one night i textd him..and then his responce was that..actually he is my ex.he was asking for reconciliation 4 months ago..but now he fooled me once again..i was hurt but still i replied as if i'm okay..saying that that is his right..he's still texting me..i just replied once telling him that i will be busy for the following days just to avoid him..any advice?
2007-12-02 17:16:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ignore and pretend that you dont care. he is probably doing that to make you jelous and to make you feel bad. =D
2007-12-03 11:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Alexa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I guess in the 4 month period he just felt you did not want a reconciliation and so he move on, you don't say why you waited 4 months to contact him. If he is trying to reach he probably feels bad and thinks he has hurt you. You know hon everything needs closure and I feel you need to speak to him one more time, and also he never used the word love for the person he is dating I would speak to him and let it be ok and done with and you go on like before during the 4 months that the 2 of you were not together wish him well and move on were you dating or with someone in the 4 months while he was waiting for your answer because that is a long time sweetie. I wish you the best and much happiness in the future.
2007-12-02 17:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your ex and wanted you back 4 months ago...and now you've decided that you want to get back together with him, first of all, you should have decided that a bit sooner, because now, as he said, he's going after someone else. You need a clean break from him so you can stop with all the up and down feelings. One moment you don't want him, he doesn't want you...then another moment you do want him and he wants you...but neither of you is ever feeling the same thing at the same time! If him texting you is hurting you, then you need to tell him how you feel...if he's your ex and you two are still on decent terms, then he should understand and keep his distance so he's not hurting you.
2007-12-02 17:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but i think he was just with you until he can find another girl. Like you said, he fooled you again which means he did this before. Im guessing when he broke up with her, he went back to you.
I dont know the whole story ( so dont kill me for this answer lol) but maybe its hard for him to get a girl so that whenever someone comes he goes right in then when they break up he goes back to the person he was with before that (you) until he finds another person that he thinks is better than you which is definitely not.
Dont answer whatever he sends you, sooner or later all the text and calls will increase and then you can do whatever you want up to that point.
2007-12-02 17:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by R-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl tell him to get a life you don't like being hurt and you are hanging out with some one way cuter and that should piss him right off
2007-12-02 17:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by angie lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stopp letting him walk over you
and if he just drops you for another girl give him the flick
and you shouldnt just let him think your okay and that what hes doing is okay get angry and tell him hes a F8*king idiot anything
your better then to let his happen to you
2007-12-02 17:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's hoping to cheat on the new girl with you. Next time he texts you, text back he needs to stay with his girlfriend.
2007-12-02 17:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continuing keeping yourself busy... obviously he is playing with your feelings and that is not cool... the more you ignore him the more he will pursue you... so be strong he doesn't seem to be worth the games!
2007-12-02 17:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he is dating someone else...
maybe he is just trying to hurt you.
Ask him to quit texting you and leave you alone.
If he would hurt you like that he isn't worth it.
Good Luck.
God Bless.
2007-12-02 17:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by BlondeGurl15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋