get laid before they are 18?

2007-12-02 17:19:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm still very much in love with my exboyfriend. Yet, he has moved on and is now living with someone. He calls me sometimes and says that he still misses me, and that he cares about me, and he's always calling me behind her back. Sometimes when he's drunk he'll even call me or text me in the middle of the night telling me he loves me and misses me. He says he thinks about me all the time and even dreams about me..
Yet, he's still with her. I'm so confused.

We have this distance issue...that could easily be fixed, so I don't know if that has anything to do with it.

Does he love me? ...or what...

2007-12-02 17:18:56 · 17 answers · asked by *LiLy* 4

even ones that i've been at the throat with,they've liked me more for it and have been nicer to me as a result?

2007-12-02 17:18:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

one night i textd him..and then his responce was that..actually he is my ex.he was asking for reconciliation 4 months ago..but now he fooled me once again..i was hurt but still i replied as if i'm okay..saying that that is his right..he's still texting me..i just replied once telling him that i will be busy for the following days just to avoid him..any advice?

2007-12-02 17:16:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm female and single, so is he, i met him at club last year and we had sex immediately on day one, we flirting thru sms and he texted me some sweet words like "i want to see you!", "i like you!", but we didn't go out for dating, just having sex couple of time, do u think he just wanna make it up with me??? what should i do???? should i stop having this SEX relationship with him, i like him, should i tell him about my feelings????

2007-12-02 17:16:25 · 17 answers · asked by daphne723 1

Okay I have asked this question but everyone was asking for more details. I have like him for 4 years.(He knows how I feel) (we never dated)Everytime I tell him Iam over him he denies it. Okay so we were sitting there playing cards. We were lauphing and talking and you know. Well out of nowhere he brings up his girlfriend. Ohh and by the way me and so and so got back together.(He knew that I already knew that) I knew they wre back together but ohnestly why would he be so sudden about it just out of nowere?I told him I was happy for him and that she was a good one but I think he knew I was lying. But does anybody know why he would say that?

2007-12-02 17:06:07 · 3 answers · asked by Amanda 1

2007-12-02 16:57:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with the same guy (the only guy) since I was 19 - I'm now 28. I've never been able to fully move out from my paren'ts because if I did it would be to his place, but he's a disability pensioner with a daily marijuana habit and he never leaves his house. Deep down he's a great guy but he has never actually come to see me, but sits back and expects me to go to his place, using excuses like "my car won't make it to your place" or "I don't leave my house". The problem is that I want to enjoy life and while I'm happy to have fun at home I do occasionally like to eat out or go and do things. For a while there a female friend of his who'd separated from her hubby moved in with her kids to help him pay his bills - she's not staying there now and refuses to talk to him anymore - and he said he thinks she loves him (he was crying when he confessed this). I know it's all so wrong but I have NO other friends and am very introverted. Where do I start to fix my life??

2007-12-02 16:52:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gf want to cuddle before and after sex. it ok afterwards, but before, my body feel to restless. Is cuddling before sex normal?

2007-12-02 16:47:59 · 9 answers · asked by Lost Drifter 2

(after a 1st time makeout session) before you should decide never to talk to him again. should he call you the next day or is it ok if he doesnt call for a week? i dont want to be a push-over, so how long is too long????

i know ive already asked this, but i need some more answers. thanks

2007-12-02 16:46:30 · 4 answers · asked by bluestar 3

I don't have anyone in mind. I am just curious

2007-12-02 16:44:32 · 13 answers · asked by John L 1

We've talked to each for quite some time. (about 7 months) and things are not progressing. He just recently got out of a bad relationship and he is one of those really sensitive guys so i think he is fearful of being hurt, so he guards his hear. Well anyway, I asked him if there is a chance of us having more than just a friend ship and he said....

Me:I mean if you tell me that there is a possibility of this going somewhere.. then i would not think twice about waiting.

im so destructive towards the things i care for most in life lately. let this settle and become part of our relationship
and see how it works things no rash choices

Me:so you would be destructive towards me?!?

i would be a prick, i would say things i dont mean, i would take away something that could be taken from me

not in a hurtful way

or harmful

honestly

it would be because of me, i would take away something wonderful, because I am not about to lose it.

What's does he mean take away something wonderful??

2007-12-02 16:39:30 · 2 answers · asked by lesh 1

She is 35 and I am 22, she gave me her number awhile back and when I made a move she rejected me( I asked for a kiss, after she told me she likes guys that take control) Now, when I see she asks if I still have her number? Why would she ask me after she rejected me? I don't understand. Does she want a friend or a boy toy? Please give your advice.

2007-12-02 16:32:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Two weeks into this relationship he started pressuring her to say 'I love you' & when she wouldn't he got mad.They talked about it & she thought he understood that she wasn't ready yet.A week later he brought it up again.When she still couldn't say it he broke up with her by calling, saying 'it's over', and hanging up.Five minutes later (literally) he called back & said 'scratch that; we're still together'.Then he called again & broke up with her. He went back & forth between dating her & not for 30 min. over the phone.Then they 'worked everyting out'.Less than a week after, he changed his facebook status to single.She saw it & freaked out.He called several hours later & told her it was over.She said she loved him in order to keep him (she admitted that).Then, they decided to talk the next day about it.They did & decided to end it.Several hours later they talked again & she took him back.He came over 30 min. later & said he couldn't be with her.She begged him to stay with her & he did.

2007-12-02 16:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend that moved here (the USA) from England to be with a girl. How far are you willing to move?

2007-12-02 16:28:52 · 28 answers · asked by annie 6

Is there a difference when a guy calls you "sexy" and when he calls you "beautiful". Please don't laugh at me.

2007-12-02 16:23:49 · 46 answers · asked by Budlightgurl 4

My boyfriend and I have been together for about five years now. He says that he loves me completely. However, he cheated on me with his best friend. She had to tell me. I gave him a second chance. He has been trying to make up what he did. He DOES honestly seem to love me because he's always doing little things for me, from hugs/kisses to small gifts like decorating my room during Valentines. However, sometimesI feel that he's manipulating me to staying with him. Then, he tells me that he truly wants me to be happy and will be willing to let me go if I want to. At the same time, they're just words. The thing is, it seems like he IS willing to let go of me.. but sometimes, I think he's just lying. I don't know. Sometimes, I feel so lucky with him, but at times, I think I can do better. Am I only staying with him because I love him or is it because I'm too nice?? My friends think I'm too nice, esp. after he cheated on me. Help! Thanks.

2007-12-02 16:23:36 · 11 answers · asked by CS 2

it's like when we(girls)walk near them their voices get quiet then when we go away they get back to normal....

it's so weird

2007-12-02 16:23:25 · 3 answers · asked by cutiecathy272 2

OK I really like this guy his 24 and I'm 18 and we've been talking a lot on the phone lately and I really like him a lot but this summer when we start to get pretty close and we almost got together he had sex with one of my friends and he just had sex with her and after that he didn't want any thing to do with her when I asked him about he said he said he just really missed sex and he told her that before they did any thing and his cousin is my best friend and me and him were talking one day and I told him that I didn’t want to have sex with Eric and he said that him and Eric had talked about it and he said that Eric really liked me and my friend (his cousin) told me that he didn’t think that’s all he want me for but then me Eric stopped talk b/c I got mad about him for sleeping with my friend and that was a few moths ago and now we are getting close a gain but I don’t want to be with him if that’s all he wants

2007-12-02 16:18:25 · 6 answers · asked by cfhjufdrbko 2

why does weight cancel out everything else good in a girl? yeah, im overweight, that's obvious, but im not morbidly obese or anything, im smart and cute and funny and quirky and yeah, im a little dorky but it's endearing, im artistic and thoughtful, and not to sound conceded (even though im sure i do) im worth it. i feel like if anyone gave me a chance they would be rewarded 10 times over, but it just hasnt happened and im sure it's because im not the perfect sized girl. i think sometimes if the only reason it's not happening for me is the weight thing, then ill just commit my life to losing as much as possible, but then my mind fights back and thinks, well why can't someone love me like i am now??? it's very frustrating. do guys ever feel like this?? i need some advice or input or something.

2007-12-02 16:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa B 2