Do you it is possible that after being friends with benefits for almost 2 years with a guy eventually he will decide to become a couple? I asked him and he said it is never going to happen, but he acts sweeter as time passes, so I am not sure if he is just all talk and someday he will wanna be my BF. HELP!
2007-12-02 08:35:17 · 6 answers · asked by sing_to_me_09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HOLD ON!!! dONT GET ME WRONG.. I AM ENJOYING EVERY MINUTE OF IT, I DO NOT THINK I AM BEING USED, I AM JUST WONERING IF WE WILL EVEN MOVE FORWARD
2007-12-02 08:56:07 · update #1
BY THE WAY, I AM 30 HE IS 28.. ITS NOT LIKE WE'RE TEENAGERS...
2007-12-02 08:57:52 · update #2
Are you hoping he will be your BF when he already says no? Its an awful predicament to be in, but sadly guys take advantage of this FWB status. Its so easy for them. If you can stay in it without getting hurt, then just enjoy it. But if eventually it starts to hurt (it seems it is now) then its not very satisfying is it.... We interpret sex with love, they don't. If you can keep your heart out of it and carry on, great, otherwise the questions in yourself will drive you mad. You also always have this thing hanging over your head which stops others from really getting close to you cos you think you have this partner that you like, and somehow it stops you from becoming involved with others who could potentially make you a lot happier. I have had a similar experience and to be honest I was hoping like you but deep down inside I knew it was as he said... FWB and thats all. thing is... all the benefits seems to be their way doesn't it, like, you want, they can't at the moment... but if they call for it, you move heaven and earth to be with with them. Thats what you have to look at.. is it equal and as often as you want or just when he wants...?
2007-12-02 08:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by dunwerse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so..... because if the guy told anyone friends with benefits i think he really mean it....... not that he don't like u or anything but maybe he got something else plan for his future..or maybe his too busy to be committed to someone and so there is no chances for you to become a couple or b/f i think ..maybe im wrong but am in same situation of you so i give up..... cuz they know we are so soft and are we so easy to work with ... so they take advantage of us...we don't see it that way ... we still hoping for him to fall in love with us or ask those question we waiting to hear from them...but im this situation never gonna happen .......its better to look for some1else or take your time and enjoy your single life while u can ......cheers and best of luck
2007-12-02 08:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by happy2befree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's in all likelihood merely telling you as a chum. the sole different element that he desires to do is while he finds a gf, he could tell her up-front with reference to the FWB dating with you. If she would be able to't take care of that, then she is the incorrect woman. He could never end his friendship with you because of the fact of yet another woman. i visit never end a dating with any of my FWB's for any woman EVER lower back. I did that once and had to start all over lower back organising new FWB's.
2016-11-13 07:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by slayden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guarantee this NEVER works. Friends with benefits is just a bad idea. Even though it seems like fun and exciting, someone is going to get hurt in the end.
2007-12-02 08:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by meeneh87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not likely. . .Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free? He's using you and you're letting him. He meant what he said about never becoming a couple. Do something better for yourself and move on. Good Luck!
2007-12-02 08:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's not going to be your boyfriend :/ Lets be serious! He knows you're easy because you're giving it up to him and you're not even dating; so that's exactly what he's going to continue to do! My advice? NEVER have a 'friend with benefits' - it's degrading and really pathetic :/
2007-12-02 08:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋