my new bf wants to hang out but where can we go?
if my parents are overprotective,
and dont want tme hangnig out with boys?
we and my bf are both 14 and in 9th grade.
over each other houses? outa the question i'll be gone. my parents would K*** me!
any ideas?
2007-12-02 09:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
quick im talking to him on aim right now!
2007-12-02 09:30:05 · update #1
thanks in advance
2007-12-02 09:30:16 · update #2
if i cant even go to the mall or anywhere alone or even with my friends!!
2007-12-02 09:32:58 · update #3
hi, perhaps you could hang out in a group with some friends and gradually talk your parents into letting you hang out together over time -I always found this was best, if it takes a little while and you're still together, then it was worth it, If you have a huge row or get caught out sneaking by your parents and you split up - well then it wasnt worth it. Parents (and I am one now!) always prefer honesty and will treat you more as an adult for being open with them and discussing things and letting them take time to get used to new ideas... good luck. x
2007-12-02 09:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ceb 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It time to sit down with your mother and discussion to her that you are not a baby any more. You need her to trust you in what ever way she can. If your mother do not trust you there will be time there will be no bond between the two of you.You have to say mom, I am 14 yrs old , i am responsible and can manage my self you do not have to be over protective about boyfriend. I have friend and i know limit between them.
You can go to the mall with your friend and i hope that your mom will not be too over protective.
2007-12-03 01:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're involved in a very fine argument right now. See, most states are arguing that parents like yours are abusing teens in your position. And at the same time, those same states have parents rights groups advocating for MORE parental control of their children(think medieval times here). If anything WILL work and help you, go to the school and speak to your school counselor. If they can't(or won't) help you, you CAN go to the Department of Human Services in your area and speak with them. They are required by law (both state AND federal) to speak to your parents about their concerns that YOU had to come to THEM about not being let out of your hose for proper "social group gatherings and activities of the adolescent(read teen agers) human being".
2007-12-02 09:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea i have a few but it would be lying to your parents, i would never do that, but i htink that if you tell your parents (like over dinner or something) that you are 14 and are not a baby anymore then they will understand and let you go out with him. but you must also say that you are very mature and can handle things on your own. and say that you will be very respnsible. trust me if you use the words:
mature
can handle on own
and
responsible
that will tell them that you are ready.
(it worked for me, when i was 12)
chelc ;-)
2007-12-02 09:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by ~Chelsea~ <duh> :-} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the mall.
2007-12-02 09:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by julie b 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go somewhere with a big group of people, his friends and your friends.
2007-12-02 09:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by illdaretofly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your askin for trouble....
Don't get caught!
2007-12-02 09:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jus Me 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
movies? park? zoo?
2007-12-02 09:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by It's me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋