why when a girl ask a boy to a dance the boy says no even if you know they are shy to say yes they still say no.(real life)
please be serious
2007-12-02 08:30:30 · 31 answers · asked by catz3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuzz they are too pretty sometimes
2007-12-03 14:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys don't know what they want but maybe he doesn't know how to dance and is embarrassed to make a fool of himself. I wouldn't worry about it there is always another one around the corner. Don't let a boy ever define who you are as a person they are just the icing on the cake. It can be quite perplexing to try and really figure them out so my suggestion is to keep doing what your doing to better yourself and before you know it everything will fall into place and you won't even be asking the boys to dance they'll be asking you.
2007-12-02 16:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for myself we don't know how to dance when were younger and our pride is easily broken when we dance goofy and or dorky,I'm older now and know some smooth moves so I'm comfortable,slow dancing is easier,slow,don't step on the other persons shoes,get the feel of the flow,it can be scary,the guy may really like you but feel vunerables :}
2007-12-02 16:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by smitrixz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never turned a girl down when shes asked for a dance
guess some guys have some sort of complex
2007-12-02 16:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by beasty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are not used to the attention of a girl, they get turned down so many times they get used to it, so when a girl comes along and she is actually showing interest in the guy they get nervouse and say what the hell, its really easy for girls to find dates, its hard for guys to find dates one guy can ask 10 girls out for dinner and only one can say yes but then change her mind later
2007-12-02 16:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by qtip23@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey they dont feel like dancing or just way to shy or cant dance dosent like the girl, waiting for a differt girl to ask him, thinks he to good for her, scared to mess up in front of her. lots of other reason who knows what gose on in a boy's head!
2007-12-02 16:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many are scared to just embarrass themselves in front of the girl. Other times they dont know how to dance.
2007-12-02 16:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by school21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they can't dance? maybe they're much too shy? Maybe theyre too old fashioned and don't like girls having the dominant role? hard to tell from your details, but it's probably one of those. remember, boys aren't stupid. I'm brilliant.
2007-12-02 16:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we either do not fell like going wtih them because we dont want to go with them or we have someone else in mind or we are too shy to be around a girl by our friends i know it sounds stupi but thats how some guys think
2007-12-02 16:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Awesome guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the boys you're talking about need to do some growing up.
2007-12-02 16:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by Porch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if that is the reason why he is turning you down. Maybe your assumptions are incorrect. But if he is just too shy to dnace, don't pressure him into it, but stand aside with him and ask him what he wants to do.
2007-12-02 16:33:27 · answer #11 · answered by otori_katsumoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋