time gauging whether he's all that interested. He calls me everyday sometimes 3 times a day or sends me a text.
Unfortunately we can't see eachother that much because he's working two jobs and has custody of his two kids. We try to see eachother as much as we can but it's not often. Sometimes when we get together, I want to be intimate and I'll try to come on to him but he doesn't reciprocate. We haven't been intimate for two weeks and I saw him last night and while we got close, we didn't. I understand his daughter was sleeping in the other room may have had something to do with it, but I really crave that intimacy with him, am I missing something? Is he really not interested in me? I don't get it!
2007-12-02 08:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm. Maybe he just gets really tired from work and taking care of his kids. Especially if he is 40is or over. I think he's into you if he calls you all the time and wants to spend time with you. I think he is just tired or has a low libido? What about just cuddling together?
2007-12-02 08:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am of the opinion that you should do whatever you think gives you pleasure of life.It's hard to get a nice guy as per your likings.He is your right guy.Have more intimate things ......it may not result into a long lasting affair....but, should you care for this? I don't think you are above 21 .You have just crossed the teens or may be you are still a teen.You love fun . Go for it.
Remember the safe days and the safe way to go about the whole thing......ok?
God Bless
2007-12-03 10:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is burning the candle at both ends. Perhaps he is too spent at the end of the day to think about it. If the kids could be sat for, try planning an evening out together and perhaps a room at a hotel/motel. Does not read like you are the problem
2007-12-02 16:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by midlifecrisis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your situation is similar to mine, me and my guy have been dating for 6 months, and while we do talk several times a day on the phone, sometimes for hours, something is just missing, it's the closeness that we women need. you know to keep us stimulated mentally and emotionally. with men as long as they can talk to you and know in their hearts that your there and available, that seems to be good for them. but not wanting sex, that does seem kinda odd. me and my guy have only had sex twice, basically because when we do see each other, it's during the day, when the kids are up running around. Do you think your man is having sex with another woman, and he doesn't feel comfortable being sexual with two women during the same time ? you see he could be in a sexual relationship with another woman, but is trying to build something more solid and long lasting with you, so doesn't see sex as an important factor in your relationship. that could be something to consider, I know it might be a bit embarrassing trying to tell him that you need to have sex with him to feel that closeness, but just tell him you feel an emptiness and void in your relationship. this will more than likely open his eyes up to the problem
2007-12-02 17:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize he not only works two jobs but he has a child in the other room.I think u are making to much out of it.If he is calling u that much then your fine.Maybe u should talk to him about this..Good luck
2007-12-02 16:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe bc he has two kids he might not want any more, why dont go to his house and spend time with him and his kids together? its alot to handle two kids!! he just might have alot on his mind from working sooooooo much and having NO time just for him self.
2007-12-02 16:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda sounds like he doesnt like you or he was tired. You need to sit him down and ask if he likes you.
2007-12-02 16:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋