I'm still very much in love with my exboyfriend. Yet, he has moved on and is now living with someone. He calls me sometimes and says that he still misses me, and that he cares about me, and he's always calling me behind her back. Sometimes when he's drunk he'll even call me or text me in the middle of the night telling me he loves me and misses me. He says he thinks about me all the time and even dreams about me..
Yet, he's still with her. I'm so confused.
We have this distance issue...that could easily be fixed, so I don't know if that has anything to do with it.
Does he love me? ...or what...
2007-12-02 17:18:56 · 17 answers · asked by *LiLy* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He loves you, but maybe not enough to be exclusive. That could change without the distance, but as long as the two of you are separated and he has someone to talk to locally he can become emotionally attached to another. You need to either take a chance and solve the distance issue or move on.
2007-12-02 17:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you still have room or spot in his heart, so that is why, he keeps calling and he can't over with you. That's a normal thing for us, we have realized that person still in our mind/heart if they're gone.There's a saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder. He still loves you and misses you and all the stuff you've been through together.
Just talk to him nicely, don't be rude because you are going to hurts his feelings, try to be in the middle of his current gf, tell him that you don't wanna hurts both of them, and he has to stay away from you as much as he can, if not, let him do the first move to say that he still loves you or he wants to take you back. Don't overreacting in here, try to be calm and have fun!
2007-12-02 18:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you two had a great relationship before and he just cant take it out of his mind and thinks about those times.
He may or may not be in love with you but it doesn't matter since he's moved on and is already involved with someone else.
2007-12-02 17:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he really loved you he wouldn't have left you in the first place guys can be real jerks when it comes to relationships i had the same problem i just told him to move on but i sometimes still think about him but then i think to myself if he would have liked me he wouldn't have been such a jerk there is not one desent guy that i've dated so far but there are many to try yet and lots out there
2007-12-02 17:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by angie lynn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Those drunk phone calls/text messages don't mean anything. If he can't say it sober and to your face he may as well have not said it at all.
2007-12-02 17:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by Craig 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Means he wants his cake and eat it too. He is a scam lose him...change your phone number. What makes you think he would not call someone behind your back if you were with him?
Wake up!
2007-12-02 17:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Why ask me? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he has feelings for u...especially if he calls u frequently & it's not just a booty call...I think wait for him tho....if he finally figures out that he does want to be with u...then let him come to u with no pressure & u will know then too that he is genuine...
2007-12-02 17:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is trying to keep u on the back burner may god bless get over ur left over and get a new meal if he really cared he wouldnt be with some one else
2007-12-02 17:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by tic22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK HE STILL CARES ABOUT YOU...AND WHEN PEOPLE GET DRUNK THE TRUTH COMES OUT....LOTS OF PEOPLE DO THE DRUNK DIAL...LOL...I THINK THAT THE REASON WHY HE'S WITH THIS GIRL ITS BECAUSE ITS CONVENIENT FOR HIS LIVING ARANGEMENT....OR HE REALLY CARES ABOUT HER..CUZ SHE'S PROBABLY A NICE GIRL....
YOU NEED TO TELL HIM THAT YOUR WILLING TO TALK AND BE HIS FRIEND...BUT HE CAN'T GO ON TALKING TO YOU LIKE THAT BECAUSE ITS NOT FAIR TO YOU OR THAT GIRL...
HE HAS TO MAKE A CHOICE....EITHER YOU OR HER...
GOOD LUCK...*PEACE*
2007-12-02 17:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means he's a jerk who is never happy with what he has and is always looking for something else. Sounds like he's trying to string you along until he's sure the new relationship is going to work.
2007-12-02 17:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋