Like you know in highschool where there's dances year round. When a guy ask a girl to the dance, how are girls suppose to poilty say "no", besides saying like "im going with someone already"
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how do guys turn a girl down poliety?
2007-12-02 08:35:37 · 22 answers · asked by kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are a single female, keep in mind that all the other guys are watching to see whether the one who finally got brave enough to ask gets turned down. After that, the rest of them won't chance it.
One dance with a guy you don't like won't kill you, and if he comes up a second time, you can then tell him that you sitting this one out, but thank you anyway.
You can always walk up to the guy you do want to dance with and ask him. The worst he can do is say no. While I understand that school politics have certain rules and what everyone else thinks is of major importance during these years, remember what I told you for when you are out in the real world at a club or something. There were plenty of guys I danced with that I didn't particularly want to, but it also told all the other guys, "If she will dance with him, then I'm sure she will dance with me". I used to have them lined up to dance with me! A little bit of class goes a long way.
2007-12-02 08:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by diane_b_33594 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All u have to do is say sorry but no thanks..More of a question is why wouldn't u want to dance with everyone.Get out there and have fun...Be happy girls ask u...You could be on the other side.
2007-12-02 08:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is high school dance. Girls should not refuse without good reasons. End of the school days you won't be seeing most of your friends again. Why your boyfriend jealous ?
2007-12-02 08:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Orange_5775 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter always gets asked to dance and she is quite shy so she always says "Oh no, that's OK you don't have to." That way she doesn't have to dance and she asks like they were doing her a favor. It seems to work. If they persists she just smiles and says no thank you.
2007-12-02 08:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile and say "thank you for asking, but Im really not up to dancing at the moment."
2007-12-02 08:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Angel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I would just be honest in a polite way I would just say I am planning on going with someone else but thank you for your invite I am very flattered.
2007-12-02 08:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i don't want to dance right in a nice way
2007-12-02 08:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres many ways. some girls just say no straight out while others bring up excuses :)
2007-12-02 08:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ F@$H!0N ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm sorry, I'm already dancing with him. (Grab the closest guy.)
Excuse me while I use the restroom.
2007-12-02 08:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "i'm sorry but i just want to go with some of my friends."
2007-12-02 08:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by actresswantabe44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋