I hurt this girl pretty bad before when I was a complete idiot... I realized my mistake and I have been trying to fix things with her since. She said her feelings haven't changed but I feel like shes keeping her distance. She told me consistency would be proof that I was real. I have been consistent but I still feel like shes pulling away. What do I do??
2007-12-02 17:43:08 · 6 answers · asked by whitguy6789 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You explained to her your situation; now is the time to keep your distance from her; don't let/make her think you are pushing her.
If she truly forgives you, she will return.
If not, it's time for you to move on.
2007-12-02 17:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Living In Korea 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey if you hurt that gurl badly she doesnt want to get hurt again its a basic human instinct stay away from the people or things that brings hurt.
Prove that your worth .
Are you romantic.
thats good you can make ways.
Are you hopelessly romantic
you come at the right place there's allot romantic people here.
I ddnt say im not one of them.
say your feelings in front of her
wether you cry in front of her its ok as long as you told her so.
PS do it in a place that is worth saying how you feel.
under the tree =)
2007-12-03 01:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. =) if you truly love her, your love will show and will manifest in everything that you say and do. to quote the bible, "with the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks". if you feel like she is keeping her distance, well, i suppose it's because of what took place in the past. if you have been consistent, that's great. just be more patient. =)
god bless! =)
2007-12-03 01:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by 1:57 PM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time for her to trust you again. If you really do love her and want to work things out, then you will be patient. Talk to her and tell her that you know you screwed up- big time. But yuo ahve learned from your mistake and want to be with her. tell her you understand that it will take time for her to be able to open back up to you, but that she is important enough for you to be willing to wait.
Wait. Work on your communication and do things to strengthen your relationship, in all aspects.
2007-12-03 01:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Meghan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be cool man. you aren't really telling half the story here....
work things out for yourself - if you show you are focused on that and give her a look it'll work out. good luck
2007-12-03 01:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look man what u gotta do is let her know and show her that she is special. i mean put urself in her position and think how she feels.
2007-12-03 01:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by NeKs oNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋