i just started dating this guy about a month ago, things got serious pretty fast, (hes told me he loves me, and what not) and i found out he's talking to people he has slept with through text messages. How should i handle this situation. should i ignore it or ask him about the other women?
2007-12-02 17:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SORRY,BUT THATS THE KEY WORD DATING,UNLESS HE HAS MARRIAGE PAPERS OR GOT A PHAT WEDDING BAND ON HIS FINGERS THAN HE'S NOT OBLIGATED TO NO ONE.IT HE'S TALKING TO HIS EX'S THAN WHO COULD HIS MAIN LADY BE??????IF YOU READ BETWEEN THE LINE THAN YOU'LL KNOW THAT YOU GOT P.L.A.Y.E.D.GET OVER IT, HE AIN'T MARRIAGE MATERIAL
2007-12-02 17:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by WILLIE G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well . you said things got serious pretty fast..how did u find out that he was talking to them?? Hell no , do not ignore that .
It is either your the one or your not.. you deserve to be treated with love and respect... i do not agree completly with the breaking up thing becuz there is no perfect relationship , and that one is brand new, i m pretty sure you love him and it will be hard for u to just give up on him that quick.. what i would suggest is for you to have a convo with him.. chose the right time , the right moment, not when he is at work , and is calling from his break or something,, that will get on his nerve,...wait until you guys are together and happy , after sex is always the best time that i talk to my boyfriend , u know how they hold you after ( lol ) ,,, well , tell him that something has been bothering you and that you want to talk to him about it , tell him that your feeling are getting stronger each and everyday and that you want to know what he got in mind for ( US ) u and him .. if he said that he wants a serious relationship , than tell him that you want to be able to trust him just like u want him to trust you ,,, but you would like to trust him but there is one or few things that are stoppin it from happenin,,, than tell him about the text thing.. ask him how important are thiz girls in his life.. and that if he needs time to get them out of his system, you will give him the time , but not to wait to long , cuz ur not gona seat arround and wait like that.. tell him that when he is ready for a serious relationship to come back and knock at ur door and that it will be open,, that line always freaks my bf out.. that is serious talk.. than see what he got to say about it
2007-12-03 02:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask him about the others and a whole lot of other things.
He may not respond well or at all in which case you may want to study up on relationship training and get prepared to deal with him and others.
2007-12-03 01:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the texts say. If he's flirty, then you should definitely be done with him. If not, then tell him it bugs you. Communication is essential in a working relationship.
2007-12-03 01:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by revjojelp06@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he trying to relive old times with them? or is he telling them you two are getting serious? find out for sure before it gets too far gone.
2007-12-03 01:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by joes_mom86 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is "what not." Anyway...tell him buh-bye!
2007-12-03 01:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋