Singles & Dating - 14 November 2007

How do you extricate yourself from a relationship?

2007-11-14 19:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

Okay, say you're a girl and you're eternally single, but you have a high sex drive and more importantly enjoy meeting new people. Is it weird to casually date a couple of people in your early twenties? I feel like if a girl can't find a relationship, she's expected to not have sex. I can't get over this uneasy feeling that doing a lot of casual dating is kinda slutty. Opinions?

2007-11-14 19:50:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I can sing. I sing for three of my school choirs and have been told on numerous occasions that I have a "stunning" voice. I wouldn't go so far as to say that but yeah she wants me to sing.

Although I feel that if I do then I won't have anything else special left to give to her. I told her I'm too nervous to and that I don't want to stuff it up (which is partially true).

Thanks to my cousin and some friends she now thinks that I'm like a singing god and now I'm afraid I won't be as good as she expects.
So should I sing for her or not?

2007-11-14 19:40:20 · 12 answers · asked by Edy S 2

i have a boyfriend who i've been dating for a little over a year..all of a sudden he stopped wanting to see me all the time about a week ago i know we don't need to be together 24/7 but i do like to spend some time with him..this week he's not at home anymore..he calls me but it's always from a private number...does this mean he's cheating? should i just let it go?

2007-11-14 19:38:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-14 19:33:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do when you love someone so deeply and that someone is not showing any interest in you?

2007-11-14 19:30:07 · 5 answers · asked by yod 1

This is my high school sweetheart,my first boyfriend,i fell in love with him.We went out when i was 15(18) and he was16(19),our relationship lasted 11 months b/c i broke up with him, we had a longdistance relationship.He's been always abad guy,been in jail & all that,and also cheated on me that's why i brokeup with him b/c i couldnt trust him.We didnt see each other 4 almost 2 years.When he came back i gave him another chance,but he messed up again,b/c he didnt do anything to become a better person instead kept doing drugs no job nothing.Iwas mad,& i got tired of this situation b/c i do go to college and have a decent job, & thats what i wanted for him. Now his family is sending him out of the country so he told me he is leaving next week.We spent monday nite together i was happy,but i called him today if he wanted to meet up,& he said no b/c he didnt want to say bye,&dont stress or worry about him.he'll be ok.& to be good,i'll find someone that deserves me.i love him idntknow what 2do

2007-11-14 19:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-14 19:25:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find it thrilling when guys fall for me and start getting possessive over me. I fantasise about a guy crying over me cause it makes me feel loved.

I have never broken a guy's heart really but have come into close scrapes with stalkers cause I tend to fall for possessive men.

I am strange, I know before you say something, but in a good way I guess.

2007-11-14 19:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

Winterball's coming up, and I want to ask him. I don't know if he likes me or not (I have no reason to think he does, and no reason to think he doesn't!) If I asked, it would just be my way of letting him know I'm interested. The problem is, when we were discussing another dance with some friends, he said dances weren't really his thing.

If I already know that, should I bother asking him anyway, just to let him know I like him? If he says no, how do I react?

2007-11-14 19:14:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anita 5

hey, my gf was skinny and hot when we met, now 4 months later she is getting big. She is getting way to fat, way to fast. She is not pregnant, so dont ask. I mean, what gives women the right to just stop taking care of themselves when they find a man? I still go to the gym 3 times a week and lift. I look good. She has gone from a size 1 to a size 6!!! WTF! And then she dares ask me if she looks fat....i tell her the truth, and she gets all mad at me and cries. She used to wear sexy jeans and skirts, now all she wears is fat *** "juicy" sweat pants and sweat shirts. Am i being unfair? should i dump her? whats the deal guys?

2007-11-14 19:04:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

how did it happen? Was it just sex? or id it become a relationship? Please I am in this situation. Where did you do it?

2007-11-14 18:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by Road House 1

I am currently in a relationship of about 5 months....
We haven't had that many arguements, and the ones we have had usually tend to be about communication, not talking enough etc.... Well it all starts with the fact, that since I have been in this relationship, I know that I love this girl. No one else has either moved me, or made me want to a better person as this one does. She captivates me, in every way shape or form... I have had previous relationships before (I'm 24 and she is 22) and I have yet to feel this way about anyone of them.. I find myself afraid of doing something stupid or wrong and losing everything. I constantly think about this one girl, and how in the last 5 months has changed my life....

Honestly, these last couple weeks, I have found myself, getting upset over small things. Somewhat jealous also, and I am definately not the jealous type. I typically have been shut off emotionally when I enter a relationship and in this one it isn't the same.

2007-11-14 18:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by steven c 3

2007-11-14 18:27:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

well me n my best friend always go on the school bus 2gether but when ever were on there she alwys snobs me off and leaves me out so i decided to do the same i sat next to this other chick and completely ignored my bestie so she could feel what i was feeling then she goes to her cousin some sorta best friend i have doesnt even talk 2 me i herd but did say anything now im the bad friend when i was only trying to let her see how it felt

2007-11-14 18:25:11 · 8 answers · asked by me 1

an old boyfriend of mine recently got married. we are still close friends and talk a few times a week. although i've known him for over five years, he's really secretive and i feel like he could have another identity and i wouldn't know. after never hearing one word about a new girl he told me he was engaged. i supported him and gave him a hug and a "way to go". shortly after that, i'm at his house and see this photo album with his wedding pictures. he admit's he's actually already married. this girl was not a citizen and so they had a secret wedding. weird. then this week i found out she lives in jersey (we live in PA) she lives ina different state. does anyone else think this all sounds fishy? i love him to death and don't intend to tell him how to live his life. but can't help but think he's nuts.

2007-11-14 18:17:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this guy few weeks ago and he tells me that he doesn't like his gf anymore and he's planning to break up with her.
so we agreed in waiting.
i hung out with him a couple of times and my GUY friends
that are friends with HIS GIRLFRIEND treat me like
some hoe now.
they probably think that i'm a hoe for stealing him away from her.
but i'm not the one who is, (i'm not trying to blame him) but he came to me first.
i really like the guy but i really don't want to lose the trust of my guy friends.
what should i do?

2007-11-14 18:11:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met the love of my life over 2 years ago . After dating a few months I discovered he was having an 'online affair' . I was pretty devastated and left town for a few weeks . On my return he told me it was over with the other woman - they never actaully met - and he wanted me to move in with him . So I did . And its been incredible . We have the kind of relationship everyone wants - love , affection , so much fun , incredible sex etc etc . We havent talked of marriage but we've both said that we want to be together for the rest of our lives . I was completely devastated and shocked to find out , last week , that he has been in touch with this woman again for about 4 months - emails , calls , her sending nasty phots etc . I have my heart so invested in this man and he now swears it REALLY is over . I thought he had more sense - for all he knows this woman isnt even who she claims to be . I am at a loss of what to do . My mind and logic says leave - my heart is having a harder time .

2007-11-14 17:54:39 · 10 answers · asked by gypsy 2

i m not a virgin but i had a boyfriend for 3 years, and we broke up. i didn't want to give up my virginity.. but i did, kinda forced, but anyhow. i m dating this new guy, and i don't know if i should give it.. he doesn't want to yet because he doesnt want me to be unsure, but we are both really.. sexual~ and when should be right?

2007-11-14 17:49:03 · 17 answers · asked by pattycatty 2

2007-11-14 17:46:28 · 55 answers · asked by sunil 3

Here's the situation: there is a guy I work with who has invited me to his home on several occasions. He is generally friendly with most people around him. He seems genuinely enthusiastic about hanging out, but he seems to have a better rapport with other women that work there. I really can't figure out why he's asking me over - he barely talks to me when we're one-on-one, only in groups do we have a real conversation. Is he just looking for some you-know-what? Should I even bother to go, or should I save myself the embarrassment and blow it off?

2007-11-14 17:45:42 · 3 answers · asked by loneleegirl 2

why does my bf have a big butt? (seriously) no joke.
why does my gf have big feet? (he's joking) seriously.

10 months in our relationship and i really want more to come.
what does it mean when acouple acomplishes one year together..? is it just the beginning, what does one year mean?
what does one year signify in a relationship..? we've been through so much and this is our first time having one year together...weve had our ups and downs but we get through it.
how do we go on if we really want this to last....?

please & thank you.

2007-11-14 17:34:15 · 8 answers · asked by dani-gal 2

is it embarrassing if ur 15 and u still haven't gotten ur first kiss bcuz ur parents don't let u out of ur house and don't let u hang out w/ friends? ur not grounded or anything

2007-11-14 17:23:14 · 36 answers · asked by Mira K 2

WHY do people stay in relationships with Cheating, violence, neglect and question themselves? Especially if you aren't happy and need to ask someone else's opinion and yet you KNOW you are going to stay with that person.. what is your hang up about moving on? What comfort is there in an unhappy, immature relationship, over choosing to be happy being single? At least if you are single & have your pride.. there is potential to BE happy with yourself, instead of being STUCK unhappy with 'them'!?!?

2007-11-14 17:20:46 · 6 answers · asked by roguebarb 2

so there is this guy i really like and he likes me back, i love to draw, and he saids draw something for me, iono what to draw

2007-11-14 17:20:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been sleeping with this married guy for 3 months and he asked me today if I would go on a trip with him and his wife to Vegas for the weekend. I'm not sure if he is crazy or if he is hinting a threesome. What should I do?

2007-11-14 17:07:16 · 13 answers · asked by smooshcrickets 1

every guy that ive met in high school are complete dopes. i JUST started high school(freshman) and like, ive had alot of crushes, but later when i get to know them, i stop liking them...is there something wierd with me or what?
and i always feel as if im never going to find the "perfect" guy ( i no that no one is perfect, but i mean like a guy for ME)
im too picky ><

2007-11-14 17:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by xhottamaleesx 1

2007-11-14 17:04:35 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley 2

I can not explain why he keep silent for so long. After many words of love. He suddenly stop sending me message and calling me. I know he is still there, living his life as usual... The last met of ours is OK, I didn't do or say anything wrong. I have to be patient to wait for his explaination. But up to now... nothing happens....

2007-11-14 17:02:35 · 6 answers · asked by maxthechiller 1

Did it work out? or did the other person become too attached to you? Who was it with? Co worker? Or just a random friend? tell me. thanks

2007-11-14 17:00:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous