Engaged 1.5 years, but what I want to know is am I facing the same problems as everyone else or am I getting the short end of the stick? He never takes the trash out, I wash all of his clothes/dishes, he always blames me for everything, he never does anything special besides go to the movies. I feel like I do everything, and I am not sure he respects me anymore. The other day, he handed me his fast food garbage to throw away...after he passed the kitchen and came into the back room I was in. He sends me to get anything....Out of toilet paper....Thats my problem....Lost his keys, my problem again. I feel like Im on egg shells. We dont have kids, but I jumped into this and moved in with him, thinking things would be very different. If I stay, we have a chance of building something great. If I leave, Id have to start over completly with nothing. But, Im starting to feel like an Old Maid, and he isn't giving me nil. I am tired. I don't want to waste too much more time, if this isnt real.
2007-12-02 09:28:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Re-read what you wrote and listen to what your life is telling you.
2007-12-02 09:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth your time. He's totally disrespecting you. It's just gonna get worse with time, especially once you ARE married. You should do yourself a favor and get out while you still got the chance. Men like that eventually get abusive (physically). It seems like he's got you mentally already cause you haven't done anything about it yet.
2007-12-02 17:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by besaw82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You yourself said, if I leave, I'll have to start over with nothing...sounds like you have less than nothing now. Get out of there and take care of yourself.
2007-12-02 17:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋