i'm female and single, so is he, i met him at club last year and we had sex immediately on day one, we flirting thru sms and he texted me some sweet words like "i want to see you!", "i like you!", but we didn't go out for dating, just having sex couple of time, do u think he just wanna make it up with me??? what should i do???? should i stop having this SEX relationship with him, i like him, should i tell him about my feelings????
2007-12-02 17:16:25 · 17 answers · asked by daphne723 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are happy with how the relationship is then no. although if you want more out of it then i would have to say yes. you should stop before you get hurt. you can't make it into something it's not.
2007-12-02 17:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by vanilla e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you are a booty call to him. If you like the sex and are OK with this relationship then keep doing it, (no pun intended). I have 6 women that I have sex with, we all know each outer and a couple of us have sex together (3 and 4 some). I have never lie to them and we all know what is happening. These ladies dates other guys and I do date other women outside these 6 ladies. It's all about what you want in a relationship. Just keep it honest with all involve.
2007-12-02 17:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way to find out if a guy wants to know you, or just wants sex, is NOT to go home with him from a bar the first time you meet. Giving him a phone number requires him to call and make a date...and put in some effort. This guy just wants sex, you are convenient, he has to make no effort...you're a booty call. Go ahead and tell him about your feelings, but he will probably just take off.
2007-12-02 17:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you might be female and single but he is not.
Now, if you stop having sex with him, he's not going to waste his time. Some texts, and he gets all the sex he likes, why would he stick around cause his "booty call" decides to make it tougher on him to get some? All he has to do is find another.
2007-12-02 17:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is not any longer a good purchase that you may do. you may not make your buddy have sex at the same time with her b/f. If her b/f would not understand the reason she would not want to have sex anymore then he's not any sturdy for her besides. i imagine your buddy is smart. even if if she takes the tablet she receives pregnant. i imagine she needs to sit down and communicate over with him. Ask him what he might want to imagine if he got here across out if she were pregnant immediately. being pregnant at a gentle age is not any comic tale. i imagine you should inform your buddy that she is being smart and to unload her so observed as b/f if he would not like it.
2016-10-25 08:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its usualy not a good idea to have sex with someone you've just met, you should probably ask for a real relationship, although if what you say is true its probably purely sexual on his part, and a relationship might be more then he was looking for
2007-12-02 17:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Joel S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How in the world did you catch feelings for someone that you are just having sex with? Don't tell him or he will be gone ASAP
2007-12-02 17:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want something more than sex, you should ask him how he feels/where he thinks this is going. If he says he just wants to have fun, then he's probably just using you for sex.
2007-12-02 17:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by D C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh sweetie :( thats so sad. leave him alone. your feelings are going to get hurt. they are going to grow stronger and hes not going to want to be with you. he just wants sex. he may like you but he is not respecting you and doesn't plan to. it doesn't sound like he is going to try to make a relationship with you. talk to him about it but don't expect too much. if just sex is okay with you keep going. if you want more or feel that you may get out, you are going to get hurt.
2007-12-02 17:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. OMG!! Don't be as dumb as I have been. Start over with someone new. Start out right. You know how to do it. Now, just be sure you do it that way.
2007-12-02 17:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Same Song Different Verse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋